RE-post:...JADUGAR ......The Manipulative Magician
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12/7/2008 9:53 amLast Read: |
I've been wrestling with myself these past couple weeks....whether I should write this or not....not because I fear what others may think of me...but because this is out of character for me I guess....those of u who know me know that i'm usually above this kind of blog...usually when someone wrongs me I cry about if for a while in private....maybe vent in a poem or something....and then let it go....which is what I want to do so bad right now...but I also feel a need to warn other women....he's hurt me considerably....and my pain to him means nothing as i've come to realize...so maybe this will prevent someone else from being hurt as I have,....hopefully this will get his attention, that what he is doing is wrong....cause my pain certainly means nothing to him...but then again... ...who am I 2 judge...I am certainly not perfect....I mean...I slept with a married man....why would I do such a thing....a year ago I would have never considered that.... But then I met him...I had just ended a relationship...a very painful breakup....and he made me laugh and forget about it for awhile...we quickly became friends and he seemed to genuinely care for me...I knew he was married....even had a girlfriend.. who I am very sorry I was a part of hurting....but I needed a friend so badly at the time.. and I felt he was so great,...I couldn't help falling in love with him... Meeting him Delhi two weeks ago was supposed to be the highlight of my trip...gawd....I couldn't wait to see him waiting for me outside the airport...or as I got of the plane...would I recognize him in person...would he me?...what would we do?....I loved playing it out in my mind....I just wanted to touch him...breathe him in....I couldn't wait....he said he would love me forever....that I would always hold a special place in his heart...I loved that he called me Kels,...he was the only one who did...I loved that he loved me for me.. I made him laugh he said... Reality set in upon arrival in delhi,...it turns out I was just a game 2 him....a toy he could manipulate by using words like ‘’ love...forever...baby... ‘’ I asked what I should do for a hotel in Delhi...he said he would take care of everything...we ended up stayin in a terrible part of town... friends telling me at one point that that is where guys take hookers... the hotel wouldn't let us get a room together.... so we had 2 get separate ones.... I ended up paying for the rooms because he said he lost 20000 rupees on the train while he was on his way to delhi and didn't have ANY money. ... he said someone in his compartment stole it from his bag when he left to go to the bathroom … I ended up paying for the entire hotel stay...our trip to agra, taxi cabs..etc..with the promise he would pay me back in a few days.... which he did.... Rs. 3000 was all he thought he owed me.....now i'm NOT one to be petty about money....but I couldn't believe that that is how one treats a guest who has come to visit and the whole plan revolving around meeting him especially ....when I mentioned my concern for paying for both rooms he suddenly told me his plan 2 leave for home early... He said I disappointed him...this is AFTER I got home of course....no way would he say it when I was there and possibly miss out on sex... when asked how I had disappointed him he had no answer...which is always the case with him...he will accuse and accuse but will never have anything to back it up with… it's his way of making u feel guilty... like you've done something wrong... and what you would do to get back in HIS good graces.... once he was done with me he said I lied about everything...I still have no answer as to what I lied about....because there is none...I was always honest...especially with him...he made me feel like I could be....but when u ask him for a straight answer.. he runs away & is always EVASIVE ...says ‘’ forget it’’ ..or… ‘’never mind....will talk later...’’ etc etc … how convenient for him...he even said horrible things about me to a friend..AFTER I LEFT INDIA ...this too added to my hurt beyond belief ...how could this person....the one i've trusted and loved for over a year be saying this....wasn't this the guy who just a day ago said he had fallen in love with me....He'd even professed his love for me at another IFF friends home in her prescence! Who was this person?....and how could I have been so wrong? my point...I guess...after rambling for gawd knows how long is that Jadugar is a first class MANIPULATOR & A PREDATOR ...and women are his medium...he prides himself on how many ladies he has at his disposal, he will never be satisfied with the women in his life...he cares not that his wife knows how unfaithful he is… he finds it amusing actually....how she checks his clothes for hair.. his body for marks etc every time he comes home from a trip... he cares not that he is hurting the other special lady in his life... He will tell you all sorts of wonderful things....he will ask about your kids and family and all that is dear to you...but he is not the sweet person he makes himself out to be ...the moment it ends up not being in his favor he will turn on you, lie to you, lie about you and blame it all on u.... and wreck your self-esteem and leave ya bleeding on the roadside …which is where I am now...tryin to figure out what happened from the moment I hugged and kissed him goodbye on the side of the road...wishes of love and miss you and maybe just one more night...what happened?...what went wrong?...it sure as hell wasn't me...I will not let him manipulate me into thinking I did this... so ladies, please...don't get pulled in by his charms... that's it at the moment till I gather my thoughts and pick up my pieces An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same |
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12/7/2008 11:06 am |
its a sad story sprite but i guess u arent the first and wont be the last..strange after you paid all the bills he suddenly had to return home ..what a disgraceful way to treat a visitor ..you will get over the hurt in time ..but how despicable that he thought he could discuss u with someone after you had left ..what goes round comes round it will come back on him ..i feel sorry for the poor woman he is married to how could anyone trust a man like this ..good luck sprite
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12/7/2008 12:46 pm |
Sasha197533 Hey there You are really brave - I don't know many who would dare be as honest! I am sorry that you had such a nasty experience. Be warned all other ladies!!!! Spritely, Hope you find true happiness! Love Sasha spritelynymph32 ________________________________________ well..brave or stupid not sure which yet....unfortunately i can't help but be anything but honest...makes life so much easier i think...and yes, i do hope all the IFF take note of this and save themselves some grief...thanks for your concern sweetie..take care ________________________________________ An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 12:47 pm |
Merrick I read this and all the cry fests I had with and for my friends over the years come back to me. Men that are creeps are unavoidable.. what is sad is that they use disguises and sometimes when we are directly involved we don't notice or if we do.. we pass it off as.. maybe, I can change things.. maybe, if I do something different things will be better. I think that some men/women use disguises to manipulate others into getting what they want.. eventually .. we see past the frills and lies. And finding out that our love was stolen shudders us.. hurts us deeply and we feel in a way > r_aped. It is horribly sick > when ppl have to resort to STEALING love. I think it is cold blooded. I just hope that u don't take anything personally.. as it seems from ur posting.. u do know.. it was not ur fault. If u do decide to make amends with him.. I know u will not have blinders on. If u decide to put him where he belongs.. I want u to know.. u deserve soooo much better. U are articulate... charming.. funny and beautiful.. key ingredients that REAL men really want to have in a partner. Take care .. u will be ok. spritelynymph32 ________________________________________ r_ped...emotionally,..definately...but u know there were warning signs before..there always are...but i refused to see them....found myself making excuses for him...but now...i just feel the last year was a total lie...so many conversations....so many loving words exchanged...so many pitter pats of my heart... ... thanks hun for ur kind thoughts...and don't worry, i plan on keeping him where he belongs... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 12:48 pm |
desiguy88 YOU have done nothing wrong, and nothing to be ashamed of!! Jadugar HAS just taken advantage of you and used you. spritelynymph32 ________________________________________ Thanks Desi...i just hope i can be wiser next time An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 12:56 pm |
isabella_ awwwwwwwww spritey .. I am so sorry to hear about what happened. I knew you were leaving on a visit to India but had no idea the reason for the journey. My heart goes out to you and I can only imagine how terrible it must have been. To feel so betrayed and used, all alone in a foreign country with no one you can really turn to for help. But now you know the real person he is .. and you will be that much more wiser for next time. I know you are strong and will bounce back in time - and I pray that you never have to go through another experience like this again. You deserve so much more than this. All I can say to this guy is .. Some people just never realize what they have! You missed out on a real gem. Spritelynymph32: Bella  ...you r such a sweetie....and yes..meeting jadu was to be a big part of my trip..but thank gawd that wasn't the only part...there were many other friends to meet who made my trip well worth it...and yes...i can say the other reason he was able to take advantage is because it is scary being in another country...i did feel a bit helpless...having never been outside the US and going alone...but i thought i could trust him...i was wrong...but thank gawd JKM and Soul were also in delhi...i was able to end my trip by staying with JKM, thanks sis for letting me stay with you ...you are quite the host and friend...and well soul...is just a total gentleman and oh so pretty...lol....i wish you both lived in my town..i miss you lots...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 12:58 pm |
foxxxfireehottie Sprite... none of this is surprising at all... it's been his nature for quite sometime. sorry you had to be a victim of an iff man getting his jolly's off. hope the future brings you better people that cross your path. and what a jerk for making you pay the bill. MEN UGHHH!!!! Spritelynymph32: live and learn i guess...man.."sigh"...i've learned so much this year....ughhh is right....thanks sis An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 1:04 pm |
Yourdream4ever Hey, spritey, I third time open your blog and want to comment, but still am a lil speechless, angry and hope to find the right words for you, which is hardes part. Book it as experience and move on. Its you, who got hurt, but then: Its you, who gained respect. Its you, who will be consoled. Its still your profit. He got nothing. I dearly hope, his gf over here will realize this eventually. Who posts such blogs in public, calling his gf names, he does not deserve my respect. Here a copy&paste of his blog, which he deleted later: 'choose ur own title...i think...i need to make somethings very clear now...abt some bangalore s*** i got into very knowingly abt 4 years bak... I WONT MAKE IT A 5 PART READATHON....just a few words... (composing a sweet lil blog)... more to come...hold on tight...' You take care, dear! You will be ok soon. For you deserve much better. Spritelynymph32: tks hun....i've grown to admire you since being on this site...and appreciate ur comments...and yes..i hope she comes 2 realize it as well...cause she deserves better 2...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 1:08 pm |
