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Im sure many of us ladies have at some time or other received nasty emails from men. Why do they do that, we wonder especially since we said nothing to them and dont even know they exist. I have had my share of nasty emails and I have always given them back as I prefer to let such losers know that I know why they send such a mail. Anyone who has read my profile can see that I have been extremely direct and straightforward as to what I am seeking. I have also been very clear that I am not interested in time wasters and certain kind of men who do not meet my criteria. Is it wrong for me to be clear as to what I seek in a man or a relationship. Just because I say that I will not entertain time wasters does not mean I think I am above anyone else or better than anyone else. It simply means I want the real think and do not want to waste anymore time. However I have received a number of emails telling me that I think I am very great or very beautiful and goes on to insult me. My conclusion as to why men send such mails is simply because they are frustrated and pissed that they cant have me simply because they do not meet my criteria and are losers as I did state Im not interested in losers who just wants to make use of a woman and give nothing in return. So I guess my direct approach hit a nerve as they know thats what they are, but yet refuse to admit it and instead choose to lash out at me. They also go on to claim that they can get someone better than me, did I ask. I dont care who you can get. In the first place I dont know who the hell you are and as long as you are not what I am seeking, I am not even interested in knowing you. These men fail to realise that the very fact that they choose to send a nasty email to a woman is simply because they want her but cant have her. In the first place, if they were not interested in her, why even look at her profile. And if after reading the profile, they were not interested why even send an email and waste your time, even a nasty email. Do you men think that women care about stupid opinion of men who they consider as losers and fools. Yes they know you are a loser and a fool by the very fact that you choose to send a woman you dont even know a nasty email. Another guy who send me a nasty email tells me, do you think KL is so great, its just a slum, go to mumbai and see. My reply to him was yes, KL does not have the millions of beggars on the street like mumbai has. Dont get me wrong, I have nothing against india and in fact think its a great country but it does have its setback just like most other developing countries. I will never insult a person on anything whether his race, religion, country etc unless he insults me, then he gets a taste of his own medicine. The reason the guy said those things about KL was only because I stated in my profile that Im only interested in men in KL so we can meet and not interested in long distances relationship. Now what was so wrong with that. The biggest joke of all was, this guy had his photo on his profile and sorry to say, to my eyes he was ugly and yet he had the cheek to state that he wants someone beautiful, intelligent etc and he was only an adminstrative worker, not some high profile professional or businessman that he can make such demands and yet goes out to insult me for stating my criteria. How stupid can some men get. To all those men out there, do realise that when you send a nasty email to a woman for no reason and just because you do not meet her criteria, it only shows how low class you are, it only shows you have no integrity and definetly not a gentlemen. A gentleman is one who respects others choices just as he himself will have his criteria in choosing a partner, he will understand that others too have a right to have their criteria. Each one of us are different and each one of us have out own criteria. While most men here are just looking to waste time and fool around and looking for freebies, there aren't many women who would be willing to give you that. Most women may be looking for genuine friends or a life partner. But when a woman states clearly that she is seeking a life partner and not interested in men seeking to fool around or men seeking friends or chat friends, learn to respect their needs. Dont make yourself look like an idiot by sending her a nasty email or sending her an email asking if you can be friends. When you do that, then you only go to the top of my list of turn offs which is showing your stupidity by asking for something which the person has clearly stated she is not interested in. I do hope men who have been doing the above will read this and realise that they only make themself seem like a desperate fool who cant get what they want. |
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9/11/2008 4:37 pm |
I am raunchy rach. i love to berate and humiliate people by telling huge lies about them. I started with IM_Bilingual then I worked my way through harassing and tormenting others like Meritauba.  I just love to make people feel bad becuz i am bored with nothing else to do with myself. i get action by lying and lying big time. i tell everyone i have two kids. one is mohan my pet OOO, and the other is my make believe friend elcid. i am lonely so i have to make it look like i have some real friends. lol. i have plenty of time to make believe and make up stuff. i like to accuse people of wanting to harm me and my kids becuz i get more attention and exposure that way. doesn't this sound exciting.lol everytime i belittle someone. smiles and winkys. i have caused trouble with every handle i have had. Merrick, _iflirt, trinitee, mehendi, rchick, begum, elcid, desi_shah, queenflirt, melodic_lotus. let me be honest. i am just a loser. lol
