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 6/13/2009 7:03 pm |
wow !! its very interesting indeed & one cant disagree with anything. well i will b in singapore in last week of june, hope 2 meet u if u like. hope 2 hear from u ! the "X" factor is what makes 2 people meeting 4 d 1st time comfortable .... its the positive vibes .....the aura of the person ..... the em mission of energy.... i can go on & on ..... will write a blog on it oneday.... take care & keep smiling......
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6/13/2009 9:48 pm |
FRIEND: A member of the opposite zeks who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing. I PROMISE,I DONT WANT TO HAVE YOU AS MY FRIEND, KAVITA.
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6/13/2009 9:53 pm |
KAVI, I FORGOT TO TELL U ONE THING. IF U R NOT A MEMBER IN ORKUT, BECOME A MEMBER FIRST.
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6/14/2009 4:11 am |
 and where have you been? not seen online much now days? Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD. 
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6/14/2009 7:37 am |
wow !! its very interesting indeed & one cant disagree with anything. well i will b in singapore in last week of june, hope 2 meet u if u like. hope 2 hear from u ! the "X" factor is what makes 2 people meeting 4 d 1st time comfortable .... its the positive vibes .....the aura of the person ..... the em mission of energy.... i can go on & on ..... will write a blog on it oneday.... take care & keep smiling...... Just gimme a buzz when you arrive. You do have my number, right  Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/14/2009 7:39 am |
FRIEND: A member of the opposite zeks who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing. I PROMISE,I DONT WANT TO HAVE YOU AS MY FRIEND, KAVITA.  I am sooo disappointed now Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/14/2009 7:41 am |
KAVI, I FORGOT TO TELL U ONE THING. IF U R NOT A MEMBER IN ORKUT, BECOME A MEMBER FIRST.  Will google it and see what's it all about  Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/14/2009 7:43 am |
and where have you been? not seen online much now days? Have my moments .... come in for a while, then need a breather again. Just checking the weather  Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/14/2009 10:45 am |
I am sooo disappointed now
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6/15/2009 12:36 am |
Oh! fantastic! N Y M P H O M A N I A C: A man's term for a woman who wants to do it more often than he does. (the heading was banned before, so I adjusted it This is quite funny [is it true?]
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6/15/2009 6:05 am |
FRIEND: A member of the opposite zeks who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing. I PROMISE,I DONT WANT TO HAVE YOU AS MY FRIEND, KAVITA. I beg to disagree with the definition of FRIEND in your dictionary of DATING,but unlke actionking 33 would still like to be friends,if you decide to stick to the same definition even.Of course,the privilege and purogative of saying 'YES' or 'NO' still remains with you
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6/16/2009 8:55 am |
WHY WORRY AND HAVE WRINKLES.... WHEN YOU CAN SMILE AND HAVE DIMPLES?   Touche Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/16/2009 8:59 am |
Oh! fantastic! N Y M P H O M A N I A C: A man's term for a woman who wants to do it more often than he does. (the heading was banned before, so I adjusted it This is quite funny [is it true?] Can you give me a better definition? and Yes, it is true that IFF banned this post for only they know the reasons, which in my opinion, are quite childish  Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/16/2009 9:05 am |
Hi Kav1ta!! I beg to disagree with the definition of FRIEND in your dictionary of DATING,but unlke actionking 33 would still like to be friends,if you decide to stick to the same definition even.Of course,the privilege and purogative of saying 'YES' or 'NO' still remains with you It all really depends on what your meaning of a Friend is. There are many who seek to be friends with me, but do not pass the criteria. To built a friendship takes time and patience, getting to know the person first before one can call it a friendship. Many confuse being an 'acquaintance' with being a friend. Nice seeing you here my friend Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/18/2009 6:19 am |