Yourdream4ever I guess, this tells all, in addition, I want to say: its not only him, they are many of them. I wish KLcharmer, Bina69 and kalanchoe would expose them same way as you did. Btw, same goes for men: guys, do expose evil female member too, for not only evil men around, I know and have seen few stories which go other way round. Where men used to be victims. For equal rights sake YD Spritelynymph32: i struggled myself with writing this...it's not an easy thing 2 do....but in the end i had the support of my friends  ...but i also wish more people would take such action....i hope my post will give others the courage to do the same...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 1:12 pm |
shy4163 I would post his picture here, a real picture so even he changes his new id and try to meet other females here they can be aware I wish his wife should come to know all his bullshit and reap him apart like any thing Sprit you are one brave lady to put this blog and your experience here i hope all others learn lessons from this blog just be strong and come out of it thinking shit happens in the life Spritelynymph32: Shy..thanks hun ...i wish he would realize how much he is hurting his wife...she knows he isn't faithful...but he claims to love her so much...he has an odd way of showing it....and i feel bad for being a part of it...i am certainly not guiltless in this...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 1:13 pm |
jaysilverheels sprite when you love someone your eyes are blind to the warning signs ..you will get through this ..its good that you exposed him now we all know what he is ..good luck n tc Spritelynymph32: jay..tks...i was blinded...that's the only reason i ignored the signs...i'm a sucker for a guy who makes me laugh....grumble...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 1:16 pm |
its a sad story sprite but i guess u arent the first and wont be the last..strange after you paid all the bills he suddenly had to return home ..what a disgraceful way to treat a visitor ..you will get over the hurt in time ..but how despicable that he thought he could discuss u with someone after you had left ..what goes round comes round it will come back on him ..i feel sorry for the poor woman he is married to how could anyone trust a man like this ..good luck sprite  ...what he said about me 2 my friend was the worst hurt he could have done 2 me i think....but it really opened up my eyes and made it possible for me to expose him...it showed me who he really was...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 1:32 pm |
manisha1969 Keep your spirits up Sprite, good you exposed this sleazy creep so many more women stand warned. I hope this is not taken lightly at all. We love you Sprite Spritelynymph32: thanks for you comments manisha...my hopes r with urs An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 2:40 pm |
sprite hey am sorry too hear your story as i heard one simmilar too dis on iff too. i am proud of ya ya such brave gurl in strange counrty like india . i glad you come told ya story for other woman on iff. as jay say wot goes around comes around too i beleive in dat too. well after all dat i hope ya have soem great memories of ya trip india dont let anyone run you down like dat again huggs take care. goodluck
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12/7/2008 6:55 pm |
He should have is balls cut off because he is a piss~poor excuse for a man! Rat Bastard!!! I am sorry for you...get over it and learn something okay??? ~Woof~
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12/7/2008 7:42 pm |
sprite hey am sorry too hear your story as i heard one simmilar too dis on iff too. i am proud of ya ya such brave gurl in strange counrty like india . i glad you come told ya story for other woman on iff. as jay say wot goes around comes around too i beleive in dat too. well after all dat i hope ya have soem great memories of ya trip india dont let anyone run you down like dat again huggs take care. goodluck ..tks sweet....and yes...apart from that i do have some great memories from my trip...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 7:44 pm |
He should have is balls cut off because he is a piss~poor excuse for a man! Rat Bastard!!! I am sorry for you...get over it and learn something okay??? ~Woof~ An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 8:40 pm |
what jadz has done to u is extremly bad and hurtful! but sprite i cant help to say that karma is a b!itch...and when u hurt someone that pains comes around to u and bites u twice harder! now u know what i am talking about...u know exactly what i am talking about and how u have broken the heart of one of my dear friend..but the way u did it omg that was low,,sorry but it was ,,and dont even think of asking me what i mean,,coz u know it,,anyways,,,i wont say his name!.........i told him that what you have done to him will come back to you and it will be worse...and what jadz has done is beyond worse...he used u...i just wonder how his gf will feel now..reading this,,thats one more person he has hurt big time coz she she has no clue about u.....frig..i am truely sorry,,believe me i am for u and for his gf....and even more for his wife!
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12/7/2008 9:43 pm |
though hard to forget such creeps, but life goes on and try to forget the past and start life a new.good luck.
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12/7/2008 10:24 pm |
what jadz has done to u is extremly bad and hurtful! but sprite i cant help to say that karma is a b!itch...and when u hurt someone that pains comes around to u and bites u twice harder! now u know what i am talking about...u know exactly what i am talking about and how u have broken the heart of one of my dear friend..but the way u did it omg that was low,,sorry but it was ,,and dont even think of asking me what i mean,,coz u know it,,anyways,,,i wont say his name!.........i told him that what you have done to him will come back to you and it will be worse...and what jadz has done is beyond worse...he used u...i just wonder how his gf will feel now..reading this,,thats one more person he has hurt big time coz she she has no clue about u.....frig..i am truely sorry,,believe me i am for u and for his gf....and even more for his wife! An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 10:25 pm |
though hard to forget such creeps, but life goes on and try to forget the past and start life a new.good luck. ...tks mallika...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/7/2008 11:13 pm |
Dear Nymph , I'm truly sorry to hear of your ordeal. It can happen to the best of us in an unguarded moment. We (both women and men) all think we can spot a roach from a mile off but some are masters of disguise or manage to slip themselves through the tiniest of hairline cracks. Westerners as well as those from other developed countries in Asia are particularly targeted because in some ways we're seen as soft touches and easy pickings by the unscrupulous. Not against married folk at all, but I've seen how some have used their status to their advantage. It just looks as if they are making the grandest of gestures jumping off the precipice in the name of True Love for you – when only they see and you don't the big safety net they've got underneath. It's easy to proclaim or pretend to be risking everything when they've got absolutely nothing to lose – all in the name of a bit of fun. That jadugar handle has been in my iggy bin from the start. He was in the chatroom last week and I just saw that his profile has been turned off. No doubt he'll resurface like a roach with another handle after this. Not equating it with what happened to you but I felt close to a married man here once. I regarded him as a platonic friend and brother but it soon became evident that the feeling was not mutual to the same level. When he started behaving inappropriately writing to me as one would to a lover, I rebuked and warned him twice, to no avail, and finally had to severe all contact with him.
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12/8/2008 12:26 am |
sprite hmmmm although u told my friend its just friendship...did u had to hurt him the way u did..i mean cams don't lie!..unless it was 2 actors pretending to be u and someone else giving him a show!!!!!..knowing he really loved u in and cared for u so much...u shouldnt had did what u did to him...(( for everyone reading this i am not talking about jadugar here but some one else )) i also hope we are talking about the same gf of jadagar lol if not OMG what a snake he is!
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12/8/2008 2:53 am |
ok two things i NEED TO bring out 1.why is your blog getting deleted? 2.IF THIS HAPPENS AGAIN. I want you to log in on MY HANDLE and repost it .i would like to see someone report my handle.because that WILL not happen. now nymphy im not holier than thou.im not perfect and ive been very very bad at times, but i want you to know that i makes me sick to the stomach to be a part of the male species right now now i hope this doesnt lead to you getting flashed on the lobby and a lotta nasty things being said to you. i also hope you dont get pinged on YM and i hope you dont get rude messages...both of which will characteristically happen. i Hate the place that you were made to stay at i hate the fact that your were made to pay for everything. Expectations should have been set . thats why i damn near choked on my coffee when ya'll told me where you were staying i was in the same city.all he needed to do was call me and we could figure out an alternative . bottomline is that im saddened and deeply disappointed at what you were put through. there is no excuse. and the rudeness afterwards? all the shyte about 'being disappointed' that stinks of a sad ole man on the wrong side of midlife crisis my opinion of the man was shot to pieces. go copulate with yourself big boy s0ul
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12/8/2008 2:58 am |
PS >> im very proud of ya.hope ya know. this blog needed to be written. and i ENDORSE this totally!! laters s0ul
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12/8/2008 3:03 am |
PPS >>>> WHY the F**K are only women commenting?? no men around to comment? guilty conciences ? COME ON MEN. comment on here. show your support damnit!
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12/8/2008 3:35 am |
hey nympheee I know wt u going thru, must be horrible, but good you warn everybody thts a very good way to teach him a lession. You are a very pretty women don't worry for such dirts, its his loss not yours,but let me tell you don't trust people here always take advise from us, sweety ok. It hurts when somebody takes you for a ride but still you are now out of it. god bless you always. kareena
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12/8/2008 4:13 am |
Nymphy...It must have been an awful ordeal for you, you being a total stranger in a city with bombs blasting away and thrown into some seedy hotel.It was very courageous of you to put this blog so that girls will be beware of him next time. I'm glad you are safe and sound at home and hope you forget this nightmare soon.
