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9/28/2008 12:54 am
Last Read: 10/1/2008 7:14 am
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I can not forgive Pramod for his recent actions. He is moving out on Tuesday 9/30. He made me cry tonight. If I ever see his face again, then... I've blocked him from emails. His "secret" actions over the last few weeks are unforgivable.
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358 posts 9/28/2008 2:14 am |
I do not get it, Is he moving IN or moving OUT or moving TO & FRO. Well nobody can be still like a statue..Well I do not get that topic on secret actions too? But whatever happened, I am SAD as you are SAD. I am now going to burst into tears aloud. Please do be alarmed or sacred. It may sound like a fire alram (stratagic warning)
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1725 posts 9/28/2008 2:32 am |
Quoting bom09821108110: I do not get it, Is he moving IN or moving OUT or moving TO & FRO. Well nobody can be still like a statue..Well I do not get that topic on secret actions too? But whatever happened, I am SAD as you are SAD. I am now going to burst into tears aloud. Please do be alarmed or sacred. It may sound like a fire alram (stratagic warning)
I'm sure I will forgive him in time. I'm not ready, yet.
I'll correct my statement. He's moving out.
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I've been interviewing for roommates. I don't currently have a job, so I need roommates to help pay the mortgage. It's really difficult to get roommates right now with the economy in a downfall.
I had found a great roommate named Praveen. He was ready to move into my condo. He worked for my old company... airline... He is the guy I wrote about that worked on my PC. He was perfect.
Suddenly, Praveen started canceling our meetings. He was polite about it. After the third time, I told him to not call me any longer.
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Pramod came home tonight in a drunken stupor... he told me that he signed his new lease with Praveen.

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Pramod knew about this action for weeks, and he is just now telling me. I will never forgive the two of them... Pramod and Praveen.
You can't just mess with someone's heart. I've given nothing but 100% of my love to Pramod since he moved with me in April. I've done everything for this kid.
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I'm so disappointed right now. 
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1725 posts 9/28/2008 2:38 am |
Again, Pramod and Praveen have been hanging out for the last few weeks. Pramod has never said a word until tonight.


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5 posts 9/28/2008 3:33 am |
Thats really messed up afterall you did for him. If I was you I would kick him out imediately without hestation.
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1721 posts 9/28/2008 3:36 am |
I wonder that you wonder and surprised too. 
Dear Candy, I always follow some self made rules: never mix up privacy with business is one of them. Roommates are business, hence cash+contract and you wont be disappointed 
YD 
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833 posts 9/28/2008 3:48 am |
Candy.....It's bad to be let down..but come over here and cry on my shoulders , till they realize what mistake they done 

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140 posts 9/28/2008 6:39 am |
I do agree to what YD had said
Thats the only logical thought any one should have
And don't be disappointed, today isn't the end..nor is tomorrow 
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886 posts 9/28/2008 7:49 am |
You feel like this because you cared for those kids. It is doubly hurting when you see someone you cared for acting out of character. Give yourself some time. You will be alright. Remember, kids act weird. You cannot go on hurting yourself over that. Take care.

VASHALAN
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1709 posts 9/28/2008 8:03 am |
Sorry to hear the prickly news. I agree with your Dream4ever, in that its a business deal, keep detached n emotions out of the way. well I reckon this comes under learn n dont do again experiances? You have a good week.....regardless.
Amor Stan
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1725 posts 9/28/2008 9:35 am |
Quoting Yourdream4ever: I wonder that you wonder and surprised too. 
Dear Candy, I always follow some self made rules: never mix up privacy with business is one of them. Roommates are business, hence cash+contract and you wont be disappointed 
YD 
We call this Lessons Learned in business. 
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1725 posts 9/28/2008 10:24 am |
Quoting TumareHoon: Thats really messed up afterall you did for him. If I was you I would kick him out imediately without hestation.
You might want to come over today. Anish went to play tennis. Ashish is going to work for a few hours then shopping. Harshit is going downtown with some friends.
I'LL BE ALL ALONE IN THE HOUSE WITH PRAMOD!
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1725 posts 9/28/2008 10:25 am |
Quoting langley: Candy.....It's bad to be let down..but come over here and cry on my shoulders , till they realize what mistake they done 