hi kavita, well u r absolutely right that people have strange expectations from ur or is it the other way around? people have strange expectations from themselves that they themselves dont know....i mean they r not sure of thier own latent desires & when they come face to face with clear hearted people such as us they just cant face either us or their own selves!!! men really want dumb females who r always at their beck & call & have little imagination of their own... u r spot on this observation but there r exceptions too....i adore a independent & truely enlightened female who is sure of herself.... i again had another shock.... 3 different people did not help me in my endevour to be on the panel of lawyers of my state & out of these three, two were very close to me & got many of their own works done by me but they did not help me . now i will never go out of the way for anyone i pledge.well lets leave the sour experiences alone... i may come 2 s'gpore in the last week of june...hope 2 c u..... do drop in a few lines when u r free........ avind
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6/18/2009 7:11 pm |
Hi Avind I'm sorry that you got let down by those who you helped. It happens all the time to me too, and I often wonder why I made the effort to help them or promoted them. But you know what ... it doesn't stop me from helping those who need help. It's just in my nature to be helpful. I'm just going through a phase to learn why, those who I helped in their hour of need for many years, have to lie to me for the most irrelevant things. Do call me, or drop me a note if you can't reach me on the phone so that we can arrange for a time and day and where to meet. Namaste Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/19/2009 1:42 am |
Hi Kavita, The stars r there 4 us to see with closed eyes They alwys shine in darkness & make us wise Never do they complain of distances or darkness To us they tell a tale to overcomes our weakness Just tried to complete ur poem dear....hope u like it !!U can add me on yahoo messenger as moudgilarvind....Will surely get in touch with u when i am there. Well life is a great teacher & i thank that i got betrayed today for if i had continued 4 long the pain would have been much more.We should not allow people to get close to our heart so that they can hurt us...what do u say ? Hope to hear from u sooon Take care & keep smiling Arvind
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6/28/2009 7:27 am |
hi kavita, well u r absolutely right that people have strange expectations from ur or is it the other way around? people have strange expectations from themselves that they themselves dont know....i mean they r not sure of thier own latent desires & when they come face to face with clear hearted people such as us they just cant face either us or their own selves!!! men really want dumb females who r always at their beck & call & have little imagination of their own... u r spot on this observation but there r exceptions too....i adore a independent & truely enlightened female who is sure of herself.... i again had another shock.... 3 different people did not help me in my endevour to be on the panel of lawyers of my state & out of these three, two were very close to me & got many of their own works done by me but they did not help me . now i will never go out of the way for anyone i pledge.well lets leave the sour experiences alone... i may come 2 s'gpore in the last week of june...hope 2 c u..... do drop in a few lines when u r free........ avind  Sorry for the late reply, and sorry to hear that you have been shocked again by 3 different people. But there is no reason to give up hope Wishing you the best of luck Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/28/2009 7:29 am |
Kav1ta ,I see, as usual from Kav1ta, words of wisdom laced in a wrap of great humour. Many thanks and best wishes .Nice to see you again. Wishing you the best of health Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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6/28/2009 11:49 pm |
Nice definitions!!! PK
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6/29/2009 7:27 am |
Nice definitions!!! Welcome to my little space Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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7/8/2009 5:37 pm |
FRIEND: A member of the opposite zeks who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing. Explains why I haven't got male friends. INDIFFERENCE: A woman's feelings toward a man that is interpreted by the man as "playing hard to get." Nice one. Have been accused of being a le.sbian or a man after letting down a man nicely. LOVE AT 1st SIGHT: What occurs when two extremely ho rny, but not entirely choosy people meet. Yeah, love at first sight doesn't happen for me. Lust at first sight, I suppose. But often don't act on it. Thanks for the laugh, Kav1ta.