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12/8/2008 5:57 am |
sprite hmmmm although u told my friend its just friendship...did u had to hurt him the way u did..i mean cams don't lie!..unless it was 2 actors pretending to be u and someone else giving him a show!!!!!..knowing he really loved u in and cared for u so much...u shouldnt had did what u did to him...(( for everyone reading this i am not talking about jadugar here but some one else )) i also hope we are talking about the same gf of jadagar lol if not OMG what a snake he is! An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 6:01 am |
Dear Nymph , I'm truly sorry to hear of your ordeal. It can happen to the best of us in an unguarded moment. We (both women and men) all think we can spot a roach from a mile off but some are masters of disguise or manage to slip themselves through the tiniest of hairline cracks. Westerners as well as those from other developed countries in Asia are particularly targeted because in some ways we're seen as soft touches and easy pickings by the unscrupulous. Not against married folk at all, but I've seen how some have used their status to their advantage. It just looks as if they are making the grandest of gestures jumping off the precipice in the name of True Love for you – when only they see and you don't the big safety net they've got underneath. It's easy to proclaim or pretend to be risking everything when they've got absolutely nothing to lose – all in the name of a bit of fun. That jadugar handle has been in my iggy bin from the start. He was in the chatroom last week and I just saw that his profile has been turned off. No doubt he'll resurface like a roach with another handle after this. Not equating it with what happened to you but I felt close to a married man here once. I regarded him as a platonic friend and brother but it soon became evident that the feeling was not mutual to the same level. When he started behaving inappropriately writing to me as one would to a lover, I rebuked and warned him twice, to no avail, and finally had to severe all contact with him. ...thanks hun An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 6:04 am |
ok two things i NEED TO bring out 1.why is your blog getting deleted? 2.IF THIS HAPPENS AGAIN. I want you to log in on MY HANDLE and repost it .i would like to see someone report my handle.because that WILL not happen. now nymphy im not holier than thou.im not perfect and ive been very very bad at times, but i want you to know that i makes me sick to the stomach to be a part of the male species right now now i hope this doesnt lead to you getting flashed on the lobby and a lotta nasty things being said to you. i also hope you dont get pinged on YM and i hope you dont get rude messages...both of which will characteristically happen. i Hate the place that you were made to stay at i hate the fact that your were made to pay for everything. Expectations should have been set . thats why i damn near choked on my coffee when ya'll told me where you were staying i was in the same city.all he needed to do was call me and we could figure out an alternative . bottomline is that im saddened and deeply disappointed at what you were put through. there is no excuse. and the rudeness afterwards? all the shyte about 'being disappointed' that stinks of a sad ole man on the wrong side of midlife crisis my opinion of the man was shot to pieces. go copulate with yourself big boy s0ul ... ...what can i say....luvs ya sweetie....and thanks for being there for me...for being the man u are...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 6:05 am |
PS >> im very proud of ya.hope ya know. this blog needed to be written. and i ENDORSE this totally!! laters s0ul ...tks again....it wasn't easyAn Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 6:06 am |
hey nympheee I know wt u going thru, must be horrible, but good you warn everybody thts a very good way to teach him a lession. You are a very pretty women don't worry for such dirts, its his loss not yours,but let me tell you don't trust people here always take advise from us, sweety ok. It hurts when somebody takes you for a ride but still you are now out of it. god bless you always. kareena tks hun...appreciate the support...and i'll take this as a lesson learned An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 6:09 am |
Nymphy...It must have been an awful ordeal for you, you being a total stranger in a city with bombs blasting away and thrown into some seedy hotel.It was very courageous of you to put this blog so that girls will be beware of him next time. I'm glad you are safe and sound at home and hope you forget this nightmare soon. ...this part wasn't so great..thats for sure...but i did overall have a great time in india,...jkm, soul, trip, hobbsy....all made sure of that ...but it is good to b home...tks sweetieAn Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 6:53 am |
sprite hmmmm although u told my friend its just friendship...did u had to hurt him the way u did..i mean cams don't lie!..unless it was 2 actors pretending to be u and someone else giving him a show!!!!!..knowing he really loved u in and cared for u so much...u shouldnt had did what u did to him...(( for everyone reading this i am not talking about jadugar here but some one else )) i also hope we are talking about the same gf of jadagar lol if not OMG what a snake he is! then again, the cam thingie sounds so ambiguous the way it is being mentioned here, ... let me set the facts straight, the cam was not private with Hot Perfume on any messenger , it was on AFF... and at some point my BF over here kinda paid me a surprise visit and at moment i kinda forgot about the cam when he kissed me and we made out for a few minutes... so to make it sound that i have anything against Hot Perfume ( a sweet guy that he is ) is incorrect or if he has inferred that i did this to hurt him in any way is certainly not true. I have known many men on IFF since i've come here, and most will vouch that i am not a nasty person by nature. i appreciate rani you being a loyal friend to Hot Perfume, and i know he is a sweet man, but i also hope i have made that episode clear enough for you An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 7:50 am |
Nymphy, What he has pulled on you is not only unacceptable but unforgivable. Hun, all you were to him was another conquest. He totally took advantage of you. He lied to you as he did to others and used you and when he was done, he conveniently had to leave for home midway. He tried to make it look like it was HIS idea to have you stay with me for the remaining 3 days you had in Delhi, that he made sure you had a safe place to be in when I had already told you twice to move in. I will tell you that yes, he SAID some very UNKIND THINGS about you to me after you returned to the US. And if anyone cares to challenge me on that, I have proof. What he said was sickening! All throughout my chats with him on y m, I could sense he is a dishonest person and, incidentally, he would also b**** about another very dear friend of mine with whom he was involved, to me. This is how low he can get. The story of Rs. 20K stolen on the train reeked of a royal lie and inspite of the fact that I have met many people on IFF, both men and women, I have never encountered a person who would not even share the bill at a lunch or coffee. Soul paid for the entire lavish coffees at Barrista and later we both split the lunch bill at the restaurant. I am not one to be cheap, but we noticed that even you reached for your purse to pay, whereas this guy just sat casually with his hands on the table. When we went to Delhi Haat, where there was a nominal entrance fee of Rs.15 only, which Soul shelled out for all of us, I purposely turned around and asked Jadu to pay his way  Guess what? He said he didn’t even have Rs.15 in his pocket!!! Not to mention another free lunch at Delhi Haat at our expense. I was quite shocked to learn that he made you pay for the entire trip while you were here as his guest. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not about the money but it’s the principle behind the whole thing. Nymphy, you live and you learn. I am sure that you have learnt a lot – painful as it may be. I just hope you will pay us another visit sometime in the near future and this time, you will be MY guest and I and some other wonderful folks from IFF will show you what true Indian hospitality is all about!
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12/8/2008 8:43 am |
spritey, and dat's the reason we never had a talk after u reached delhi? feel so sad for u dear. wish i could have followed u even closely then i did. take care dear. feel ashamed being a man.
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12/8/2008 8:53 am |
the cam thing with u only happen like a 4-6 weeks ago or so...u had a boyfriend at that time and was intamite and still u were in love with jadz?? u know hotp was watching coz u kept on smiling at him and doing what u were doing with the that guy and it was not just kissing..dont make hotp sound like he is lying or that i am...all i meant to say in my comments was that karma is b!itch! and if u do that kind of stuff on cam for others to watch like u said it was in aff..than don't expect men to treat u with respect!.... god sprite i dont want to hurt u and omg i feel like i am and it hurts me very much ...but i am saying the truth..and u know that to..i wont go on with this coz i do know ur in pain,,and i do feel jadz is frigging snake ... long back i added him in msn..we chatted and u know me and how i teased ....well it was not as bad as he made it out to be,,he told his girlfriend to get her upset...well thank god i save my messages in msn,,i image shot all the messages,,image copy is the best coz no one can alter them..i send it to my jaan ((duecey)) for proof of how we chatted and to see if i said anything like how he told his gf...jadz tried to make me look bad and i hated him for it.....theres another handle call jadhugar...and thats someone else a old time buddy of iff..i thought that when jadugar came on it was my old time buddy coz some how jadz was nice..so i always greeted him nicely back to...than i found it was jadzzzzzz ufffff i was mad but since we were chatting nicely with each other i let it be and we became good lobby friends..only like last month he flashed me and asked me to add him to ym ..i was honest and said no i cant coz of what happen last time and becoz i respected his gf and i dont want any problems with that ..he said ok...he told me she will be ok with it..but in my heart i felt NO WAY and duecey would not like it as well..though i am sure duecey wont mind coz he totally trust me but i couldnt disrespect the gf and duecey.....i have seen him chatting with others a little to friendly if u know what i mean...i wonder if he sweet talks them to.....a snake will always be a snake!....
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12/8/2008 10:20 am |
Hi Nymphy, All I can say is that I am disgusted and my sorry that I was the one who witnessed all his lies and how he professed his love for you and could not do a thing! I am seriously out of words Don't know what to say and hope you did not regret visiting me with him!u take care
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12/8/2008 11:30 am |
It was disgusting,,what he did to you. he brought shame on us Indians at IFF and all my friends wd join me in kicking his butts. Sorry for waht you went thro and just pray that you would find a truely good soul mate
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12/8/2008 12:53 pm |
Nymphy, What he has pulled on you is not only unacceptable but unforgivable. Hun, all you were to him was another conquest. He totally took advantage of you. He lied to you as he did to others and used you and when he was done, he conveniently had to leave for home midway. He tried to make it look like it was HIS idea to have you stay with me for the remaining 3 days you had in Delhi, that he made sure you had a safe place to be in when I had already told you twice to move in. I will tell you that yes, he SAID some very UNKIND THINGS about you to me after you returned to the US. And if anyone cares to challenge me on that, I have proof. What he said was sickening! All throughout my chats with him on y m, I could sense he is a dishonest person and, incidentally, he would also b**** about another very dear friend of mine with whom he was involved, to me. This is how low he can get. The story of Rs. 20K stolen on the train reeked of a royal lie and inspite of the fact that I have met many people on IFF, both men and women, I have never encountered a person who would not even share the bill at a lunch or coffee. Soul paid for the entire lavish coffees at Barrista and later we both split the lunch bill at the restaurant. I am not one to be cheap, but we noticed that even you reached for your purse to pay, whereas this guy just sat casually with his hands on the table. When we went to Delhi Haat, where there was a nominal entrance fee of Rs.15 only, which Soul shelled out for all of us, I purposely turned around and asked Jadu to pay his way Guess what? He said he didn’t even have Rs.15 in his pocket!!! Not to mention another free lunch at Delhi Haat at our expense. I was quite shocked to learn that he made you pay for the entire trip while you were here as his guest. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not about the money but it’s the principle behind the whole thing. Nymphy, you live and you learn. I am sure that you have learnt a lot – painful as it may be. I just hope you will pay us another visit sometime in the near future and this time, you will be MY guest and I and some other wonderful folks from IFF will show you what true Indian hospitality is all about! ...i guess i don't understand how jadu can even suggest/think i felt anything less than affection for him...i trusted him at the very least...surely he must know that....but he claims otherwise..i guess to justify how he treated me.....anyway.... that is behind me....i was thrilled to meet you....and soooo gratefull for ur hospitality..u r quite the gem and everything and more i expected you 2 b....thank you 2 u and ur son for ur warm welcome and taking time out of ur busy life to show me around for a few days.. ....love you sis...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 12:57 pm |
