|
||||||||||||||||||||||||
|
||||||||||||||||||||||||
 |
 | Blogs > khatti_meethi > Love & Laughs!!!! > Y r we INSECURE!!!! |
|
|||
khatti_meethi
4/30/2007 8:21 pmLast Read: |
No relationship comes with guarantees but then Y we always look for that only and suppose we have the person of our choice do we do justice to our relationship. Don’t at times we take the same relationship for granted jus for the fact that the person belongs to us. But here also even some or may be most of us have insecurities. Y the very first and foremost fact of a relationship is INSECURITY. I know its easy to say and maybe knowing this fact also we try to say “ no that’s not true ” but if we think deeply yeps we all r insecure some how, some where. Maybe we don’t show it to the person, but I think we should at least try to say it to the person what we feel he/she may not be able to take that fear out from us but trust me he/she must be goin through the same and by knowing what u feel, maybe the fight within ourself is over. 
|
||
5/1/2007 3:16 am |
khatti well when sumone starts taking u 4 granted well let me assure u the relationship is headed for doom. well being dumped is not at all great no wonder guys r so insecure, so just make him feel secure and he will more than make it up 2 u hehe  khatti since when u beccome insecure ? u r boyfriend having pyt as friends hehe.. well convey my hi 2 romita...
| ||
5/1/2007 3:52 am |
meethi  v feel insecure in all kinds of relationships. insecurity sets in even if the other person does not take us for granted. there is always a fear of loosing the other person no matter how confident u r on urself.and about showing ur insecurities to another person well who wants to expose their weaker side  right with close friends - YES v can talk about all our fears n apprehensions .. but in some kinds of relationships its not easy to do that now now now what did i say hope ya understood it  anamika
| ||
5/1/2007 9:08 am |
Khatti......Security about anything is absurd......Security of the man or security of dal-roti.....The latter is humiliation and the former is deceiving yourself!!....The fear of something slipping away is a great prompter.....it prompts you to excel, to give of your best.....compels you to boost your performance, in love or in work. Apparent security breeds complacency......Success brings security of sorts....... God bless U and your loved ones......
| ||
5/1/2007 7:37 pm |
Khatti dear Security should not be mistaken with taken for granted. A person can take his/her partner for granted in many ways. When a person cheats on one's spouse, then he/she has taken the other's faith in the relationship for granted. I have always maintained relationship is a two way street. We feel insecure in our relationships as our partners have failed in some way or the other to convince us of their love. Having said this, it doesn't mean that we always look beyond the shoulders of our relationship to see if any other shadow is following it. On a lighter note, the only secured relationship ever would be the one between a convict and his/her handcuffs Love u tons Romita Hi how's u
| ||
5/1/2007 9:06 pm |
GS the post wasn't abt me and yes i did conveyed ur hi to ROMI and that hi in her comment is for u ANA i did got every word of it did i WHISKY very well said ROMI i know what u mean the secured relationship sounds good
| ||
5/5/2007 1:20 am |
KM Gosh, So much already said. So just my Signature here. I agree wid your post, we all (most) feel insecure bout something and some point of our life. The ONLY once who dount feel insecure are the ones who does not posses anything. Best, Raj
| ||
5/5/2007 4:56 pm |
Ya know, I totally feel what you say when we take any relationship forgranted. I do agree that somewhere deep down in every one of us, there is some insecurities, but I don't think that all of us have the crippling types of insecurities that keep us from being able to have a healthy and loving relationship. I think that one of the biggest things is that we take eachother forgranted. We can start to get calloused (due to time together, or history with that person), and we can forget that this person you are with is the one you should love and respect and honor above anyone else. I have done it myself, and had to mentally spank myself for it. I hope that helps sweetie 
| ||
5/5/2007 8:47 pm |
RAJ CUTIE couldn't have said it better myself
| ||
 |
 |
 |
| Become a member to comment on this blog | ||
 |
|