romitaNY
10/19/2006 4:33 pm
Last Read: 11/8/2006 6:39 pm
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In terms of playing games physically, men and women were always mismatched. Even now in this age and times, certain clubs and games are out of bounds for the fairer \bsexo?\b. Did you guys know that GOLF is actually an acronym for Gentlemen Only Ladies Forbidden. Yes its true and the tradition continues even now in some very high profile golf clubs like the one in Augusta, Georgia. 
However when it comes to playing mind games, I believe both sexes are at a disadvantage. In vain they both play this sport, trying to outwit and out win each other and both end up hurting each other in the process and themselves as well. 
We tend to play mind games during courtship, relationship and even in friendship. We give each other tests to see if the other passes it or not. Tests sometimes devised by ourselves, sometimes devised by the umpteen relationships and fashion magazines like Cosmopolitan, and most of the times devised by fake relationship gurus like Dr. Phil (god I hate that man). I have a terminology for these mind games I call them mind fu[kcq]k. Personally have been at the receiving end of many such mind fu[kcq]k, and none of the real kind. 
Why do we have to play mind fu[kcq]k, instead why can’t we perform the actual act. Why is it that a small three-letter word called EGO plays such a large role in our lives? Why do we need to outwit and out win our peers, friends and better halves? Don’t we all know the simple truth? It’s lonely at the top when you’re a winner. Why do we have to treat life and relationships as a game of GOLF, why can’t we treat it as soccer? What happened to playing a team sport? May be we should introduce mixed \bsexo?\b soccer matches in the forthcoming world cup or Olympic games.
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