spritey, and dat's the reason we never had a talk after u reached delhi? feel so sad for u dear. wish i could have followed u even closely then i did. take care dear. feel ashamed being a man. ... ...u was followin me?...lol.sorry wasn't able to get a hold of you, would have liked to have met up for coffee or something, usually don't like coffee...but man..i loved it there ....and thanks for being a sweetie...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 1:48 pm |
Hi Nymphy, All I can say is that I am disgusted and my sorry that I was the one who witnessed all his lies and how he professed his love for you and could not do a thing! I am seriously out of words Don't know what to say and hope you did not regret visiting me with him!u take care ..nives sweetie....i had a great time at ur house...how can u not when you leave a little buzzed ...lol...he does know just what to do to make a woman feel special though...him telling you that he loved me....well...that's something he was never willing to do...say it openly in front of people...and him doing that...well....ya..made me feel special...and that he really meant it.... course is not till later that i find out he had a master plan behind doing that...and it was to serve his own agenda.... don't feel sorry...you were great...thanks for having me into ur home ...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 1:49 pm |
It was disgusting,,what he did to you. he brought shame on us Indians at IFF and all my friends wd join me in kicking his butts. Sorry for waht you went thro and just pray that you would find a truely good soul mate ..tks dearAn Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 3:06 pm |
the cam thing with u only happen like a 4-6 weeks ago or so...u had a boyfriend at that time and was intamite and still u were in love with jadz?? u know hotp was watching coz u kept on smiling at him and doing what u were doing with the that guy and it was not just kissing..dont make hotp sound like he is lying or that i am...all i meant to say in my comments was that karma is b!itch! and if u do that kind of stuff on cam for others to watch like u said it was in aff..than don't expect men to treat u with respect!.... god sprite i dont want to hurt u and omg i feel like i am and it hurts me very much ...but i am saying the truth..and u know that to..i wont go on with this coz i do know ur in pain,,and i do feel jadz is frigging snake ... long back i added him in msn..we chatted and u know me and how i teased ....well it was not as bad as he made it out to be,,he told his girlfriend to get her upset...well thank god i save my messages in msn,,i image shot all the messages,,image copy is the best coz no one can alter them..i send it to my jaan ((duecey)) for proof of how we chatted and to see if i said anything like how he told his gf...jadz tried to make me look bad and i hated him for it.....theres another handle call jadhugar...and thats someone else a old time buddy of iff..i thought that when jadugar came on it was my old time buddy coz some how jadz was nice..so i always greeted him nicely back to...than i found it was jadzzzzzz ufffff i was mad but since we were chatting nicely with each other i let it be and we became good lobby friends..only like last month he flashed me and asked me to add him to ym ..i was honest and said no i cant coz of what happen last time and becoz i respected his gf and i dont want any problems with that ..he said ok...he told me she will be ok with it..but in my heart i felt NO WAY and duecey would not like it as well..though i am sure duecey wont mind coz he totally trust me but i couldnt disrespect the gf and duecey.....i have seen him chatting with others a little to friendly if u know what i mean...i wonder if he sweet talks them to.....a snake will always be a snake!.... i certainly did not mean to suggest that u or he was lying about the cam incident...only that he and u assumed wrongly my intentions behind it.... yes this was about mid october....and yes the guy on the cam is my bf,....we met several months ago..and only recently started dating...however...i had my india trip planned about a year back, long b4 i met sheldon. I've know jads for about a year....so yes...i was still in love with jads, i had been for a long time, just because someone new comes into ur life doesn't mean those old feelings change,...i was still looking forward to my trip and meeting him....and my bf understood that...and was ok with me going.... i never said i was perfect....far from it....i've never made myself out to be a saint...i'm far from it...i like boys...i like sex...i think i've always made that quite clear...but i also have a heart, a very sensitive one, i love deeply and freely,...i'm in love with my bf....and i still went to india....to see the man(jadu) who had been a part of my life for so long, who over the past year i had grown to love very much for many reasons....granted i wasn't sure how i would feel about becoming intimate with him...given the new bf situation...but it happened...and my bf knows and understands and is ok...and oh..btw..he completely respects me and loves me.... and knowing all this....i still wrote this blog...not for people to feel sorry for me....or to point out i had it coming(gawd, who says that to someone who's just been hurt?)i did this knowing that people may even question the kind of woman i am because i had sex with a married man....i did it fully believing that many people on iff would think poorly of me..it's nice to see i was wrong about that... i did it because i felt it was the right thing to do....to hopefully stop this, this man...from doing the same thing 2 someone else....that is my only purpose in this.... so...if you want to suggest that i'm less of a woman...that i deserved what jadu did to me(for karma's sake)...that i don't deserve the respect of a man because i went on cam and made out with my bf...and well,lets just throw it all out there since we being honest,...made out as in gave him a bj(he loved it, kind of a kinky fantasy of his)..so be it....if you want to suggest i did it to purposefully hurt hotp...fine...your his friend u want to protect him...i'm cool with that....all i can say is i wouldn't ever do that, but hey who can trust anyone these days..... did jadu hurt me?..yes, very much so....more for the fact that first and foremost we were friends....whether he saw me in a romantic way or not, i thought for sure we had that...the pain is knowing that our entire relationship, from the very beginning...was a lie... am i hurt by ur comments?..maybe a little....am i upset with you?...ya, probably a bit....but i still respect you as a person....because i'm totally comfortable with who i am....and i know u are comfortable with who u are, that's an admirable quality i think,  my reasons behind what i did are my own...just as you have urs...and i do hope i haven't offended you...not my intention..really...i really do like you...so i apologize if i've come off a bit rude or whatever....it's the hurt and anger coming out i guess... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 3:19 pm |
Hey sprite... very sorry to hear about this episode ... but then yep you were lucky to have JKM and SOUL around .......both are gem of a person so is my girlfriend( nive & her hubby). i am happy you got sweet memories more compared to the nightmares .... wishing you all th very best hunni .... T & BR ATK
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12/8/2008 5:14 pm |
Hey sprite... very sorry to hear about this episode ... but then yep you were lucky to have JKM and SOUL around .......both are gem of a person so is my girlfriend( nive & her hubby). i am happy you got sweet memories more compared to the nightmares .... wishing you all th very best hunni .... T & BR ATK ...love you hun..and tks for always lookin out for me 2....i'm sure i keep u busy, lol....ur a great friend..and i'm lookin forward to our Thai adventure ....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 5:24 pm |
bjcilu 1843 posts View my blog Sprity I Am Shoked.. I am really shoked not because of what has happened to you. but how could you not recognize what going on with you and how could you be so week for not to let that happen with you at the very first day you came to know about the game after reaching india. have read a lot similar with what happened with other ladies on iff too.. and feel sorry and sad but angry too as knowing so many on iff non care to ask or take help from other friends on iff(whether lady or gent) Lessons are learnt with mistakes. Love you spritelynymph32: BJ sweetie....i didn't see exactly how he felt until i got home...and the whole paying for everything....i didn't know what to do....he said he would pay me back...and we stuck at this hotel..gawd knows where...he was my escort....i had no phone...how was i to leave? not weak...just overwhelmed in a foreign country ....and up until he said gdbye...he was still so much in love with me.....but it wasn't all bad...i stayed the last bit at JKM's and that was great ...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 5:27 pm |
mulrikris 294 posts View my blog 12/8/2008 1:34 pm [Add a comment] [quote][respond] hi SPRITE......you are to be bubbling with joy..... you've learnt a great lesson ... though the hard way.... as YD said.... be brave and move forward... again.. i feel you should've spelt clearly that fellows names ...put a photo etc... so that OTHERS are truly warned... ... tomorrow is not the end.... ypu'll get what you seek ....GOOD LUCK.....SPRITY..... Spritelynymph32: mulri, thanks...i tend to learn things the hard way... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 8:04 pm |
It is n utter shame to see people like jadu using this site as a pick up joint under the mask of friendship/love, having multiple affairs decieving all. Such men are spineless and selfish, low on self esteem and respect. Alok
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12/8/2008 8:15 pm |
It is n utter shame to see people like jadu using this site as a pick up joint under the mask of friendship/love, having multiple affairs decieving all. Such men are spineless and selfish, low on self esteem and respect. spritely..u are lucky to have discovered d facts on time..and i respect ur courage by accepting mistakes and yet exposing him to prevent other girls being decieved by him..your cause is as graceful as you..take it as a lesson and carry on with life..the show must go on. Alok
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12/8/2008 9:17 pm |
It is n utter shame to see people like jadu using this site as a pick up joint under the mask of friendship/love, having multiple affairs decieving all. Such men are spineless and selfish, low on self esteem and respect. spritely..u are lucky to have discovered d facts on time..and i respect ur courage by accepting mistakes and yet exposing him to prevent other girls being decieved by him..your cause is as graceful as you..take it as a lesson and carry on with life..the show must go on. Alok thank you An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/8/2008 9:45 pm |
BUT YOU NEVER CONTACTED ME OR TOLD ME YOU  I NEED MY HUG GIVE ME GIVE ME  Thanks a lot to SOUL and JKM  Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD.
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12/8/2008 10:09 pm |
i am not hurt or offended..and believe me my intentions was not to hurt u..i hope u can believe this....i am happy u wrote this blog coz i am sure jadz has hurt lots more ladies...theres a some i see that lovie dovie him up in the lobby...this blog will bring out the truth about him and what type of snake he is!... oh and i still cant believe he said he lost his frigging money or someone stole it..what the hotel doesnt take visa?? i dont want to talk about the situation with hotp..lets end that topic or i should say i will end that ...if we knew each other in real,,as friend i would tell u the same thing to....i wouldnt hide my feelings....like i said i am not here to hurt u in any way! i wonder what jadz is thinking now....i wonder if he even cares that we all see him as a low degraded a$$ hole! ya know men like that don't give a dam..but remember karma ....eh jadz...LOL i know ur reading this LOL....sprite is to nice..if that was me i would made sure that ur d!ck was sliced off!!!! and i am not joking!
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12/8/2008 10:49 pm |
BUT YOU NEVER CONTACTED ME OR TOLD ME YOU I NEED MY HUG GIVE ME GIVE ME Thanks a lot to SOUL and JKM An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 12:08 am |
Hi Nymphyyyyyyyyyyy... i m shocked to see this... and i thought that i knw him very well.. but i was wrong ... and what we all knw in our culture that "Athiti Devo Bhav" means guest is like god... and its really shameful for all of us... And yes its good that you have some good friends like JKM di, Soul and Nive around you.. what to say abut JKM di she is such a darling and my elder sister and she support me lot and in IFF but in my real life only she is IFF who knw everything about me and care for me .. love you di ..... And sorrie for all this... Love you dear.......... Janya ....
