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10/8/2008 1:04 am |
My first love as you you describe, was my exwife. We were married in DEC 2005. As we progressed 6 months down the line, I grew much fond of her, so much so that, till date, I feel the pain, when she is in pain, I feel the sadness, when she is sad and feel excited for no reason at all, when she is happy. Probably, my first and last love ever in this birth. The only difference is that the love was one sided. I was pained to know, she never ever cared for me, but, I still don't know, am I so attached to her, that I feel her, even though, she is beyond my sight and reach now. 
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10/8/2008 1:50 am |
Never, by your definition. I can give love but will not allow it to be mutual, if I can help it. Weird and contradictory, isn't it? What does Quantum Physics got to do with love?  VASHALAN
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10/8/2008 3:30 am |
Hmmmmmmmmm INTELLIGENT SWEETEST ANGEL.......... SO YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY EVERY THOUGHT, EVERY DREAM...HOT OR MAY BE SWEETTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HEYYYYYYYYYYY AS " CATCHY " AS YOUUUUUUUUUUUUU, I MEAN THIS POST HA! WITH LOVE ------------- LOVE U ALWAYS 
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10/8/2008 6:58 am |
ISABELLAAAAAAAAA........ this song is beautiful and it has such meaning with amazing love in how she sings it.... the unbreakable kind. The kind that moves mountains, builds monuments and launches a thousand ships. The kind that inspires poets, gives birth to dreamers and puts even the most magnificent of Heaven's stars to shame. you know that is right on the mark... wonderful blog  ~Don't just count your blessings......share them~
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10/8/2008 7:05 am |
oh i forgot to tell you great blog picture ...really cool! ~Don't just count your blessings......share them~
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10/8/2008 9:56 am |
it's all O0O_000_O0O
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10/8/2008 5:45 pm |
bommmmm .. such a touching story. On the one hand it's devastating when you realize that the one person you love more than anything in this world just doesn't feel the same - but on the other hand ... isn't it amazing to know that you are indeed capable of this kind of love? There are millions of people who will go to their graves never knowing how it feels to love someone this much (like mrex over there ... hahaha just kidding). Close your eyes and breathe deeply - reach out through time and space and draw this person close. As long as you continue to hold them in your thoughts .. they will be with you forever. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/8/2008 8:09 pm |
well actually mrex .. Quantum Physics has absolutely nothing to do with love - I was just in one of those moods when I was naming the post. Not everything has to follow a logical course whether it be in life .. or in love. Hmmmmmmmn ... so you can give love but will not allow someone to love you in return. Tell me something hun .. do you think you're deserving of love? But purrrhaps more importantly ... do you love yourself? Just pondering the possibilities ... ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/8/2008 8:12 pm |
hungryyyyyyy - as I said before to bom .. for as long as you hold someone close in your mind and in your heart, they can never be truly gone from your life. Thanks for holding me close. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/8/2008 8:16 pm |
foxxxxxxxxxxxxxxy ... welcome back girl! It's been so long since I've seen you here visiting my blog. Sure hope everything is flowing smoothly in your life and that your little family is happy and healthy! Thank you once again for loving my post. It was inspired by the purest form of love I have ever felt for another human being. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/8/2008 8:17 pm |
ACID .. it's all crazy until you understand the magic! ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/8/2008 10:20 pm |
well actually mrex .. Quantum Physics has absolutely nothing to do with love - I was just in one of those moods when I was naming the post. Not everything has to follow a logical course whether it be in life .. or in love. Hmmmmmmmn ... so you can give love but will not allow someone to love you in return. Tell me something hun .. do you think you're deserving of love? But purrrhaps more importantly ... do you love yourself? Just pondering the possibilities ... VASHALAN
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10/9/2008 10:04 pm |
Rule #1 in love mrex ... NEVER, EVER, EVER (under any circumstance) sacrifice your identity for the other person. Each of you brings something unique and complimentary into the relationship and that's what makes it work. You are contributing one half to make up the whole. Once you start losing yourself in that relationship then you let yourself become absorbed by your mate - often times slipping into a dependency based flow which is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. Sometimes people let themselves become emotionally dependent on the other person and when the relationship ends they find themselves lost, with no direction or purpose to their lives. I've seen this happen to many of my friends over and over again. They feel as though they have no self identity without their significant other in their lives. P.S. As a side note .. Not all love relationships end in hurt. Remember to look on the bright side. The glass is still half full! ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/11/2008 8:50 am |
A page from Neruda may act as a supplementary fulcrum of the thought process albeit the inadequacy of translation: I do not love you as if you were a salt rose, or topaz or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off. I love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul. I love you as the plant that never blooms but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers; thanks to your love, a certain solid fragrance, risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body. I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; So I love you because I know no other way than this: where I do not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep. And for the quantum physics, the string theory still holds, within the duality of wave particle dichotomy. Take care, K.
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10/13/2008 8:45 pm |
thanks once again for adding a touch of class to my posts S. I love the way your words transform me. Much love K ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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10/25/2008 8:30 am |
ISABELLA, Love is not lust. Love is not a covenant also. it is not the social relations as well. It may be due to a chemical release in the blood stream. But the question remains, why the chemical is released after all? Only those who have loved will know love. There are no losses or gains in love. Love is its own standard. To love, to be loved, is more important than to gain or lose in love. If you gain in love, it ensures a material feel of love, but not love itself. However, to love and to be loved at the same moment is the pinnacle of love. That is the moment of realisation. That is the moment where nothing else matters. But, mind you, it is only a moment and the moment passes. One cannot hold on to that moment for a life time. Sometimes I too say that I have loved and lost. That is due to my ignorance. For, I had my moment, but a moment, when I loved and was loved. But the moment is past, like all those moments I left behind. Sometimes I cry in anguish, that I was not able to hold on to the moment. That is only due to my ignorance. and, yes, isn't this pain also a pleasure? Here is something from someone much more thoughtful, from Khalil Gibran himself. Perhaps he understood. Love Then said Almitra, "Speak to us of Love." And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said: When love beckons to you follow him, Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth. Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself. He threshes you to make you naked. He sifts you to free you from your husks. He grinds you to whiteness. He kneads you until you are pliant; And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast. All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart. But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love. When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, I am in the heart of God." And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself. But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
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 11/20/2008 10:56 am |
....YES...i agree with Brick......physics has taken a quantum leap into your thoughts when you were so receptive.......when you delve into Quantum Physics one can understand the reality of all the unrealities and the unreality of all realities......AND for your questions on LOVE.....I can say a capital YES.......keep posting such ones Bellarina...... With Love......always AND in all ways!!!!!!
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11/20/2008 6:07 pm |
mulrikris ... am happy to know that you can so unwaveringly answer YES to the questions I have asked above. It seems that both you and I have known that exquisite kind of love. And it's wonderful isn't it? .. but at the same time it can cut like a knife. Love is a double edged sword and must be handled so as to give it free reign to do as it will. For those that try to hold on too tightly find that it slips through their fingers without so much as a second thought. I will keep posting just as long as I have the inspiration to do so. Thank you for visiting mulrikris. I love the way you call me Bellarina. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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11/20/2008 6:13 pm |
arjan .. I have not forgotten you ... but after reading your comment once again I have decided to leave it just the way it is. A reply is not required when you post such beautiful words. That piece is one of my all time favorites because of how perfectly it describes the contradiction that is Love. Thank you once again for your visit and your thought provoking words. ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
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