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9/1/2008 10:52 pm |
Cid, cid, cid.... You know, you could be quite funny - if only you tried a bit harder and had a dollop more imagination. Please do check with your friend what she has called me. People get emotional and petty when their “friends” are concerned, take the posture of an ostrich and refuse to look at the facts of what actually happened. She used the “F” and “B” words at me repeatedly in the arjan posts and called me a “B” in EviL_God's blog. This was the reason why her iflirt handle was removed for abuse. Any denial on her part would make her a liar as well. After all her mad accusations and filth, I won't be surprised if she stooped even lower. Why would I attack her son when my own daughter was diagnosed with ASD at two years of age as well and I worked as an ABA/Verbal Behaviour consultant for families with ASD children? That is her own deranged fantasy of course because she was only afraid her original 'cause' would look extremely silly even to her own “friends”. I was still trying to find common ground with her in the middle of those attacks. My own mistake of course for trying to talk calmly to someone who'd clearly lost her marbles by then. It all started when this woman simply didn't like it when she walked in on me in the chatroom while I was defending myself against one of her male “friends” who was repeatedly insulting me. One wonders if it's all only because she just never liked me and was biding her time to jump on the slightest excuse to start her campaign of hate. For that, I still get piled with a load of other unrelated excuses to distract onlookers and her minions from seeing how petty she was to begin with. Please ask this “friend” of hers the handle called wassup if he even remembers, knows, never mind appreciates her continuously using him as her own battering ram against me, apparently in his defence. It happened at the end of February or early March - good grief. Yup, afterwards I referred to wassup as retarded, in the same colloquial sense of idiot, cretin, someone not too bright, and obviously not even as clever as you or she. I was NOT making fun of people with mental disabilities. I said it would be insulting people with actual mental disabilities to compare wassup with them. That was IT. That was her SOLE 'reason' for jumping in on arjan's racist posts against me and for all her filthy cussing AT me. I have been VERY restrained all these months and have refused to engage with her at her level of repugnant filth. I don't even take it all that personally because you and she must be quite mentally disturbed. What I DO take exception to is that up to July, her “friend” arjan was still slyly trailing after me in other people's blogs and commenting on my comments. Your own general habit of leaving scarcely veiled stink bombs in other people's blogs trying to look clever has not been missed either. It was only after I saw your comment on rk_sandhu's blog about ME and her, that I had you banned from my blog. I had no idea even as recently as that you're one of her cohorts. After the vile racist attacks in May, any reference to me or my words by arjan and iflirt can be safely assumed as attempts to provoke and harrass me. Predictably, she of course again rushed to his apparent defence. Btw, I have never named any individuals on any of my posts. I do not know who the subject of my post was, have never been in any communication with him nor would I even recognise his handle if I ever saw it again. It was a purely RANDOM example of the same kind of messages all women in here get inflicted with day in day out. I was commenting on an attitude women of a certain age such as myself are subjected to that is NOT restricted to Indians at all. It happens all over the world. India is a magnificent country that I'm so grateful to have the small opportunity and privilege to start exploring – when I observe aspects of it I trust people can see it comes from a place of profound despair and love. And it's NOT because I'm a typical, smug, coddled, over-privileged Singaporean who lives under a rock and goes on cushy ship cruises to 'nice' developed countries and believes they are experiencing the world. I have little tolerance for idiots of ANY nationality. What's wrong with commenting on an idiotic attitude I'm subjected to? Precisely because it's one that your kind likes to hit others with, oh, yes. And for that I was NAMED by this person arjan I didn't even know before that, in two posts on his blog, and savaged by a pack of animals with no sense of human decency and fair play. Not ONE of them bothered to ask my meaning first before making grotesque assumptions on what I'm supposed to have said or done. Naturally, I blocked all the people I saw who had commented on those posts. I blocked arjan earlier than that because he left a nasty, highly personal, slanderous remark based on his fantasies on what he wants to think I'm like the first time he ever commented on my blog. He said it was obvious why my ex husband left me when that was merely his obvious prejudice that could not be further from the truth. A style of vicious, targeted comment, I might add, creepily similar to yours. He and another male blogger who kept insisting I never attempt to 'get to know people' never even noticed that it was I who initiated positive interactions in SUPPORT of THEIR comments with both of them in the first place in other people's blogs, shortly before arjan put 2 posts up about me. I would NEVER attack an individual first, unless it was in self defence. The only