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MY BIRTH FATHER HAS CALLED TWICE!
Candygram
11/26/2008 6:38 pm

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11/30/2008 12:36 am

I silenced the cell phone twice with calls from my birth father. Why is my birth father calling me after so many years of silence? I called my birth mother, who is now divorced from my birth father, to contact him and ask why? I don't want to speak to him. She's agreed to be my interpretor.

Long story short, my father's parents raised me shortly after my parents divorced. I was very young. I was raised like an only child, even though I have 3 other blood siblings. We just didn't grow up the same way. It's very confusing. I have 2 more half siblings from my father and new step mom.
k4us
274 posts 

11/26/2008 7:36 pm

Big and complex family you have got. But strangely you are alone in such a big family.

Why avoid speak and find out the reason. If need be you are bold enough to give him a piece of your mind dear.

point_9mm_yahu
95 posts 

11/26/2008 10:30 pm

    Quoting k4us:
    Big and complex family you have got. But strangely you are alone in such a big family.

    Why avoid speak and find out the reason. If need be you are bold enough to give him a piece of your mind dear.
i agree..
otherwise your mind always think about this evrytime it'll bother you. so speak to him, might be he wants to confess his mistake when life is slipping out of his hand.

point_9mm
NAVI-MUMBAi, India.

mulrikris
617 posts

11/28/2008 12:12 am

.....same story here sweety..... but i just started loving him..... because... THE PAIN HE HAS GIVEN ALLOWED ME LEARN LIFE...OR ELSE THERE IS A CHANCE THAT I'D'VE GROWN AS A SPOILED CHILD.... SO IT WAS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE......NOW I AM THANKFUL TO HIM..... THINK FROM YOUR ANGLE...and if possible...... LEND HIM YOUR EARS....NOTHING WRONG...... DONT FURTHER DISTURB YOUR MOM ... SHE HAS HAD ENOUGH....

With Love......always AND in all ways!!!!!!

point_9mm_yahu
95 posts 

11/28/2008 9:51 am

    Quoting mulrikris:
    .....same story here sweety..... but i just started loving him..... because... THE PAIN HE HAS GIVEN ALLOWED ME LEARN LIFE...OR ELSE THERE IS A CHANCE THAT I'D'VE GROWN AS A SPOILED CHILD.... SO IT WAS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE......NOW I AM THANKFUL TO HIM..... THINK FROM YOUR ANGLE...and if possible...... LEND HIM YOUR EARS....NOTHING WRONG...... DONT FURTHER DISTURB YOUR MOM ... SHE HAS HAD ENOUGH....
Good suggestion in nice words..

point_9mm
NAVI-MUMBAi, India.

Candygram
2050 posts

11/28/2008 8:14 pm

I don't want to talk to him or anyone else from Indiana. The only person I talk to is my birth mother. She's different after her brain surgery. I'm done with everyone else. There is no progression. They remain ignorant. They are prejudice/racist. I've been "home" once since February 2001. I went home for my mother's mothers (grandmothers) funeral. I was there for 30 minutes and I heard the "n" word 6 times from my sister and nephew. I THOUGHT AT THAT TIME, I DON'T WANT TO BE A PART OF A FAMILY LIKE THIS WHO IS RACIST. I quickly came back to Illinois.

And no, I'm not racist for voting for McCain. I voted for a party and not a person. I stick by my vote, too.

mulrikris
617 posts

11/29/2008 12:00 pm

    Quoting Candygram:
    I don't want to talk to him or anyone else from Indiana. The only person I talk to is my birth mother. She's different after her brain surgery. I'm done with everyone else. There is no progression. They remain ignorant. They are prejudice/racist. I've been "home" once since February 2001. I went home for my mother's mothers (grandmothers) funeral. I was there for 30 minutes and I heard the "n" word 6 times from my sister and nephew. I THOUGHT AT THAT TIME, I DON'T WANT TO BE A PART OF A FAMILY LIKE THIS WHO IS RACIST. I quickly came back to Illinois.

    And no, I'm not racist for voting for McCain. I voted for a party and not a person. I stick by my vote, too.
.....good luck......

With Love......always AND in all ways!!!!!!

mulrikris
617 posts

11/29/2008 12:02 pm

every individual is unique .....let she have her way....THANKS....

With Love......always AND in all ways!!!!!!

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