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12/9/2008 4:27 am |
[SIZE 10].feeling guilty for being myself an indian male...human... how could one do this to fellow human... this hurt.. and after all this back biting and stabbing .. ummmm that hurt deeper... may god give you all the strenght to cope with it and give the guilty the strenght to realise the mistake and repent for it... and its first time i am here reading any blog .. its wonderfull to see so many fello iff chatter stand with each other when its needed to be there.. thanks all...GOD BLESS ALL
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12/9/2008 5:07 am |
been a part of this site, once upon atime regular and now a days irregular and know quite a few people out here.Though not talked much to spritely but had seen in the rooms often. What has happened with her is really terrible. He lived upto his handle. Firstly misleading her , asking her to come all the wayto India and treating a friend shabbily. sheeshhhhhhhhhh disguisting. What a reflection of an Indian male out hereeeeeeee ... GawdSpritely i admire you for writing this blog and revealing the true colours of the sweet stalkers... Just forget it as a bad dream and move forward.... Cheerup sprite... You dont have to do anything. This blog is sufficient enough to hang his head in shame.. Sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy spritely
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12/9/2008 6:05 am |
ITS A VERY SHAMEFUL THING FOR US, WE FEEL VERY SORRY FOR THAT. WE WILL HOPE NEXT TIME IT WONT HAPPENDS
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12/9/2008 6:06 am |
ITS A VERY SHAMEFUL THING FOR US, WE FEEL VERY SORRY FOR THAT. WE WILL HOPE NEXT TIME IT WONT HAPPENDS
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12/9/2008 10:59 am |
dear nymph im sorry to hear wat happen to wat he did was wrong totally wrong he knows better. im really upset wat he did to u really as i thought he was a friend of mine but not anymore im with u all da way, and also he is such a Sweet talker and all gals get attracted to him so gals beware
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12/9/2008 12:50 pm |
Hi Nymphyyyyyyyyyyy... i m shocked to see this... and i thought that i knw him very well.. but i was wrong ... and what we all knw in our culture that "Athiti Devo Bhav" means guest is like god... and its really shameful for all of us... And yes its good that you have some good friends like JKM di, Soul and Nive around you.. what to say abut JKM di she is such a darling and my elder sister and she support me lot and in IFF but in my real life only she is IFF who knw everything about me and care for me .. love you di ..... And sorrie for all this... Love you dear.......... Janya .... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 12:52 pm |
[SIZE 10].feeling guilty for being myself an indian male...human... how could one do this to fellow human... this hurt.. and after all this back biting and stabbing .. ummmm that hurt deeper... may god give you all the strenght to cope with it and give the guilty the strenght to realise the mistake and repent for it... and its first time i am here reading any blog .. its wonderfull to see so many fello iff chatter stand with each other when its needed to be there.. thanks all...GOD BLESS ALL ...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 12:53 pm |
been a part of this site, once upon atime regular and now a days irregular and know quite a few people out here.Though not talked much to spritely but had seen in the rooms often. What has happened with her is really terrible. He lived upto his handle. Firstly misleading her , asking her to come all the wayto India and treating a friend shabbily. sheeshhhhhhhhhh disguisting. What a reflection of an Indian male out hereeeeeeee ... GawdSpritely i admire you for writing this blog and revealing the true colours of the sweet stalkers... Just forget it as a bad dream and move forward.... Cheerup sprite... You dont have to do anything. This blog is sufficient enough to hang his head in shame.. Sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy spritely ...how can i not cheer up with so many friends there to help...thanks hunAn Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 12:55 pm |
ITS A VERY SHAMEFUL THING FOR US, WE FEEL VERY SORRY FOR THAT. WE WILL HOPE NEXT TIME IT WONT HAPPENDS ..thanks maneshAn Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 12:56 pm |
dear nymph im sorry to hear wat happen to wat he did was wrong totally wrong he knows better. im really upset wat he did to u really as i thought he was a friend of mine but not anymore im with u all da way, and also he is such a Sweet talker and all gals get attracted to him so gals beware An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 7:00 pm |
Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD.
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12/9/2008 9:58 pm |
An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/9/2008 11:36 pm |
soul..yes,,,you are right all males here,,especially Indian men must unite and condemn what he has done.I am ashamed to read the blog and fully sympathise with sprite.Sprite dear,,sorry for your ordeal...pl try to forget and make a new beginning, my friend.
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12/10/2008 1:29 am |
hope ur doing okay now. so, which place u visiting next year? life must go on dear. take care.
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12/10/2008 1:52 am |
while reading this blog , Something just died in me was it belief? or was it trust of one human in another?. well this wont prevent me from trusting any one or from believing anyone but there aint gonna ever be blind trust or blind belief. Wont say i feel sorry for you sprite , but yes i do feel for you. just reminds me of a song " Jab bhee jee chahey nayeee duniyaa basa lete hain log, ek chehre pey kayee chere laga lete hain log". It transliterates as thus " Whenever they feel like people set up a new life, on one face they keep changing masks". Is forced to say this :- Relationships at IFF ? My Foot( Bullshit is what i mean to say). Regrds Rajinder
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12/10/2008 4:38 am |
hmmmmm... I came back to see if u left a response to my comment.. ty btw.. I read not far above me about iff is not a good place to make a relationship... on the contrary dear raj..ur forgetting a few members that have tied the knot and as far as I know.. they are still in love as they were before the vows. I think the support shown here is great.. ppl say iff is this or that..but, when a REAL member gets hurt ... ppl do rally support.. and that seems very friendly to me. tc    â—‹â—‹â—‹ click the blue links here â—‹â—‹â—‹
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12/10/2008 8:20 am |
Hi Spryte... Just wondering if you are doing better? Thinking about you is all... I sent you a message...hope you got it okay... Peace ~n~ Love..Woof
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12/10/2008 6:56 pm |
while reading this blog , Something just died in me was it belief? or was it trust of one human in another?. well this wont prevent me from trusting any one or from believing anyone but there aint gonna ever be blind trust or blind belief. Wont say i feel sorry for you sprite , but yes i do feel for you. just reminds me of a song " Jab bhee jee chahey nayeee duniyaa basa lete hain log, ek chehre pey kayee chere laga lete hain log". It transliterates as thus " Whenever they feel like people set up a new life, on one face they keep changing masks". Is forced to say this :- Relationships at IFF ? My Foot( Bullshit is what i mean to say). Regrds Rajinder An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/10/2008 7:00 pm |
Hi Spryte... Just wondering if you are doing better? Thinking about you is all... I sent you a message...hope you got it okay... Peace ~n~ Love..Woof An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/11/2008 4:59 am |
I read this blog, re-read it and also all the comments put by felow IIF'ians!! Honestly though, I am yet to understand the whole hullabaloo about it all. Okay I don't mean to sound like an insensitive jerk but yeah that's how I feel!! I agree with all my friends here who openly showed their discomfort and anger towards one particular member that is jadugar35. However, there's a lot left for introspection. I am adding my comment here coz I feel I should and spritelynymph you may not like some/all of what I am going to write but please do think about it. Before anything, sprite I do feel terrible thinking of the trying times you had to go through coz of that poor excuse of a guy jadugar. He is a shame to mankind not just to male species and people such as him put a question mark on some very crucial facts of one's life like faith and belief on fellow human et all! Having said that, I must add nymph that I strongly feel too many wrongs don't make anything right! How could you NOT see all of this coming??!! Okay yeah you did but choose to ignore, am I right?! To expect a guy to actually love you and treat you like a princess, the same guy who hasn't done a thing right with just about everyone he is ever associated with, is a bit too much don't you think??!! Most importantly, YOU knew of everything yet you went ahead with it! From where I see things, this whole charade was in the offing and I am saying it even though I know this isn't what one should be saying at a time like this. Like it or not nymph, that jackass was successful in doing what he set out to only coz YOU had put yourself in a gullible and vulnerable position for him to take advantage of! About this blog and the total hubbub surrounding it, I am amused coz seriously anyone would be totally out of one's mind to even think that episode such as this would never be repeated! Jadugar35 's bad that he wasn't smart enough to pull this one off! He sure makes quite a good effort to make people believe he is good at these! Be rest assured that there are zillions lurking around waiting As long as there are gullible, blinded people like you nymph, people like jadugar would be there too!! Spritelynymph, all I want to say in the end is- MAY GOD GIVE YOU ENOUGH WISDOM TO ALLOW YOU TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN WHAT'S REAL AND WHAT'S NOT! Mahee
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12/11/2008 3:34 pm |
THE FUKN SON OF A BITCH.... u c tats y i dnt trust men...... Woh_Lamhe
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12/11/2008 3:34 pm |
THE FUKN SON OF A BITCH.... u c tats y i dnt trust men...... ok men sum of u may be the gud ones but sum of u aint. Woh_Lamhe
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12/11/2008 9:17 pm |
cruxie ...love you hun..and tks for always lookin out for me 2....i'm sure i keep u busy, lol....ur a great friend..and i'm lookin forward to our Thai adventure .... lol hunni when i go to thailand why would i need you for an adventure  hehehe just joking ...... lol and i don't mind you keeping me busy ......after all ain't friends meant for it ....to watch each others back
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12/11/2008 10:50 pm |
my advice to sprite...dont degrade urself...whatever happened between u n jad should not have come in open...huggs poo
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12/12/2008 8:27 am |
i Definitely disagree with that last post ..even if this was a hypothetical situation, it was still was necessary for this come out to prevent it from happening again hai na? i mean forget the people involved in this..it could be in another time and another place..the objective of the blog was to raise the level of awareness so that this situation can be averted s_0_u_l
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12/12/2008 10:51 am |
I don't think sprite should feel degraded by this post... I think she should feel personally empowered and supported. If I ever travelled out of my country to visit a friend that whole heartedly wanted me to come.. that in ways manipulated the travel... and on arrival that person was not in the slightest bit serious about my well being nor the friendship I WOULD BE MAD AS HELL and most certainly I would write a post about it.. .why should I keep my mouth shut > Poo? I can only bet.. that this post tickled u... lol a white woman being used and abused this way...sicko  I remember u full of glee when it happened to nella and mrl a few years back.. oh, how u giggled in lobby.. that is when I saw u .. for who u really were.â—‹â—‹â—‹ click the blue links here â—‹â—‹â—‹
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12/12/2008 11:28 am |
Hey Nymph... My heart cries.. he is a third rate rascal...but u ? so innocent...he is a hungry pig .. aa predater.. I guess he is a classless Punjabi...they are very much like that... I sobbed reading that Nymph..t/c and forget all that u hun...
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12/12/2008 12:31 pm |
Hiii sprite . I went thru ur blog n comments of evrybodyelse.But sprite let me tell u one thing , u urself is responsible for this situation . i mean i just cant figure it out how can u trust a person blindly knowing him thru chat sites n travelling all alone to an unknown country to meet him.on top of that u got involved with a married man knowing fully well about his status. ask urself a question " did u even for once think of his poor wife before getting involved with jaadugar? now u can feel sorry for the poor lady coz u been trated so shabbily by the rascal. I do feel sorry for whatever happenend with u n lemme tell u once again u cn count on me as a friend . do let me know if i cn be of some help to u . as far as jaadugaar is concerned i think he isnt MAN enough to treat a lady in such a fashion.
