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10/2/2008 3:27 am |
Bella, Please know the following is said with respect, loving kindness and in the pure interests of your highest good. Forgive me for the liberties I'm about to take. I hate seeing my friends bearing unnecessary crosses, making the same mistakes I have but on an even larger, self flagellating scale. It's probably something you don't want to hear, but the guy gets off on his power over you. He won't give of himself completely nor does he have the testicles to make a clean break. He enjoys pulling the puppet strings to see you dance for him. You're at his complete mercy in the most negative sense. And the most painful thing of all? It is you who has been giving him permission to do it. You won't let it go and I'm certain you haven't contacted Roberta because you don't actually want to know what may be the unpleasant reality of your actual soul contract with this man that has little to do with past lifetimes of mutual love and support. You can't convince or make someone fall in love with you, no matter how you rail against the fates, how unfair it all seems to be. Nor will collective sympathy bring him round to you either, will it? All he is now is your excuse for not living. These are my last words on the subject. xo
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10/2/2008 5:46 am |
RDT is probably right. Your friends can only watch and feel you hurting. They cannot share the weight on your mind. Everyone carry some weight on their minds, right? You can express it and share the pain. Think about those who cannot express for various reasons and hence have to suffer the pain and burden all alone. Love should be banned!!! VASHALAN
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10/2/2008 10:08 am |
Red, mrex ... Please understand if I don't post a reply at this time, but know that I thank you for your comments all the same. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/2/2008 7:05 pm |
dear girl, appears u r deeply hurt, but r very logical and philosophical about it.get over it and fight life again. i know this is easier said than done, but i am sure u have the courage and strength to do it. with love!!!
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10/2/2008 8:32 pm |
namaste amos .. and welcome to my blog. You get a warm hug for being the 1000th visitor  Although I appreciate your kind words and advice, I would rather not make any further comments at this time. I hope you understand. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/3/2008 3:56 am |
Intelligent Sweetst Angel,,,,,,,, ISA, LOVE IS NO5T ONLY THE BEATS OF THE HEART BUT IT'S THE HOLINESS OF THE SOUL OF 2 PERSONS WISHING TO COMBINE!!!!!!!!!!!! SWEET AND EYECATCHING POST DARLING. WITH LOVE ---------------- LOVE U HUNGRY 
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10/16/2008 8:45 am |
O bird of the morning, learn love from the moth Because it burnt, lost its life, and found no voice. These pretenders are ignorantly in search of Him, Because he who obtained knowledge has not returned. Sheikh Muslih-uddin Sa'di Shirazi - The Gulistan of Sa'di Isabella, Isn't it better to have loved and lost rather than not knowing love at all? I do not know if you have lost or gained. However, I am sure that you have loved. Gaining is destination reached. Don't you think that one loses the value of a thing that he already has? I feel that those who love truely, always have a sense of not having loved enough and also of not being loved enough. I feel that this is fine. It is wonderful that you have that eternal fountain of love inside. and I am sure one day you will find the true meaning. And then, losses and gains won't matter. Pleasures and pain will not matter. You will know that they are different degrees of the same feeling. Longing is the core of mystery. Longing itself brings the cure. The only rule is, Suffer the pain. Your desire must be disciplined, and what you want to happen in time, sacrificed. Rumi Never stop loving the way you do Isabella. That alone will open up the meaning of life to you. Even when the meaning turns out that there is no meaning to life.
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10/17/2008 6:10 pm |
arjan - I loved your comment and I would have to agree on at least one point. People do tend to lose the value of things they already own ... be it material possessions or that which we cannot see with our eyes, but only feel with our heart - an emotion such as love. I don't think that I can truly say I've gained, if you think of gaining as a destination reached. You see I've loved Prakash for almost 4 years ... and yet never once would I ever say I've even come close to reaching my destination. He gives me a little bit and then takes it back .. gives a little bit and then takes it back. It's so hard on me, but I continue to care because .. yes .. the reward is in knowing that I have truly loved. And that's something that no amount of money could ever buy. He has inspired my creativity and continues to be the spark that lights my flame, and I wouldn't trade loving him for anything in this world. I will take the memory of him with me even after I die, for he is my heart. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/18/2008 1:29 am |
Isabella, the whole world loves a lover. this does not mean that the world can help you out in any way. at times the world may conspire otherwise. but, yes, you will find people who understand you. i have seen both sides of love. i have loved and lost and then someone loved me and lost. i have nothing in hand now by way of love, but i am glad that i understand love. that is why i can understand your love for someone. take care. life is much more beautiful than anything. sometimes we feel that if we aren't loved enough, life is not worth living. No! life is beautiful anyway. love is its most beautiful embellishment. some find it. no one understands it as much as the one who has lost it. but i have a feeling that one day i will find true love. May be that not in the same form as I want it. and so it will be with you. thanks Isabella, it was worth talking to you on this.
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