I wish to be anywhere but here today! 
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1725 posts 9/28/2008 10:27 am |
Quoting YRHabibi: I do agree to what YD had said
Thats the only logical thought any one should have
And don't be disappointed, today isn't the end..nor is tomorrow 
I know. I put a photo of Europe with the UAL logo on it in front of Pramod's door. He just now woke up, and it fell on his feet. I said this is a present for you and Praveen for your new apartment.
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113 posts 9/28/2008 12:49 pm |
Wow. That is very inconsiderate telling you at the last minute. I hope Pramod was embarassed with that thing you put on his door and commenting it is for him and Praveen's new apartment. He should feel really bad for his selfish actions.
SugarCookie 

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1725 posts 9/28/2008 2:30 pm |
Quoting SugarCookie: Wow. That is very inconsiderate telling you at the last minute. I hope Pramod was embarassed with that thing you put on his door and commenting it is for him and Praveen's new apartment. He should feel really bad for his selfish actions.
SugarCookie 
I made him buy me lunch today. I'm still very upset with him. Praveen called Pramod after I left a message with Praveen about this "news". Pramod said he feels really bad. He keeps asking how he can make it up to me. 
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113 posts 9/29/2008 1:16 am |
Well, he should just stay with you, and not move in with Praveen. A person shouldn't move out without advanced notice, not dropping the bombshell at the last minute.
SugarCookie 

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1709 posts 9/29/2008 10:26 am |
DRAMA, what would life be with out it? omething different ....I am sure. Well iffin its gonna make you feel anybetter, go make a nice dinner for him, and spit in it or somethin, , just kiddin, what goes around, comes around. The drama will be done soon enough.
Amor Stan
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833 posts 9/29/2008 11:12 am |
Candy...Don't settle with lunch, make him sweat
SugarCookie....I agree with you entirely He sounds more like Harshii
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1725 posts 9/30/2008 8:35 pm |
Quoting SugarCookie: Well, he should just stay with you, and not move in with Praveen. A person shouldn't move out without advanced notice, not dropping the bombshell at the last minute.
SugarCookie 
We are helping Pramod move tomorrow. Anish and Ashish don't like Pramod, so they are willing to help to get him out of the home faster. 
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1725 posts 9/30/2008 8:40 pm |
Quoting stanhootzz: DRAMA, what would life be with out it? omething different ....I am sure. Well iffin its gonna make you feel anybetter, go make a nice dinner for him, and spit in it or somethin, , just kiddin, what goes around, comes around. The drama will be done soon enough.
Amor Stan
I'm sure his arranged marriage wife will give him plenty of spit. 
I can't see today's educated woman staying with him even if she is of "traditional" values. I would love to meet his parents. Do they realize what kind of monster they created or does the apple fall far from the tree? 
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1725 posts 9/30/2008 8:45 pm |
Quoting langley: Candy...Don't settle with lunch, make him sweat
SugarCookie....I agree with you entirely He sounds more like Harshii
Once he's out of the house, he's out of my life. I don't appreciate people that take advantage of me and my feelings. He knows that I'm extremely honest and forthcoming. I expect the same from others in return.
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1721 posts 10/1/2008 4:11 am |
Quoting Candygram: Once he's out of the house, he's out of my life. I don't appreciate people that take advantage of me and my feelings. He knows that I'm extremely honest and forthcoming. I expect the same from others in return.
the only way to deal with ppl who deceive and abuse once intelligence A good friend fo mine used to say: fu** me once= shame on you, fu** me twice= shame on me 
Go ahead and let that rat get out of your life.

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1725 posts 10/1/2008 7:14 am |
Quoting Yourdream4ever:
the only way to deal with ppl who deceive and abuse once intelligence A good friend fo mine used to say: fu** me once= shame on you, fu** me twice= shame on me 
Go ahead and let that rat get out of your life.

He was supposed to move last night, but he is extremely lazy. I'm packing all of his stuff today while he is at work. Of course, he is okay with this assistance. He had the nerve to ask me to go shopping for him this morning, too. He is extremely lazy.
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