person I hit back at was the handle wassup. He was behaving idiotically towards me when all I did from the start as ALWAYS with ANYONE was be polite and pay attention to him. I'm sure he isn't a genuine retard at all, presumably, because he was at least able to hold down a job, fill in his own credit card detials to pay for a gold membership here, yet was unable to retain any basic information about me and looked to have the memory span of a goldfish. Oh, no, I guess that also makes me an ostrich AND goldfish hater, right, by you and your madam's psychotic 'logic'? I'm not as interested in how people value and protect their friends because it's assumed they will. My measure of a person is how they treat others who aren't. I would expect any friend of mine to stand up for what is RIGHT, including risking losing me and my friendship. There you go. Typical of your faceless kind to accuse me of being the same person as KLCharmer and rk_sandhu. Just how original are you?  This could be funny, if only it wasn't so sad.I actually genuinely feel sorry for iflirt now that she only has someone like you who can hardly be called a paragon of stalwart behaviour to speak up for her. I hope for her sake that in some rare moment of clear headedness in between her unending fits she'll tell you in private to just keep your gob shut now because you're making her look even more silly, if that's actually possible. I'm pleased to be in the company of these two ladies – that is, if KLCharmer will forgive me for attracting your kind sniffing after me into her blog when I was just commenting on her post - who are not afraid to be clear on what they want, minding their own business, NEVER even attacking specific individuals, but of course get singled out by hyenas such as yourself and arjan. What it is is that you simply can't stand women who speak their minds and who were not even aware of your existence previously, couldn't possibly even have been talking about you in the first place for you to take such personal exception to our words that you have to react by attacking mere strangers. “Hit a nerve” is so right.  You keep saying that you dont mention names and, yet, in every comment of yours that ive read in which iflirt defended herself i see her name mentioned. You are trying to play the innocent person who has been victimized but the truth is you blow everything out of proportion, take comments out of context, and in general try to cause conflict and provoke defensive attacks with sarcastic references. you are fully aware of what you are doing and your use of sparkling diction in your efforts to sound convincing through dazzling BS is not fooling anyone Now, as for your demeanor in the lobby on the day you started this whole scenario, I have seen nothing you have said that justifies your remarks to wassup. You called him a retard after he did not answer your salutations. I wasnt there and dont know any of the circumstances leading up to or succeeding this incident but no matter what the situation was for you to call him insulting names instead of simply ignoring him from that point forward is really not excusable. Ahhhh, the Kl handle wouldnt just suddenly atack merrick the way she did here; especially considering it was obvious that she wasnt replying to her. Tha t othe rhandle you used also made her first comment in iflirts post and it was another provocative response to someone she supposedly never met before. We have seen many many fake handles and despite what you think,, you arent any smarter or more clever than any of the rest lol Merrick doesnt use fake handles....you shouldnt beleive everything u read as that is a true exposition of a fool
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9/1/2008 6:34 am |
Cid, cid, cid.... You know, you could be quite funny - if only you tried a bit harder and had a dollop more imagination. Please do check with your friend what she has called me. People get emotional and petty when their “friends” are concerned, take the posture of an ostrich and refuse to look at the facts of what actually happened. She used the “F” and “B” words at me repeatedly in the arjan posts and called me a “B” in EviL_God's blog. This was the reason why her iflirt handle was removed for abuse. Any denial on her part would make her a liar as well. After all her mad accusations and filth, I won't be surprised if she stooped even lower. Why would I attack her son when my own daughter was diagnosed with ASD at two years of age as well and I worked as an ABA/Verbal Behaviour consultant for families with ASD children? That is her own deranged fantasy of course because she was only afraid her original 'cause' would look extremely silly even to her own “friends”. I was still trying to find common ground with her in the middle of those attacks. My own mistake of course for trying to talk calmly to someone who'd clearly lost her marbles by then. It all started when this woman simply didn't like it when she walked in on me in the chatroom while I was defending myself against one of her male “friends” who was repeatedly insulting me. One wonders if it's all only because she just never liked me and was biding her time to jump on the slightest excuse to start her campaign of hate. For that, I still get piled with a load of other unrelated excuses to distract onlookers and her minions from seeing how petty she was to begin with. Please ask this “friend” of hers the handle called wassup if he even remembers, knows, never mind appreciates her continuously using him as her own battering ram against me, apparently in his defence. It happened at the end of February or early March - good grief. Yup, afterwards I referred to wassup as