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I finally caught up on my sleep last night. Two days ago, I literally broke down and cried in front of my INDIAN MALE roommates to be quiet after 10PM; I'm a very light sleeper with light and voice sensitivity. I started a new job on 10/15 with ridiculous work hours starting at 6AM. I'm slowly adjusting to the new hours, but it is killing me! With the recent lack of sleep, I find myself agitated, angry, puffy eyed, etc... My co-workers can see my difficulties in adjusting. 
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11/1/2008 6:46 pm |
I would not trust anyone that doesn't cry. My sister..was always strong..to the point that I thought she was some kind of robot. I saw her cry once..and it truely humbled me... I was ashamed to think that I thought she was above that kind of humility. To cry helps u become a stronger person....doesn't necessarily make u weak or weaker.   ○○○ click here ○○○
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 11/1/2008 7:34 pm |
I would not trust anyone that doesn't cry. My sister..was always strong..to the point that I thought she was some kind of robot. I saw her cry once..and it truely humbled me... I was ashamed to think that I thought she was above that kind of humility. To cry helps u become a stronger person....doesn't necessarily make u weak or weaker.
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11/1/2008 8:51 pm |
Hi,Candy. Congrates 4 new job.now u don't hv any frustration,right? But u r informing about job after 14 days.u need to give us party. regards,
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11/1/2008 9:07 pm |
Hi,Candy. Congrates 4 new job.now u don't hv any frustration,right? But u r informing about job after 14 days.u need to give us party. regards,
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11/2/2008 8:04 pm |
Crying is not such a bad thimg for health. I had read somewhere that since females can cry they are not affected by stress as much as the males. But the insensitivity on the part your room mates is rather unwanted.
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11/5/2008 10:52 pm |
Hello candy i just read this now please whenever you are down or have any problems please feel free to talk to me i will be there and if i do not answer cell phone it is because i drive or am busy take care for now and phone me soon regards roses71 In life what ever moment has gone, --Has gone and will never come back,-Rajesh khanna
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11/7/2008 11:51 pm |
Hello candy i just read this now please whenever you are down or have any problems please feel free to talk to me i will be there and if i do not answer cell phone it is because i drive or am busy take care for now and phone me soon regards roses71 
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11/7/2008 11:54 pm |
Crying is not such a bad thimg for health. I had read somewhere that since females can cry they are not affected by stress as much as the males. But the insensitivity on the part your room mates is rather unwanted.  You do know that statistically those in US live longer than those in India. IT'S OKAY (and healthy) TO CRY! 
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11/13/2008 10:37 am |
I hate getting up too early myself. If any one dares he/she had it. I am not a heavy sleeper (I sleep like a dead rock), when I am tired or have a lack of sleep. You can say, it is another of my favorite past times. lol. I go by the rule that one must sleep for atleast 8 hours of day to keep your heart healthy. No wonder, I am so romantic.
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11/14/2008 4:29 pm |
I hate getting up too early myself. If any one dares he/she had it. I am not a heavy sleeper (I sleep like a dead rock), when I am tired or have a lack of sleep. You can say, it is another of my favorite past times. lol. I go by the rule that one must sleep for atleast 8 hours of day to keep your heart healthy. No wonder, I am so romantic. This weekend, I'm moving Yed over to the master bed's bathroom. I am putting a microwave and small refrigerator in the master bedroom, as well. These guys (master bedroom and single bedroom occupants) have such weird late hours. I figure they can keep each up instead of me.
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11/15/2008 10:54 am |
LOL, But the fact remains that what you can do in the first 2 hours of the earky morning, you cannot do it throughout the day. I mean there is more concentration and you complete your jobwork in a short time.
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11/15/2008 8:09 pm |
LOL, But the fact remains that what you can do in the first 2 hours of the earky morning, you cannot do it throughout the day. I mean there is more concentration and you complete your jobwork in a short time. Get Fifi fresh water Get Fifi fresh food Clean Fifi's liter box Wash or soak previous roommates dishes (depends on what they ate) Shower, brush teeth, wash face and get dressed for work Take trash out (on way to car for work) Here's my PM "house work routine" after coming home from work: Get Fifi fresh water Get Fifi fresh food Clean Fifi's liter box Finish dishes from roommates Change clothes Wash face and brush teeth There is about two hours per day that I devote to Fifi and others. I don't mind about the Fifi part. I do wish the roommates helped with the garbage, washing dishes... in general... doing household work... vacuuming, dusting, cleaning the bathrooms, washing the mirrors... My job seems easy compared to my home life.
