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__Sparsh__ 6/14/2008 7:48 pm

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6/16/2008 6:19 pm

hello friends!!! My friend Bina, An US citizen and old iffian, posted a blog post on June 13, unfortunately her post was'nt displayed here on that day,,,, so i am posting again b'cuz i wanna know everybody's point of view on this serious matter....

I have joined this almost two yrs ago and all I have seen people fall in love, pagal fighting over little things, everyone needs to realize this is just a chat room, dont know why people take it so personally. Guys come in here and start writing lovely poems and girls get crazy over it and fall in love and when she is totally in love, they guys change they name and start on the next one that enters in the roon. Sorry dont mean to hurt anyone but talking about my personal experince in here. When I first joined this site I was very upset, I know the date and time I was here and who I talked to, the more I talked to him the closer I got to him and dont know when I really fall in love with that person, but lot of people warn me about him but me idiot didnt listen, and now after 18 months mera jo haal huwa hai woh hame he pata hai. So about a month a ago I decided to change my name and come in here and everyone that warn me about were right there he was, same old things with my new name and gave me his new ym id. Sorry dont want to take his name in here but people who know me, know who Im talking about, I take all the blame for my doing, cant blame him for anything, suru suru mai he used to call me about 2 ya 3 times a week and now in 2 ya 3 weeks I get a phone call from him. When I found out the truth only god know what happened to me and how sick I got, anyways the purpose of me writting this is to warn all the girls out there please dont ruin your life like I have ruin mine, knowing the truth about him, maine phir bhi wis ke pooja kee hai maine shir pyar kiya hai karne ke liye pane ke liye nahi. Anyways god is great that I have opened my eyes before I hurt my self more.
Please koi kis ke sath aisa mat karo, bhagwan ke ghar mai derr hai par andher nahi hai. I still love him and always will. God please give him all the happiness in his life. Mere dil se yahi duwa hai ke aap ko har khushi mile aur hame aap ke har gum, par is se bar ke gum aur kiya milsakta hai ............PYAR MAI BEWAFAII............JHOOTI KASME........ No one tells the truth anymore, mostly on the net all are fake.
WELL GIRLS JUST BE CAREFULL PLEASE DONT RUIN YOUR LIFE LIKE I DID, I am not blaming only guys do this there are some girls who do this to.

KYA JO BHI BINA JEE NE KAHA WOH AAPKO SAHI LAGTA HAI.... Do u think wat Bina jee thinking,was correct???? is it happen here???

reshmi75
16 posts 

8/29/2008 9:57 am

Bina sorry to hear to hear about your experience on iff dear, now I see you dint come here any more. Wish I knew all this before. Anyways dear I m glad that you have opened your eyes and moving on. Dear I have heard do much about you from people that love you, I wanted to write a novel on you life. Wish I can met with you somehow and finish my novel. GOD BLESS YOU DEAR WISH YOU ALL THE HAPPINESS IN LIFE

RoNaQq_P
38 posts 

7/6/2008 9:50 am

bina jee, be haapy

RoNaQq PaTeL

Hamnashee
68 posts 

7/5/2008 5:41 am

Bina ji,

Better to hav loved than not loved at all...everythn in life is a risk...live a lil, learn a lil, laugh a lil, hurt a lil...thaz the beauty of life...but also remember...genuine an honest ppl like uself are few an rare...



Hamnashee

Maareeyaa
64 posts 

6/17/2008 7:16 am

Aaaaaahhhhh Sad sad very Sad.... god bless this Lady! This is the Darker Side of Iff

Dr.Mariya Ali Khan.Lucknow

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:19 pm

thanks C K JEE,,, for reading....

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:18 pm

    Quoting dev_7567:
    I dont think net is the place for love its place for friendship only, u will get some good friends here no doubt.
    I think BINAJI had done mistake blindly faith on unknown person in real life even u cant understand totally your close one.
    BINAJI thinking totally wrong way no need to blaim to anybody if mistake from her side also
thanks DEV GURU

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:17 pm

    Quoting Bina1969:
    WOW SPARSH I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOU ARE THE BEST YAAR IM SO GLAD THAT YOU ARE MY FRIEND
thanks BINU

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:15 pm

    Quoting kareena0068:
    BINA LOVE IS TWO WAY TRAFFIC OK SO BEST IS TO HOPE FOR THE BEST AND PREPARE FOR THE WORSE. VIRTUAL LOVE I DON'T BELIEVE BUT ONLY ONE PERSON I KNW IN IFF WHO GOT HIS AND SHE GOT HIM AS TRUE LOVER, SHE IS MY DARLING AND I M VERY HAPPY FOR BOTH OF THEM.

    KAREENA
thanks Bebo!!!!

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:14 pm

    Quoting jaysilverheels:
    bina sis why you taking the blame none of it is your fault..you trusted someone and they let you down badly ..so many here use different handles its easy to be caught ..huggz sis n love u
thanks Jenn

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:13 pm

    Quoting janya_74:
    Bina huggssssss dear.

    well jo hua woh to hona he thaa .. i warrn u lot of time but u never listen to me.. whnever i talked wid u .. u said no janya he is not bad.. and now this is ur stupidity by saying that i love him and always .. y always.. after this y will again giving him the space in ur heart.. which is wrong ... what do u think that he never visit ur post.. he must be laughing on u by saying how stupid this gal is.. sorry to say but plz grow up dear... and dont take anyone serious just come enjoyyyyyyy whn u log off forget about everyone...

    i m not saying that its easy to say... but whn no one care for u .. y u .....

    so dear grow up....

    love u alwayssssssss...

    janya

thanks Jann Di

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:11 pm

    Quoting Shikha75:
    BINA....