retarded, in the same colloquial sense of idiot, cretin, someone not too bright, and obviously not even as clever as you or she. I was NOT making fun of people with mental disabilities. I said it would be insulting people with actual mental disabilities to compare wassup with them. That was IT. That was her SOLE 'reason' for jumping in on arjan's racist posts against me and for all her filthy cussing AT me. I have been VERY restrained all these months and have refused to engage with her at her level of repugnant filth. I don't even take it all that personally because you and she must be quite mentally disturbed. What I DO take exception to is that up to July, her “friend” arjan was still slyly trailing after me in other people's blogs and commenting on my comments. Your own general habit of leaving scarcely veiled stink bombs in other people's blogs trying to look clever has not been missed either. It was only after I saw your comment on rk_sandhu's blog about ME and her, that I had you banned from my blog. I had no idea even as recently as that you're one of her cohorts. After the vile racist attacks in May, any reference to me or my words by arjan and iflirt can be safely assumed as attempts to provoke and harrass me. Predictably, she of course again rushed to his apparent defence. Btw, I have never named any individuals on any of my posts. I do not know who the subject of my post was, have never been in any communication with him nor would I even recognise his handle if I ever saw it again. It was a purely RANDOM example of the same kind of messages all women in here get inflicted with day in day out. I was commenting on an attitude women of a certain age such as myself are subjected to that is NOT restricted to Indians at all. It happens all over the world. India is a magnificent country that I'm so grateful to have the small opportunity and privilege to start exploring – when I observe aspects of it I trust people can see it comes from a place of profound despair and love. And it's NOT because I'm a typical, smug, coddled, over-privileged Singaporean who lives under a rock and goes on cushy ship cruises to 'nice' developed countries and believes they are experiencing the world. I have little tolerance for idiots of ANY nationality. What's wrong with commenting on an idiotic attitude I'm subjected to? Precisely because it's one that your kind likes to hit others with, oh, yes. And for that I was NAMED by this person arjan I didn't even know before that, in two posts on his blog, and savaged by a pack of animals with no sense of human decency and fair play. Not ONE of them bothered to ask my meaning first before making grotesque assumptions on what I'm supposed to have said or done. Naturally, I blocked all the people I saw who had commented on those posts. I blocked arjan earlier than that because he left a nasty, highly personal, slanderous remark based on his fantasies on what he wants to think I'm like the first time he ever commented on my blog. He said it was obvious why my ex husband left me when that was merely his obvious prejudice that could not be further from the truth. A style of vicious, targeted comment, I might add, creepily similar to yours. He and another male blogger who kept insisting I never attempt to 'get to know people' never even noticed that it was I who initiated positive interactions in SUPPORT of THEIR comments with both of them in the first place in other people's blogs, shortly before arjan put 2 posts up about me. I would NEVER attack an individual first, unless it was in self defence. The only person I hit back at was the handle wassup. He was behaving idiotically towards me when all I did from the start as ALWAYS with ANYONE was be polite and pay attention to him. I'm sure he isn't a genuine retard at all, presumably, because he was at least able to hold down a job, fill in his own credit card detials to pay for a gold membership here, yet was unable to retain any basic information about me and looked to have the memory span of a goldfish. Oh, no, I guess that also makes me an ostrich AND goldfish hater, right, by you and your madam's psychotic 'logic'? I'm not as interested in how people value and protect their friends because it's assumed they will. My measure of a person is how they treat others who aren't. I would expect any friend of mine to stand up for what is RIGHT, including risking losing me and my friendship. There you go. Typical of your faceless kind to accuse me of being the same person as KLCharmer and rk_sandhu. Just how original are you? This could be funny, if only it wasn't so sad.I actually genuinely feel sorry for iflirt now that she only has someone like you who can hardly be called a paragon of stalwart behaviour to speak up for her. I hope for her sake that in some rare moment of clear headedness in between her unending fits she'll tell you in private to just keep your gob shut now because you're making her look even more silly, if that's actually possible. I'm pleased to be in the company of these two ladies – that is, if KLCharmer will forgive me for attracting your kind sniffing after me into her blog when I was just commenting on her post - who are not afraid to be clear on what they want, minding their own business, NEVER even attacking specific individuals, but of course get singled out by hyenas such as yourself and arjan. What it is is that you simply can't stand women who speak their minds and who were not even aware of your existence previously, couldn't possibly even have been talking about you in the first place for you to take such personal exception to our words that you have to react by attacking mere strangers. “Hit a nerve” is so right.