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12/12/2008 5:28 pm |
Spritley, sorry you went through such a terrible ordeal. There will be a special place in hell for liars and deceivers like him!!!!!! (((Spritely))) Take care and God bless you. SugarCookie  
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12/12/2008 7:54 pm |
wishin u all the best fr yr next Delhi visit... I''ll be there for u and u can share my apartment free of cost,,, u r most welcome Sprite,,, Atithi Devo bhav for Us...
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12/12/2008 8:44 pm |
I read this blog, re-read it and also all the comments put by felow IIF'ians!! Honestly though, I am yet to understand the whole hullabaloo about it all. Okay I don't mean to sound like an insensitive jerk but yeah that's how I feel!! I agree with all my friends here who openly showed their discomfort and anger towards one particular member that is jadugar35. However, there's a lot left for introspection. I am adding my comment here coz I feel I should and spritelynymph you may not like some/all of what I am going to write but please do think about it. Before anything, sprite I do feel terrible thinking of the trying times you had to go through coz of that poor excuse of a guy jadugar. He is a shame to mankind not just to male species and people such as him put a question mark on some very crucial facts of one's life like faith and belief on fellow human et all! Having said that, I must add nymph that I strongly feel too many wrongs don't make anything right! How could you NOT see all of this coming??!! Okay yeah you did but choose to ignore, am I right?! To expect a guy to actually love you and treat you like a princess, the same guy who hasn't done a thing right with just about everyone he is ever associated with, is a bit too much don't you think??!! Most importantly, YOU knew of everything yet you went ahead with it! From where I see things, this whole charade was in the offing and I am saying it even though I know this isn't what one should be saying at a time like this. Like it or not nymph, that jackass was successful in doing what he set out to only coz YOU had put yourself in a gullible and vulnerable position for him to take advantage of! About this blog and the total hubbub surrounding it, I am amused coz seriously anyone would be totally out of one's mind to even think that episode such as this would never be repeated! Jadugar35 's bad that he wasn't smart enough to pull this one off! He sure makes quite a good effort to make people believe he is good at these! Be rest assured that there are zillions lurking around waiting As long as there are gullible, blinded people like you nymph, people like jadugar would be there too!! Spritelynymph, all I want to say in the end is- MAY GOD GIVE YOU ENOUGH WISDOM TO ALLOW YOU TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN WHAT'S REAL AND WHAT'S NOT! Mahee i was wrong....it does happen from time to time tks for commenting... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 8:45 pm |
THE FUKN SON OF A BITCH.... u c tats y i dnt trust men...... ok men sum of u may be the gud ones but sum of u aint. ...i'll drink to dat......An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 8:46 pm |
lol hunni when i go to thailand why would i need you for an adventure hehehe just joking ...... lol and i don't mind you keeping me busy ......after all ain't friends meant for it ....to watch each others back An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 8:49 pm |
i Definitely disagree with that last post ..even if this was a hypothetical situation, it was still was necessary for this come out to prevent it from happening again hai na? i mean forget the people involved in this..it could be in another time and another place..the objective of the blog was to raise the level of awareness so that this situation can be averted s_0_u_l ..agreed...and thanks to my many friends...i think the objective has been met....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 8:51 pm |
I don't think sprite should feel degraded by this post... I think she should feel personally empowered and supported. If I ever travelled out of my country to visit a friend that whole heartedly wanted me to come.. that in ways manipulated the travel... and on arrival that person was not in the slightest bit serious about my well being nor the friendship I WOULD BE MAD AS HELL and most certainly I would write a post about it.. .why should I keep my mouth shut > Poo? I can only bet.. that this post tickled u... lol a white woman being used and abused this way...sicko I remember u full of glee when it happened to nella and mrl a few years back.. oh, how u giggled in lobby.. that is when I saw u .. for who u really were.in fact i think not having done anything about it would have been degrading.... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 8:52 pm |
Hey Nymph... My heart cries.. he is a third rate rascal...but u ? so innocent...he is a hungry pig .. aa predater.. I guess he is a classless Punjabi...they are very much like that... I sobbed reading that Nymph..t/c and forget all that u hun... ....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 8:59 pm |
Hiii sprite . I went thru ur blog n comments of evrybodyelse.But sprite let me tell u one thing , u urself is responsible for this situation . i mean i just cant figure it out how can u trust a person blindly knowing him thru chat sites n travelling all alone to an unknown country to meet him.on top of that u got involved with a married man knowing fully well about his status. ask urself a question " did u even for once think of his poor wife before getting involved with jaadugar? now u can feel sorry for the poor lady coz u been trated so shabbily by the rascal. I do feel sorry for whatever happenend with u n lemme tell u once again u cn count on me as a friend . do let me know if i cn be of some help to u . as far as jaadugaar is concerned i think he isnt MAN enough to treat a lady in such a fashion. and yes getting involved with him was wrong...because he was married(and yes i thought about his wife often)...i'm not perfect....i never denied that or said i did nothing wrong....and sometimes i let my heart speak over my head. i made a bad choice...and instead of crawling under a rug and hiding from it i decided 2 use my new found knowldege to help someone else....which i've come to find out it already has... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 9:00 pm |
Spritley, sorry you went through such a terrible ordeal. There will be a special place in hell for liars and deceivers like him!!!!!! (((Spritely))) Take care and God bless you. SugarCookie ...tks sugar....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 9:01 pm |
wishin u all the best fr yr next Delhi visit... I''ll be there for u and u can share my apartment free of cost,,, u r most welcome Sprite,,, Atithi Devo bhav for Us... ...thanks for the offer,..would love to visit india again...to much 2 see and do in just one visit An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/12/2008 11:27 pm |
sprite...don loose your spirit.. sorry to heard about what hapened with you..its realy feeling hirt myself..that i meaned him a big brother.iits shame on him that he an indian..i don have word to say anything..he is a bull shitt..plzz.take care.god bless you.keep smile..coz life never stops. regards.. saahil.vaidya
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12/13/2008 12:36 am |
spirty m proud of u sweet. i know all this happen wth u was shit crap. but i tell u all ladies plz never trust so much on cyber guyz? sweet ur't not single one hurted here lots guys n grlz r hurted frm uncles and aunties,here in iff n in all cyber 60% r fake.one of my frnd in iff hurted frm german lady .they both get marry n she loted all gold n money frm his side now he gone mad yaar.thank god ur safe frm big craps.anyway im proud of u all other guys n grlz read u n think fisrt fall in relationship. sweet my morel spot wth u never feels alone we all r fnds .hope n pray fr future..may god gives u loving bf.. thanks lot
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12/13/2008 12:39 am |
I usually don't go through the iff blogs. But while looking at someone else's your caption caught my attention. I am shocked and pained deeply. The bastard is lucky that I wasn't around or he would have been serving time in prison. But its good that you exposed the creep. All I can say is that never trust a man in future till you are very very sure of what he actually is. Test him again and again. All Indian men aren't like him of course. But its better to be careful always before you can trust anyone completely. Your soul however is clean and untouched. God be with you.
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12/13/2008 7:28 am |
sprite...don loose your spirit.. sorry to heard about what hapened with you..its realy feeling hirt myself..that i meaned him a big brother.iits shame on him that he an indian..i don have word to say anything..he is a bull shitt..plzz.take care.god bless you.keep smile..coz life never stops. ..tks for stopping byAn Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/13/2008 7:31 am |
spirty m proud of u sweet. i know all this happen wth u was shit crap. but i tell u all ladies plz never trust so much on cyber guyz? sweet ur't not single one hurted here lots guys n grlz r hurted frm uncles and aunties,here in iff n in all cyber 60% r fake.one of my frnd in iff hurted frm german lady .they both get marry n she loted all gold n money frm his side now he gone mad yaar.thank god ur safe frm big craps.anyway im proud of u all other guys n grlz read u n think fisrt fall in relationship. sweet my morel spot wth u never feels alone we all r fnds .hope n pray fr future..may god gives u loving bf.. thanks lot An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/13/2008 7:38 am |
I usually don't go through the iff blogs. But while looking at someone else's your caption caught my attention. I am shocked and pained deeply. The bastard is lucky that I wasn't around or he would have been serving time in prison. But its good that you exposed the creep. All I can say is that never trust a man in future till you are very very sure of what he actually is. Test him again and again. All Indian men aren't like him of course. But its better to be careful always before you can trust anyone completely. Your soul however is clean and untouched. God be with you. ....my India trip was a huge one...i would say i've been to careful in my life...2 years ago i would have never considered going off to a foreign country all by my lonesome....and despite jadugar....i had an amazing time in India...i met other friends there as well....who proved to me that taking a chance is well worth it...thanks hun... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/13/2008 8:39 pm |
now that most people hv said their piece and understood this sordid episode in their own fair way ... i need to clarify a few things since there are a few misconceptions & some confusion too regarding certain aspects of this blog which i am gonna address here ... the authenticity & motives of jadugar's actions as described here CANNOT be questioned since there were not one but THREE WITNESSES to the different events which jadugar is so trying to justify in his private chats since this blog came up remember he is chatting with a whole lot of women who are very close to me ... 