    Many things i wish to say....but let me tell to put up something here in brief....

    BETTER LATE THAN NEVER....

    i m happy that u lately realised.....DONT U EVER TRUST A STANGER....

    god bless u and may krishna give u all the courage and strength to make a NEW BEGINING...

    AND LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST.....WHEN U LOVE SOMEONE LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY...BOTH U AND UR FRIEND [UR DIDI] COMMITTED A MISTAKE OF EXPECTING RECIPROCAL LOVE....I DONT THINK THAT IS TRUE LOVE....LOVING THEM BLINDLY WAS UR STYLE AND MAKING A FOOL OUT OF YOU IS THEIR STYLE...SO BETTER KEEP NO HARD FEELINGS FOR ANYBODY.....

    MOVE ON SWEETHEART....NONE OF THEM ONE IS WORTH YOUR TEARS...

    LEARN TO LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF AND THINK "N" NUMBER OF TIMES BEFORE GIVING AWAY UR HEART...

    GOOD LUCK ONCE AGAIN...

    LOVE

    SHIKHA
thanks Shikhu Di

__Sparsh__

6/16/2008 6:09 pm

    Quoting pks5:
    Janya...u r unbelievingly very wise & mature,I like & appreciate ur comments....
    Bina...thanks God u came to ur senses...Janya has advised u the best word to word...

thanks pks5

pks5
68 posts 

6/16/2008 3:50 am

Janya...u r unbelievingly very wise & mature,I like & appreciate ur comments....
Bina...thanks God u came to ur senses...Janya has advised u the best word to word...

Shikha75
149 posts 

6/16/2008 2:53 am

BINA....

Many things i wish to say....but let me tell to put up something here in brief....

BETTER LATE THAN NEVER....

i m happy that u lately realised.....DONT U EVER TRUST A STANGER....

god bless u and may krishna give u all the courage and strength to make a NEW BEGINING...

AND LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST.....WHEN U LOVE SOMEONE LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY...BOTH U AND UR FRIEND [UR DIDI] COMMITTED A MISTAKE OF EXPECTING RECIPROCAL LOVE....I DONT THINK THAT IS TRUE LOVE....LOVING THEM BLINDLY WAS UR STYLE AND MAKING A FOOL OUT OF YOU IS THEIR STYLE...SO BETTER KEEP NO HARD FEELINGS FOR ANYBODY.....

MOVE ON SWEETHEART....NONE OF THEM ONE IS WORTH YOUR TEARS...

LEARN TO LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF AND THINK "N" NUMBER OF TIMES BEFORE GIVING AWAY UR HEART...

GOOD LUCK ONCE AGAIN...

LOVE

SHIKHA

All Dil Se....

janya_74

6/16/2008 12:58 am

Bina huggssssss dear.

well jo hua woh to hona he thaa .. i warrn u lot of time but u never listen to me.. whnever i talked wid u .. u said no janya he is not bad.. and now this is ur stupidity by saying that i love him and always .. y always.. after this y will again giving him the space in ur heart.. which is wrong ... what do u think that he never visit ur post.. he must be laughing on u by saying how stupid this gal is.. sorry to say but plz grow up dear... and dont take anyone serious just come enjoyyyyyyy whn u log off forget about everyone...

i m not saying that its easy to say... but whn no one care for u .. y u .....

so dear grow up....

love u alwayssssssss...

janya

jaysilverheels
722 posts 

6/15/2008 11:59 pm

bina sis why you taking the blame none of it is your fault..you trusted someone and they let you down badly ..so many here use different handles its easy to be caught ..huggz sis n love u

kareena0068
33 posts 

6/15/2008 3:23 am

BINA LOVE IS TWO WAY TRAFFIC OK SO BEST IS TO HOPE FOR THE BEST AND PREPARE FOR THE WORSE. VIRTUAL LOVE I DON'T BELIEVE BUT ONLY ONE PERSON I KNW IN IFF WHO GOT HIS AND SHE GOT HIM AS TRUE LOVER, SHE IS MY DARLING AND I M VERY HAPPY FOR BOTH OF THEM.

KAREENA

Bina1969
65 posts 

6/14/2008 11:19 pm

Dev jee thanks for you commet dear, I know I take all the blame for all this but just want to warn others not do make the same mistak that I have dont cause I know in here some other girls are at that stage to.

Bina1969
65 posts 

6/14/2008 11:17 pm

WOW SPARSH I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOU ARE THE BEST YAAR IM SO GLAD THAT YOU ARE MY FRIEND

dev_7567
6 posts 

6/14/2008 9:35 pm

I dont think net is the place for love its place for friendship only, u will get some good friends here no doubt.
I think BINAJI had done mistake blindly faith on unknown person in real life even u cant understand totally your close one.
BINAJI thinking totally wrong way no need to blaim to anybody if mistake from her side also

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