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8/31/2008 2:28 am |
Dear yourdream, thanks for your comments and am glad you enjoy reading my blogs. They are mostly based on my personal experience with the opposite sex and also experiences in life accept for the jokes etc. I have commented on your blog 'the third try'. Anyway going back to such people, I think its always the cowards who do not have the guts to place their picture will come and call others ugly etc, hiding their own looks because they are ashamed of how they look. This is my experience. But of course there have also been some ugly onces who place their photos because they think they are handsome, and they too insult others. If someone insults you and you insult them back, I would say they deserve a taste of their own medicine. But those who for no reason send emails to people they dont know just to insult them are actually losers who are pissed that they cant get that person. These people too deserve to be told off. I can understand where you are coming from and agree with you. And you are right, if there were no such thing as arranged marriages, many of those losers would not be married simply because they are not only ugly but also are losers with nothing to offer a woman... As for me, I really dont care what some low life loser's opinion is. If I did, I would have asked for it. But unfortunately its always the losers who love to give their stupid opinions when not asked. If someone gives their opinion politely on issues which are not personal, that I can accept and respect even if I dont agree, but when someone gives an opinion about something personal, I think its none of their business. Just like those losers who send me nasty emails just because I was straightforward and honest in my profile as to what I am seeking, and they are pissed just because they do not meet my criteria and cant get me. That I will take offence and will give them a piece of my mind. Maybe it will make them smarter after reading my mail Anyway dont let such losers spoil your mood, say what you feel in your heard, and if anyone disagrees, thats their right and their problem. You have a right to your own opinions.
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8/30/2008 8:14 pm |
The 2 posts were removed by IFF for abuse. It's a pity because people should be able to see for themselves how foul-mouthed you are... I have know her for 3 years and have talked to every day for over a year have have rarely heard her use 4 leter expletives as you are claiming she does. As I recall, in the arjan posts her remark was actually a quote in response to another person who commented there. Neither comment was supporting any type of racism or racist statements but were rather made to point out your nasty behavior in the lobby, of which, I had also encountered. After the arjan incident (which i believe was just a simple one line remark) you made a comment somewhere regarding a post she had made about her sons disability in a deliberate attempt to provoke a confrontation and have been doing so on a regular basis since. She responds to your subtle little pot shots that you fire at every conceivable opportunity and u call her an opportunist You also regularly call her a coward and yet its you who blocks her from ur blog while you fire your darts and dont allow her to respond. You keep saying that you are a victim of her abuse but in reality its you who continues to aggitate and provoke more conflict. I find it pretty funny , also,, that you are accusing her of multi hanles when its quite obvious that this very post was written by none other than yourself
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8/30/2008 1:52 am |
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8/29/2008 11:49 pm |
My “harassment”? Classic stance of an abuser, trying to distract, pointing fingers and crying foul before their victim can. YOU banded together with arjan and a whole gang of louts. Except for one chatter, no one who commented on those posts had ever interacted with me before, never mind try to ascertain my meaning before I was attacked. The 2 posts were removed by IFF for abuse. It's a pity because people should be able to see for themselves how foul-mouthed you are. To date, only one person who commented on those posts has ever apologised to me. And in private. I will keep reminding people that nutters like you are forever lurking in this place. IFF is a no man's land - it has no legal recourse for justice. In real life, folk like you and arjan would have been arrested for your abuse at the first instance.
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8/29/2008 11:08 pm |
Charmer, I'm so sorry. It's one of these multiple handles that keep resurrecting themselves to taunt and stalk people, fancying themselves the moral police above the pale when they're just plain barking (mad). One of them being iflirt. Iflirt, your dear friend arjan wrote two racist posts against me in May, calling my culture scorpion and centipede eaters. He also managed to slyly insinuate I'm a hairless orang utan/chimp as recently as last month on someone else's blog. You jumped on arjan's bandwagon to scream four-letter expletives at me, deliberately misspelling them so the system bots won't pick them up - all because I defended myself from your friend wassup who insulted me repeatedly in the chatroom. I gave him fair warning after the fourth time and he still mocked me. You only came in at the part after. Rushing to the defence of friends is admirable but anyone with a bit of common sense can see you've gone beyond the call of duty to some more sinister agenda that is entirely your own. Everyone who commented on those posts agreed with the disgusting slander and lies about me. I was the NAMED subject of those posts – all my personal information was shredded beyond recognition, jeered at and paraded like a war trophy by you vultures. Opportunists like you are scum. You even stooped to using your own son as a shield to justify your hysteria and filth. I never got your son's condition wrong at all and I was NOT dragging him into your self induced frenzy. It was you who doesn't check your sources. I don't know what ASD means in Canada but look up what it means in the UK. Even in the middle of arjan's attacks I was only trying to find middle ground with you but of course all you did was contort it and turn it into your filth. As recently as a couple of weeks ago, you used someone else's blog to scream yet another expletive at me. Yet here you are again with a new handle within days of being removed by IFF. Btw, I never even named you here until you came along to blow your own cover. I was far more interested in talking about problems in a general way, and not to people like YOU who've demonstrated many times now they can't have a civil discussion to sort out a problem before resorting to verbal thuggery and violence. You have an weird habit of “defending friends” who've already let the issues go themselves, that goes way beyond self-righteousness. Lady or whatever it is you are, please go take your sedatives and leave the normal, decent people in here alone.