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12/13/2008 9:19 pm |
my advice to sprite...dont degrade urself...whatever happened between u n jad should not have come in open...huggs poo most people here understood what jadu is ... and pooja's comment reeks of wanting to protect jadugar which is not at all surprising ... evidently pooja would love this episode for two reasons ... one that a gori (white woman) got taken for a ride ... her theory has always been told in shudhh punjabi in the lobby by her time & again that these gori's steal our men ... ((( these goris are more welcome here on IFF a hundred times over than this pooja... ))) not to fotget how she poked fun at white women who got taken even when she PRETENDED to be their friend all along... not to forget she and her paki friend in canada call me 'kala kauwa' gori lover due to my close association with many white women on IFF ... again not to forget the first thing she did when she became friends with melodic_lotus is ask her innocently that since i have rushed to the aid of goris such as rachelle and desi_shah how is it that i never helped melodic during harsh's abuse ??? ... i wud rather kiss a poisonous snake that have pooja even 10 feet away from me ... lol she even did leg work for PRINCE to get him melodic's phone number ... lol she pasted DEVILISH's YM addy all over the lobby ( a woman she pretended to befriend ) while she and PRINCE lolled this and lolled that about DEVILISH ((( who incidently is the wife of longthick4u a popular member here ))) not too long ago when i ran out another serious creep, PREDATOR and the biggest edit copy-paster called PRINCE (syed akhtar) from london who actually deleted his blogs and handles once exposed by namkeen and 9 other women ... POOJA brought him back here saying ''IFF is not shaitaan ke baap ka '' .... effectively putting future women members at risk while this sorry little woman GLOATS OVER OTHERS' MISFORTUNES ... remeber folks 'shegivesadamn' thus pooja's comment has no relevance since this blog clearly is to expose what jadugar is all about hoping some other women will not fall for his sweet talking wiles ... and as for whoever is standing in defence of jadugar : -- HE TRIED HIS BEST TO INDIMIDATE SPRITE ON HER REACHING THE USA ... JUST FOUR DAYS AFTER COOTIECOOING AND PROFESSING HIS LOVE IN NIVEPRANK'S HOME ... and without any reason at that point he began calling sprite nasty adjectives to men and women he chats with from the day she flew out ... SPRITE WAS IGNORANT OF ALL THIS ... simple formula of predators ... had sex ... get rid of the woman by harassing her , threatening her & indimidating her in private ... hoping this will shame her into leaving the site or shutting up about what he did ...
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12/13/2008 9:30 pm |
back to jadugar and sprite one thing i wanna mention to all the readers here is ... i have been in touch with sprite from the time she set foot on indian soil at mumbai all through her trip to goa, bangalore and uptil the last of the six days in delhi on her way back to USA ... so i have been privy to all that has happened on a first hand basis ... her first two legs of the trip were both enjoyable and in company of good friends ... it took solid guts for sprite to write this blog so as jadugar's love , sex and then abuse romp comes to a grinding halt here on IFF ... even at the cost of some people admonishing her and pointing fingers at her ... many women in her place would have rolled over and played dead in sheer fear of this lowlife predator ...
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12/13/2008 10:29 pm |
Truth, they say, is stranger than fiction. Till I read this blog - and I rarely read blogs here - I have never imagined that this adage could indeed be true. Reading this makes me really sick. I hardly know both of them. However some one who has the courage to share such a horrid experience deserves all sympathy. I am also somewhat surprised - shocked would be a more appropriate expression - to see some posts referring to some aspects of nymph's private and personal life. Give her a break! What ever she - or for that matter anyone else - does within the confines of their room, chat window, cam etc is left to them. Lets not brings such private matters to public domain. I do hope this is an eye opener for everyone here.
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12/13/2008 10:46 pm |
among many things jadugar is trying to say in private to all the peeps he is chatting with ((( i have most of these chats with me since a majority of the members are chatting with him at my behest so as we understand how his trickery is still continuing ))) a few examples ... 1.he is trying to say he was not aware of her plans or of her long stay in delhi ( which was very much for his sake ) the jerk-off forgot he already had told some people that she has used his residence addy for her visa application and made excuse to his wife that he has a business jaunt for 6 days at delhi 2. he is trying to make you believe he was only there as a tour guide on her persistence ... beleive me his chats with her thoughout the year say otherwise this after the sicko professed his undying love for her and HAD SEX with her both the days he was with her till he realized her trip to delhi was no secret as he hoped and that othes like JKM and SOUL were gonna be meeting her regularly ... he even began poking fun at her size even as she was over the oceans on her way back home 3. he is trying to convince people that sprite is only peeved about the fact she had to pay for her room ... let it be understood SHE IS NOT AT ALL BOTHERED ABOUT THE MONEY ... fact of the matter is the poor naive gori was blissfully unaware of the fact that the stupid story about the MONEY stolen from the bag on the train was a lie ... and instead she was sympathetic till we pointed out the facts that no indian business man leaves MONEY in his bag .. he wud carry it on himself ... even if he did keep it in his bag ... the bag itself would get stolen not that someone would unzip it or unlock it and rummage through it in full view of other passengers etc ... finally what about his CREDIT CARDS or numerous ATM's at pahargunj and the fact he has some cousins in delhi where he usually stays ... the fact of the matter is i told JKM to tell SOUL not to reach for his wallet nor she offer to pay for the lunch on their third meeting ... that they shud cooly walk out leaving him with the bill letting him pay or wash the utensils at the restaurant ... a-la-schooldays .. the bugger had the gall to say he did not even have Rs 15 in his pocket for entry fees to Delhi-haat  for those who don't know delhi ... you need to hail an auto to even cross the freaking road which itself wud cost ya minimum of Rs 40 to 50 ... mind you he is a successful businessman ..= = = the devil endorses spritelynymph as being different than us ... but a good soul and all on IFF know i would not say this if i did not mean it ... AND NO WAY A PREDATOR IS GONNA BREAK HER SPIRIT or operate on IFF in future ...hats off to SOUL , JKM and NIVEPRANKS for their input here ... kudos to JKM for opening her home to sprite while this guy was about to find the back door leaving her in the lurch in a highly dangerous city ... = = = i agree with my friend mahee that there will be more of these sly creeps and more trusting women ... as there have been in the past ... but i say we cannot turn a blind eye and look the other way when we see such incidents happening ... i applaud pritely again , the same i did women like desishah , rach , romita, khatti , namkeen , yourdream etc etc who in the past had brought to light other predators like mitch/korki/ronan/scorcher ... prince... satans_angel etc etc don't stand like mute spectators and say ''it doesn't concern me'' more power to the IFF women
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12/13/2008 11:07 pm |
on some unrelated issue which was brought in here in an attempt to portray spritelynymph in poor light ... i wonder why HOTPERFUME did not bring it up on his blog or put in his comment here instead
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12/14/2008 2:23 am |
Jadugar....where are you? Do you have the decency to come out of your hell hole and at least apologise to Nymph?? Shame on you man and i feel sorry for your wife and children who have to live with you and accept your lies and deceits as part of their life. Nymph.....it is a bitter lesson for you and all the women who are vulnerable to such low life men's false promises. You will come out of it much stronger and wiser. Please take care of yourself and not let anyone take advantage of your good nature. You have a beautiful son and enjoy life with him. Wait until you are strong enough to male wise decisions. No man is ever worth your tears and the one who is worth....will not give you tears but will give a smile and a happy feeling.
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12/14/2008 5:20 am |
hmm jad is to scared to come out as he knows wat will be comin to him if he ever enters da lobby dat shit he uses people da asshole. da only reason he aint comin out as he knows he was in da wrong totaly wrong dats wat i think im with nymph all da way, hey sweet hows u i hope ur better and we are all thinkin off u dnt let da creep get to u let it go and enjoy sweet we are here mwah take care
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12/14/2008 4:18 pm |
Jads.....as I can no longer call you chachu...u lost the respect  ....you didnt tell me about the rupees 15 story .... if you would have told me I would have been the first one to ask if you had begged your way to your cousins place as they were not home the time you got there to pay for the auto-rickshaw if you went by one and the bus conductor would not let you sit in the bus without a ticket...so did you walk back WHY THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN LYING TO ME....THE PERSON YOU SAID WAS LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER?????????????You called me your daughter and portrayed yourself as a saint in front of me.....why??..if you were not wrong why don't you have the guts to come out and say u were not wrong??? YOU KNOW YOU MAKE THE WORD RELATIONSHIP N TRUST STINK NIVE
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12/14/2008 9:36 pm |
back to jadugar and sprite one thing i wanna mention to all the readers here is ... i have been in touch with sprite from the time she set foot on indian soil at mumbai all through her trip to goa, bangalore and uptil the last of the six days in delhi on her way back to USA ... so i have been privy to all that has happened on a first hand basis ... her first two legs of the trip were both enjoyable and in company of good friends ... it took solid guts for sprite to write this blog so as jadugar's love , sex and then abuse romp comes to a grinding halt here on IFF ... even at the cost of some people admonishing her and pointing fingers at her ... many women in her place would have rolled over and played dead in sheer fear of this lowlife predator ... ...tks sweetness....yes, it was nice of you to keep tabs on me throughout my trip...it was great updating you on my adventures....my only regret is not including you on one of my stops....will have to rectify that next time...but yes...my india trip was an incredible experience and one little comment...to those he would claim i must have been naive and stupid to have fallen for his tricks....well,...i disagree...jadu is very good at deceiving...he knows just what to say to a woman....and it's not all lovey stuff either....he gets into ur life....lets u into his...befriends u....creates drama and pain...so u remember what the good feels like....it isn't the fairytale that most guys would give you....he creates emotional ups and downs....cause u see, people who don't care about you...don't get upset or hurt when life happens etc....he's gd at acting hurt...at being the victim... i've always thought myself to b a gd judge of character....and i don't just let anyone into my life...most of u know it takes a lot to even get on my ym....but after this i can certainly say that it can happen 2 me...and this will probably make me more cautious...for awhile...but i certainly hope it doesn't change me....i don't want to miss on something great because i'm 2 afraid to take a chance...my heart will mend...but does regret? An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/14/2008 9:52 pm |
Truth, they say, is stranger than fiction. Till I read this blog - and I rarely read blogs here - I have never imagined that this adage could indeed be true. Reading this makes me really sick. I hardly know both of them. However some one who has the courage to share such a horrid experience deserves all sympathy. I am also somewhat surprised - shocked would be a more appropriate expression - to see some posts referring to some aspects of nymph's private and personal life. Give her a break! What ever she - or for that matter anyone else - does within the confines of their room, chat window, cam etc is left to them. Lets not brings such private matters to public domain. I do hope this is an eye opener for everyone here. An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/14/2008 10:08 pm |