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11/16/2008 7:54 pm |
Here's my AM "house work routine" before leaving for work: Get Fifi fresh water Get Fifi fresh food Clean Fifi's liter box Wash or soak previous roommates dishes (depends on what they ate) Shower, brush teeth, wash face and get dressed for work Take trash out (on way to car for work) Here's my PM "house work routine" after coming home from work: Get Fifi fresh water Get Fifi fresh food Clean Fifi's liter box Finish dishes from roommates Change clothes Wash face and brush teeth There is about two hours per day that I devote to Fifi and others. I don't mind about the Fifi part. I do wish the roommates helped with the garbage, washing dishes... in general... doing household work... vacuuming, dusting, cleaning the bathrooms, washing the mirrors... My job seems easy compared to my home life.
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11/16/2008 10:52 pm |
Here's my AM "house work routine" before leaving for work: Get Fifi fresh water Get Fifi fresh food Clean Fifi's liter box Wash or soak previous roommates dishes (depends on what they ate) Shower, brush teeth, wash face and get dressed for work Take trash out (on way to car for work) Here's my PM "house work routine" after coming home from work: Get Fifi fresh water Get Fifi fresh food Clean Fifi's liter box Finish dishes from roommates Change clothes Wash face and brush teeth There is about two hours per day that I devote to Fifi and others. I don't mind about the Fifi part. I do wish the roommates helped with the garbage, washing dishes... in general... doing household work... vacuuming, dusting, cleaning the bathrooms, washing the mirrors... My job seems easy compared to my home life.
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11/17/2008 5:41 am |
Yeah you sure sound like a housewife, rather than a working woman. Being in Mumbai, I am sure we are lucky to afford a domestic help, to do the washing, sweeping, toilets and garbage job for us. But we all members have a practise to do our own jobs like, clean and put the plates in the sink, wash our own undergarments, clean our own rooms, etc. Life becomes easy, when work is shared, and you show your room mates this message in order to pep them to contribute to your work load at home. I have learnt that life is not easy to anyone across the world, every one has his / her own share of problems. So far we have been thinking that the grass on the other side of the fence was greener.....lol  I've gotten on my hands and knees to scrub the kitchen carpet twice. The funny part is watching the roommates go into the kitchen and freak out because the carpet is wet.  Having a maid in the USA is more expensive than domestic servants in India. Therefore, most Americans clean their own home. We call these "chores" which are usually divided equally amongst the household. Most families give an $$ allowance on a weekly basis for helping with chores, usually dispersed by the parents to their children. By law, there is a minimum wage which varies from State to State. Illinois is higher than the Federal standards. Illinois employers are required to pay between $7.75-$8.25 USD per hour for a 40 hour work week to employees. I'm down to one roommate, so the cleaning has been cut down drastically. Yed cleans up after himself. He's from Ivory Coast, Africa. I guess it's a different mentality worldwide.
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11/17/2008 5:49 am |
Unfortunately one of your most compatible roommate is here in India.  I'd be your servant if you lived in America. I'd wear one of those sexy maid outfits, too, with the dust broom.
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 11/17/2008 12:59 pm |
CRY DEAR ....CRY YOUR HEART OUT.....A FITFUL CRY 'D BRING A SMILE ON YOUR LIPS...... With Love......always AND in all ways!!!!!!
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11/17/2008 1:03 pm |
CRY DEAR ....CRY YOUR HEART OUT.....A FITFUL CRY 'D BRING A SMILE ON YOUR LIPS......
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11/17/2008 8:20 pm |
You are such a tease. I'd be your servant if you lived in America. I'd wear one of those sexy maid outfits, too, with the dust broom.
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11/19/2008 10:42 am |
hi candy sorry for the new trouble but hope yu are getting good support from fellow indians and you are adjusting well to the new timings really its very difficult for those who have prob with light and sound and cant sleep soon as they go to bed i know this well becoz i face the same prob
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11/21/2008 7:13 pm |
No, your honour is dear to me. I'll be over the moon to have you as by girlfriend. I feel blessed that I now have a friend like you. 
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11/21/2008 7:19 pm |
hi candy sorry for the new trouble but hope yu are getting good support from fellow indians and you are adjusting well to the new timings really its very difficult for those who have prob with light and sound and cant sleep soon as they go to bed i know this well becoz i face the same prob
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11/23/2008 8:04 pm |
I have a feeling we'd be soul mates for the rest of our lives. Strange, but I think it true.
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11/26/2008 5:22 pm |
Soul mate is good but the other "S" is also very interesting.
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11/26/2008 8:07 pm |
I love you, too.
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