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A Person Will Fall in this World
Kav1ta 9/3/2008 9:23 pm

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Unlike the human power of choice animals have been gifted merely with instincts. Some of their characteristics, such as biting and devouring, are parts of their natural condition, hence they cannot be blamed for it - one should only be aware and restrain them appropriately.

On the other hand a human being, when stating "I did it by accident", or "I hurt you without noticing", or "I insulted you because I cannot control my temper", or "I was just joking while I insulted you" is negating having the power of choice.

Since we are different from animals one should learn how to take full responsibility over his words and actions resulting in proper language and behaviour.


Developing awareness to the power of choice will eventually result in becoming a human being in the full sense of the word.


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nkskl
429 posts 

9/3/2008 11:02 pm

Yes--I do agree that one shd. take full responsibility--however at the same time --what now become the other person's responsibility and maturity !!!
- just keep on dragging the case--
- Hang that person till death!!!
- Or simply excuse him by giving him a benefit of doubt!!!! --
- May be it is unintentional---some time when two persons have not met Or communicated well enough, there will always some chances of communication gap or lack of understanding---
In the end if either of the person feel sorry for their behavior--I feel he/she should be excused (What if u r married to a that person!!will u divorce him /her for little little issues!!
PLEASE REMEMBER---IF U KEEP ON PRICKING A WOUND-THE BLOOD WILL RE-START FLOWING FROM THE SPOT--AND IF U LEAVE IT AS IT IS --SOON IT WILL GET DRY AND YOUR WOUND WILL BE OK !!

mrex
954 posts 

9/4/2008 12:59 am

There are people who periodically issue apologies all around to no one in particular.. I think it shows their goodness of heart. They will never hurt anyone knowingly.

VASHALAN

good1622
151 posts 

9/4/2008 1:48 am

We all have animal instint but we are also master in excuse.

foxxfireehottie

9/4/2008 7:13 am

wonderful blog Kav1ta....



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Peregrin20
184 posts 

9/5/2008 3:21 am

Kav1ta, This is an interesting post. I agree with the general sentiments, but I disagree with the opening statement. Many animals have been shown to make intelligent choices, and conversely humans can to a large degree, be slaves to their instincts.
Yes, we have the ability to make concious and sensible decisions, and we should strive to exercise that ability more fully, but in the long run I believe that man is just another animal, and we have a very long road to run, before we reach the peak of our development. In fact, there probably is no actual peak, merely a continuity, in which we humans in terms of intelligence have a head start on our fellow animals, and in terms of morals/correct behaviour can often lag behind.

Kav1ta
1184 posts 

9/7/2008 10:04 pm

    Quoting nkskl:
    Yes--I do agree that one shd. take full responsibility--however at the same time --what now become the other person's responsibility and maturity !!!
    - just keep on dragging the case--
    - Hang that person till death!!!
    - Or simply excuse him by giving him a benefit of doubt!!!! --
    - May be it is unintentional---some time when two persons have not met Or communicated well enough, there will always some chances of communication gap or lack of understanding---
    In the end if either of the person feel sorry for their behavior--I feel he/she should be excused (What if u r married to a that person!!will u divorce him /her for little little issues!!
    PLEASE REMEMBER---IF U KEEP ON PRICKING A WOUND-THE BLOOD WILL RE-START FLOWING FROM THE SPOT--AND IF U LEAVE IT AS IT IS --SOON IT WILL GET DRY AND YOUR WOUND WILL BE OK !!

Namaste Nkskl

We are not talking about 'dragging' a case. I am talking about that some should 'think before they act'.

We all make mistakes, and we all forgive those mistakes made by others. But if mistakes are maliciously made without thinking of the consequences, it becomes somewhat difficult to excuse such action.

Thank you for your feedback kind sir.

Namaste


Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples

Kav1ta
1184 posts 

9/7/2008 10:10 pm

    Quoting mrex:
    There are people who periodically issue apologies all around to no one in particular.. I think it shows their goodness of heart. They will never hurt anyone knowingly.
Hi Mrex

Yes, there are some who periodically apologize and yet do not learn from their mistakes. Therefor the apology becomes meaningless.

However, if a person apologizes immediately when s/he realises the mistake and the effect that mistake had on the other, the other usually understands and forgives readily.

Thank you for your feedback

Namaste



Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples

Kav1ta
1184 posts 

9/7/2008 10:15 pm

    Quoting good1622:
    We all have animal instint but we are also master in excuse.
Good sir

You are so right that most men have animal instinct, and at the same time are Master of Excuses and believe me, I have heard most of the excuses and could write a book about them for those who are still naiive, hehe.

Thank you for your feedback.

Namaste



Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples

Kav1ta
1184 posts 

9/7/2008 10:18 pm

Hello Foxy

Nice of you to stop by

Glad you enjoyed your time.


Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples

Kav1ta
1184 posts 

9/7/2008 10:40 pm

    Quoting Peregrin20:
    Kav1ta, This is an interesting post. I agree with the general sentiments, but I disagree with the opening statement. Many animals have been shown to make intelligent choices, and conversely humans can to a large degree, be slaves to their instincts.
    Yes, we have the ability to make concious and sensible decisions, and we should strive to exercise that ability more fully, but in the long run I believe that man is just another animal, and we have a very long road to run, before we reach the peak of our development. In fact, there probably is no actual peak, merely a continuity, in which we humans in terms of intelligence have a head start on our fellow animals, and in terms of morals/correct behaviour can often lag behind.
Hello Peregrin

I agree with you that men are often slaves to their instincts. While animals can be trained to be masters of their instinct If my dog makes a mistake, I reprimand her and she will not make the same mistake again simply because she does want to please and not be reprimanded again for the same mistake. While for humans it requires a few reprimands not to make the same mistake again, and I start to wonder ... is it our lack of memory, or disinterest in pleasing others?

Thank you for your views .

Namaste


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