Eye Contact & Body Language Attract Women  

superbadboy80 8/11/2009 11:02 pm Last Read: 8/13/2009 3:12 am	My biggest weakness is that I look away quickly after eye contact is made. I decided that before I started trying to approach women I would make it my goal for a couple of weeks to just make eye contact and hold it until they looked away. Ok, here is the good part. After practicing eye contact for a couple of weeks and doing the whole mental exercise thing, I was at work one day working out after my break and was practicing my eye contact thing between sets with this really hot girl near the dumbbell rack. I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause I had no intentions of acting. Well, I had to go over to get a set of dumbbells for my next exercise and as I got close to where she was she suddenly turned around and said "I have a boyfriend" and turned around. Normally I would have kinda stood there in shock and said nothing but, I guess all that mental practice paid off. With out even thinking or pausing the words just came out. I said "Hey that's great I am happy for you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is probably a major accomplishment for you but to the rest a the world this is kinda normal so you might not want to go telling every stranger you see." Then I just walked off with my weights to do my sets. 5 min later she comes over to me and apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of being picked up by losers while she was trying to do a workout. Thanks for the pleasant surprise!
superbadboy80 22 posts  8/11/2009 11:05 pm	this is copy and pate work from devid anglo . i like it so i pasted it. my friends would like get educated about it. so i am posting it comment on this if u feel any things let me know again so i can better do next time
isabella_ 1432 posts  8/12/2009 3:30 am	Eye contact above and beyond the normal few seconds it takes to glance over and then look away has always been a turn on for me. I've been able to perfect the art of what I like to call the "long distance stare" and find that it works (in most cases) the same way for guys. It's a great flirting technique and leaves no doubt as to whether or not someone's really interested in you! ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~ ♥ ~~~~
bom09821108110 898 posts  8/12/2009 5:51 am	In most cultures starring at a women is considered to be rude, However it is just the opposite as per good etiquettes, to look the women in the eye and smile. Most women consider this to be an insult, if you do not express visual or verbal comments, on her beauty. I learnt this late in life. As it is I was very timid (shy kind of guy). Guess I am overcomming this, but slowly.