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Kav1ta
9/10/2008 9:56 pmLast Read: |
Love with no reprove is not love.  While loving and being loved one must be ready for words of reprove. When two people are close they may point the things one wish to either change or mend, assuming this is a right step en-route better communication. Unwillingness to accept words of criticism is only natural. These words can hurt or generate fear of reduction in the love due to the flaws at stake. But words that originate from the heart engulf a blessing within - if indeed are meant to improve and not merely heralding one's ego. If we choose to accept and internalize them the path and the strength for a closer and better relationship will be discovered. The process of internalizing words of reprove should be done without leaving one's own personality behind but by metamorphosing old behavioral patterns with new and improved ones. Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples 
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9/10/2008 11:06 pm |
 
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9/11/2008 12:31 am |
So very true! What is more disappointing is their behavior in totally refusing to even look and consider a different viewpoint. VASHALAN
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9/11/2008 12:38 am |
Well said Dear Madam!!!Keep it up!!!
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9/11/2008 6:31 pm |
Did all these men who posted before me consistently fail to get through to their loves so just learnt to keep quiet to avoid trouble?  It was probably your way of getting your point across. Don't put down or make fun of them if you're really trying to be constructive for their own good. Otherwise, it's just an expression of your own resentment. I'm really talking to nkskl here, as I don't know the others.
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9/11/2008 10:14 pm |
Thank u very much Tara !!U always sound intelligent as u r!!!I sincerely pray God to keep u happy and may God put little EXTRA effort in your endeavor !!
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9/13/2008 10:10 pm |
 Nice to see you again after such a very long time Thanks for stopping by. Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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9/13/2008 10:15 pm |
So very true! What is more disappointing is their behavior in totally refusing to even look and consider a different viewpoint. You are so right in saying that. Some people's vision is very myopic, and yet they cannot see the impression they make on others. Thank you for stopping by and leaving your thoughts behind Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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9/13/2008 10:17 pm |
Well said Dear Madam!!!Keep it up!!! Hope you understood the meaning of my little post  Thank you for taking the time to stop by Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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9/13/2008 10:23 pm |
Did all these men who posted before me consistently fail to get through to their loves so just learnt to keep quiet to avoid trouble? It was probably your way of getting your point across. Don't put down or make fun of them if you're really trying to be constructive for their own good. Otherwise, it's just an expression of your own resentment. I'm really talking to nkskl here, as I don't know the others. Nice to see you here You said it ... most men believe that silence is Golden, and the value of Gold is quite high in India  Trying to be 'constructive for their own good' sometimes is a waste of energy as I recently found out. I need my energy for more positive inspirations  Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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9/14/2008 10:48 am |
oops .... did I say that?  Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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