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8/29/2008 10:31 pm |
hello, that comment was not to u. I suppose u did not read the comment made by the member below me... the person was provoking me with her usual and continual harassment ... please do and u will see why I wrote what I did.. ty ○○○ click here ○○○
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8/29/2008 9:51 pm |
Merrick, I dont know what the hell you are talking about. I have never had any communication with you and this is the first time you have commented on my blog. Are you out of your mind. What has my blog got to do with racist comments. I suggest you read blogs properly before passing stupid irrelevant comments. I dont know what harrassment you are even talking about. Its me who have been harrassed by losers. And you are a woman. I never mail anyone unless they mail me. Geez...there seem to be some with mental problems here.
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8/29/2008 8:43 pm |
4 the record.. I never once screamed racist remarks to anyone on this site for the many years I have been here. I asked u to cease ur harassment on a many occasions. Leave me alone and stop the slander please. ○○○ click here ○○○
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8/29/2008 7:09 pm |
*typo, sorry: "There was a similar post not long ago... "
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8/29/2008 6:16 pm |
Hello, Charmer, With you on managing to "hit nerves".  There was a similar post long ago by another woman from KL: ONLY STUPID MEN DONT READ PROFILES BEFORE RESPONDING We all go through it periodically. The nastiness in private messages have fallen away. I think that's what happens when you direct your energy at positives and believe in the intrinsic good in people. I was mob lynched in May in the blogs here when people took things I said out of context, one a non-Indian for her own unrelated personal vendetta, assumed I was attacking Indians, and for that I got hurled with the SICKEST racist abuse against my ethnicity (I'm Chinese) and screamed expletives in public. I will always remember the key figures in that attack. No one bothered to ask my meaning first. Or stood up for me. Except one woman who later apologised in private. She's now a friend of mine. I'm very particular about my relationships even with people I'm likely never to meet. Online is no different from real life. You have to wonder (actually, not) about people who talk that way to a person they're writing to for the first time. YD4E, I came here out of duty. I've been paying attention.
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8/29/2008 12:38 am |
Dear KL, you just hit the nail on the head. I made similar experienses on IFF. The last one I decide to expose for he was going too far and plz read the few comments there The Third Try!! . I fail to understand why men do that and be sure hardly one will support you in what you mentioned above. But you did the right thing, although I doubt the fools will get the meaning. I met several abuser here, most in chat rooms, but also in blogs. They do stalk ladies and create ugly post. I also tried to say what you said, in indirect way, by reposting the story about the fox and the sour grapes, The Sour Grapes... but some low lifes got it wrong as usual and again creat another ugly post, this time lead by a female member Dream turns a nightmare ! . Apart from creating new handles and try to slander again and again and again, enjoy their own stupidity, assuming to get some combatant. It shows how unsecure they are and what promitive needs they have and what makes them feel good. As you said, if they would be even to a part blessed by beauty, but no, there mostly are ugly in- and outside. They often recognise jealousy as the basic feeling for their own inability to develop other feelings. At least it's their last shout (I guess) to find somebody. In this case many should salute the arrange marriage system over there, cuz many would not be able to find a partner in life, if they would try to by them own. What decent lady would be attracted by an abuser, a loser, who is full of lies and wrong promises? I am in the lucky position not to look for a partner here. But for those who do, is a good lesson to stay away from fire. I realized one thing, even for friendship, as bigger the distance, as more troubles in making friends. And one more thing I found out, which is really sad. Not the school education nor the so called 'High Society' are guarantee for honesty. They are many aspect ratios, which makes it click between two ppl or not. I thank you for expressing your views the way I couldnt do it better. I always did enjoy and appreciate your post. Wish you luck and success, dear! I wish you to find at least few genuine friends as I have found few YD  P.S. - BTW, your top10 list-blog vanished. I did comment there too, but 
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