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7/8/2009 8:04 pm |
FRIEND: A member of the opposite zeks who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing. Explains why I haven't got male friends. INDIFFERENCE: A woman's feelings toward a man that is interpreted by the man as "playing hard to get." Nice one. Have been accused of being a le.sbian or a man after letting down a man nicely. LOVE AT 1st SIGHT: What occurs when two extremely ho rny, but not entirely choosy people meet. Yeah, love at first sight doesn't happen for me. Lust at first sight, I suppose. But often don't act on it. Thanks for the laugh, Kav1ta. Welcome to my lil' corner I know what you mean by not having many male friends. It's kind of difficult to have a good conversation with them when their mind only goes in one direction Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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7/8/2009 8:09 pm |
i am Damm sure you are a PHD now..lol ..really nice tips..lol keep up the good work it was worth reading.. regards kiran
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7/9/2009 10:32 pm |
Hi again Kav1ta , Can straight men in your experience be just friends with a woman who is halfway decent looking? Unfortunately, not in mine. I don't mean to sound like I'm gloating. Women are more often than not unfairly blamed for men's arousal. How can it possibly be our fault if they can't rein in their own bodies and rampant hormones?! I can be friendly absolutely without ulterior motive even with a good looking man. Even if he were friendly back I would never be so presumptuous as to think he were romantically attracted to me unless he told me in no uncertain terms (with i's dotted and t's crossed and I'd still question him neurotically from every conceivable angle till I drove him batty as in one recent case) which is why I found the "indifferent" definition very true to life. It's the wild disparity between the s.exes in self image or sense of entitlement. A former male friend I was hanging out a lot with earlier this year who shall we say doesn't have beauty queen looks thought I liked him in a way I did not. And even had the nerve to put down my looks in a pre-emptive strike, an expression of his own insecurities. All because I was always nice, kind, attentive to him. This is a trait of some men I dislike heartily: They can't be nice without expecting anything in return.
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7/13/2009 5:35 am |
i am Damm sure you are a PHD now..lol ..really nice tips..lol keep up the good work it was worth reading.. regards kiran Thanks for the laugh Kiran Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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7/13/2009 5:51 am |
Hi again Kav1ta , Can straight men in your experience be just friends with a woman who is halfway decent looking? Unfortunately, not in mine. I don't mean to sound like I'm gloating. Women are more often than not unfairly blamed for men's arousal. How can it possibly be our fault if they can't rein in their own bodies and rampant hormones?! I can be friendly absolutely without ulterior motive even with a good looking man. Even if he were friendly back I would never be so presumptuous as to think he were romantically attracted to me unless he told me in no uncertain terms (with i's dotted and t's crossed and I'd still question him neurotically from every conceivable angle till I drove him batty as in one recent case) which is why I found the "indifferent" definition very true to life. It's the wild disparity between the s.exes in self image or sense of entitlement. A former male friend I was hanging out a lot with earlier this year who shall we say doesn't have beauty queen looks thought I liked him in a way I did not. And even had the nerve to put down my looks in a pre-emptive strike, an expression of his own insecurities. All because I was always nice, kind, attentive to him. This is a trait of some men I dislike heartily: They can't be nice without expecting anything in return. However, in Europe it is so much easier to 'just be friends' with a male. Go out for a bite to eat and have a great time doing silly things, without any indications of romance or entanglement. Just clean fun. I once went to Paris with a platonic friend. It was one of the nicest holiday I experienced, every day was just pure fun, and holding hands was just for not getting lost in the crowd. Yes, we can be 'just friends' with men, Absolutely. However, whatever goes on in their mind and in the southern region is totally up to them to handle ... later by themselves Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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7/13/2009 8:18 am |
wowww now this man walks in betwen in his joker out fit and asks ya which is your toothpaste, lol your teeths are shining so bright, and lucky dentist,.,hehehehehe,
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7/15/2009 8:30 am |
Aren't your teeth nice and shining when you smile Kiran? Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples
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7/15/2009 11:55 pm |
Aren't your teeth nice and shining when you smile Kiran? by the whats your tooth paste, colgate..? or closeup..? lol
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7/21/2009 9:08 pm |
Hey Kav1ta, You must be right. I was speaking for most Asian men here. I spent 14 years in England and had friendships across the board with many nationalities and ethnicities, having worked in inner city adult education with immigrants and asylum seekers from all the trouble spots in the world and had connections with NGO groups. The dating scene in Singapore is pretty dire and narrow, something about this place challenges and affects even the best of intentions if you allow it to, which is why after giving a good go of dating Singaporeans and Malaysians I've searched further afield. Perhaps the quest is almost over. One of the most rewarding and uplifting friendships I've had is with a single man called P, from Delhi. Thus, we always live in hope. Warmest regards, Tara
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