among many things jadugar is trying to say in private to all the peeps he is chatting with ((( i have most of these chats with me since a majority of the members are chatting with him at my behest so as we understand how his trickery is still continuing ))) a few examples ... 1.he is trying to say he was not aware of her plans or of her long stay in delhi ( which was very much for his sake ) the jerk-off forgot he already had told some people that she has used his residence addy for her visa application and made excuse to his wife that he has a business jaunt for 6 days at delhi 2. he is trying to make you believe he was only there as a tour guide on her persistence ... beleive me his chats with her thoughout the year say otherwise this after the sicko professed his undying love for her and HAD SEX with her both the days he was with her till he realized her trip to delhi was no secret as he hoped and that othes like JKM and SOUL were gonna be meeting her regularly ... he even began poking fun at her size even as she was over the oceans on her way back home 3. he is trying to convince people that sprite is only peeved about the fact she had to pay for her room ... let it be understood SHE IS NOT AT ALL BOTHERED ABOUT THE MONEY ... fact of the matter is the poor naive gori was blissfully unaware of the fact that the stupid story about the MONEY stolen from the bag on the train was a lie ... and instead she was sympathetic till we pointed out the facts that no indian business man leaves MONEY in his bag .. he wud carry it on himself ... even if he did keep it in his bag ... the bag itself would get stolen not that someone would unzip it or unlock it and rummage through it in full view of other passengers etc ... finally what about his CREDIT CARDS or numerous ATM's at pahargunj and the fact he has some cousins in delhi where he usually stays ... the fact of the matter is i told JKM to tell SOUL not to reach for his wallet nor she offer to pay for the lunch on their third meeting ... that they shud cooly walk out leaving him with the bill letting him pay or wash the utensils at the restaurant ... a-la-schooldays .. the bugger had the gall to say he did not even have Rs 15 in his pocket for entry fees to Delhi-haat for those who don't know delhi ... you need to hail an auto to even cross the freaking road which itself wud cost ya minimum of Rs 40 to 50 ... mind you he is a successful businessman ..= = = the devil endorses spritelynymph as being different than us ... but a good soul and all on IFF know i would not say this if i did not mean it ... AND NO WAY A PREDATOR IS GONNA BREAK HER SPIRIT or operate on IFF in future ...hats off to SOUL , JKM and NIVEPRANKS for their input here ... kudos to JKM for opening her home to sprite while this guy was about to find the back door leaving her in the lurch in a highly dangerous city ... = = = i agree with my friend mahee that there will be more of these sly creeps and more trusting women ... as there have been in the past ... but i say we cannot turn a blind eye and look the other way when we see such incidents happening ... i applaud pritely again , the same i did women like desishah , rach , romita, khatti , namkeen , yourdream etc etc who in the past had brought to light other predators like mitch/korki/ronan/scorcher ... prince... satans_angel etc etc don't stand like mute spectators and say ''it doesn't concern me'' more power to the IFF women 2. hmmmm....tour guide?....should i have paid extra for the sex? or is that included in the tour? it was 2 b a romantic few days from the beginning...he wanted to make it a trip i wouldn't forget...we had been planning it for months...few days in agraa, taj mahal...etc. 3. i would have been perfectly fine with paying for my own room, food etc....i was naive at first about him losing money, but did question why he couldn't have used credit cards or gone to an atm....but he had gd excused for both and said he would pay me back...and when i say pay me back..i'm not referring 2 him paying back the money i paid on my room or food etc....i wanted him to pay back the money i spent paying for his room, taxis, his ticket for agra trip, etc... my one solace in all this....is that he underestimated me....i expect he thought i would b 2 embarrased to speak up, 2 hurt....i'm proud to say 2 you sunil...that you couldn't have been more wrong.... In this...you misjudged me poorly....i am a strong woman...a beautiful woman....and you are nothing...and deserve no more of my time....goodbye... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/14/2008 10:12 pm |
on some unrelated issue which was brought in here in an attempt to portray spritelynymph in poor light ... i wonder why HOTPERFUME did not bring it up on his blog or put in his comment here instead An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/14/2008 10:15 pm |
Jadugar....where are you? Do you have the decency to come out of your hell hole and at least apologise to Nymph?? Shame on you man and i feel sorry for your wife and children who have to live with you and accept your lies and deceits as part of their life. Nymph.....it is a bitter lesson for you and all the women who are vulnerable to such low life men's false promises. You will come out of it much stronger and wiser. Please take care of yourself and not let anyone take advantage of your good nature. You have a beautiful son and enjoy life with him. Wait until you are strong enough to male wise decisions. No man is ever worth your tears and the one who is worth....will not give you tears but will give a smile and a happy feeling. thanks hun An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/14/2008 10:18 pm |
hmm jad is to scared to come out as he knows wat will be comin to him if he ever enters da lobby dat shit he uses people da asshole. da only reason he aint comin out as he knows he was in da wrong totaly wrong dats wat i think im with nymph all da way, hey sweet hows u i hope ur better and we are all thinkin off u dnt let da creep get to u let it go and enjoy sweet we are here mwah take care ...i'm doing great...i've had a lot of support...thanks so much...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/14/2008 10:20 pm |
Jads.....as I can no longer call you chachu...u lost the respect ....you didnt tell me about the rupees 15 story.... if you would have told me I would have been the first one to ask if you had begged your way to your cousins place as they were not home the time you got there to pay for the auto-rickshaw if you went by one and the bus conductor would not let you sit in the bus without a ticket...so did you walk back WHY THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN LYING TO ME....THE PERSON YOU SAID WAS LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER?????????????You called me your daughter and portrayed yourself as a saint in front of me.....why??..if you were not wrong why don't you have the guts to come out and say u were not wrong??? YOU KNOW YOU MAKE THE WORD RELATIONSHIP N TRUST STINK NIVE  ...u need a hug 2...i know you've been hurt 2...he meant a lot 2 u as well....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/15/2008 9:45 am |
hey sprite, I hope you are feeling better now and I want to express my sympathies for what happened to you. I do have questions in respect to a couple of red flags I don't quite understand how you could have ignored but this is not the appropriate place to bring them up. I personally saw through the guy very quickly and believed him to be a player and someone who really had no true feelings for anyone but as you know it takes me a long time to trust anyone. Having said that I would not have expected him to go this far. I wouldnt have believed that he would allow you to come all the way to India and then use you the way he did. I had a friend who had a similar experience with a woman he knew for 2 years and with whom he talked on ym and phone everyday. He drove across several states only to be left waiting at the airport all night as she never had any intentions of meeting him As for Jad, there is nothing he can say to justify his actions. Its very clear what his intentions were. He used you for sex...bottom line. I hate to sound so harsh because I know you must be hurting but I dont see how anyone could draw any other conclusion. Anyways, I really just want to say I'm sorry for what happened to you and although we have had our differences in the past I know from having talked privately with you that you have a loving heart and its an awful thing for someone to have taken advantage of that.
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12/15/2008 11:43 am |
Nymphy....You been very courageous in bringing out this blog..and it will do you good by taking off your chest ..as they say!!. You will be a much stronger person and much wiser too. Had you kept quiet , the matter would have been eating you away in heart and playing in your mind. Also the people are now aware what Jadu is like and what he is capable of doing. Jadu has no self respect and he has simply used you .In time you will forget him and remember the good times you had with JKM, NIVE and SOUL
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12/15/2008 2:12 pm |
hey sprite, I hope you are feeling better now and I want to express my sympathies for what happened to you. I do have questions in respect to a couple of red flags I don't quite understand how you could have ignored but this is not the appropriate place to bring them up. I personally saw through the guy very quickly and believed him to be a player and someone who really had no true feelings for anyone but as you know it takes me a long time to trust anyone. Having said that I would not have expected him to go this far. I wouldnt have believed that he would allow you to come all the way to India and then use you the way he did. I had a friend who had a similar experience with a woman he knew for 2 years and with whom he talked on ym and phone everyday. He drove across several states only to be left waiting at the airport all night as she never had any intentions of meeting him As for Jad, there is nothing he can say to justify his actions. Its very clear what his intentions were. He used you for sex...bottom line. I hate to sound so harsh because I know you must be hurting but I dont see how anyone could draw any other conclusion. Anyways, I really just want to say I'm sorry for what happened to you and although we have had our differences in the past I know from having talked privately with you that you have a loving heart and its an awful thing for someone to have taken advantage of that.and no need to worry about sounding harsh....i've figured out what i was 2 him and ur right... lol..and yes we have had our differences and i'm sure we'll have more...but thank you for your comments ....i appreciate them...it's gd to know that when it's really necessary people can put aside their differences and just be there when needed to offer a kind word...so thanks An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/15/2008 2:15 pm |
Nymphy....You been very courageous in bringing out this blog..and it will do you good by taking off your chest ..as they say!!. You will be a much stronger person and much wiser too. Had you kept quiet , the matter would have been eating you away in heart and playing in your mind. Also the people are now aware what Jadu is like and what he is capable of doing. Jadu has no self respect and he has simply used you .In time you will forget him and remember the good times you had with JKM, NIVE and SOUL ....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/15/2008 4:43 pm |
Sprite, Hats off to ya for writing the blog.. Hugggs for you.. Wishing you always the best. Wolf
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12/15/2008 5:04 pm |
Sprite, Hats off to ya for writing the blog.. Hugggs for you.. Wishing you always the best. Wolf ....tks An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/15/2008 7:17 pm |
Nymph...Greetings from the other side ...I'm probably the last guy posting a reply...Neva been a blog person (my dyslexia makes it difficult lolz)...but was bored and looking around when I saw ur post.. I'm not a saint and don't wanna preach a sermon...but its one of those experiences which shakes your inner belief/trust in another human being...guess it will take some time for u to regain that...but I'm sure u will some day... I certainly don't know this Magician but he seems to be good at his craft of robbing women (of their money, emotions)...Also can't claim to know u all that well, so cannot preach abt u shud seen it coming...yadda...yadda...yadda.. Well at the cost of sounding cold n I know its easier said than done...I beleive whats' happened has happened...I'm sure u will learn from ur mistakes...n time will heal all ur wounds... Hell...I set out to say something smart n witty n when I read what I've written..I sound like my grandma...lolzz..guess I'll not delete since this is the first intelligent stuff I've written in a long time..though others might disagree (looks like I plagarised from other posts) Hang in there gurl...Mebbe cliched...but ur knight in shining armour might be on his way..i'm googling ticket prices to utah...lolzz..juss kiddin... **Nyne**
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12/15/2008 11:29 pm |
hmmmmmmm Sparsh
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12/16/2008 2:51 am |
I have to make few things clear which probably weren't that evident through my 1st comment. Nymph - I want to reiterate the fact that never for once did I question the intent of the blog or your hurting and the question of degrading you doesn't even arise. I know it takes a lot to open your wounds up to people and you did it so as to help someone else benefit from this. If that isn't noble, I don't know what is. However, matter of concern was something entirely different. Ask me why and here's what I have to say - Having known that freak jadugar for some time now, honestly, I would have been aghast (even recuperating from a cardiac ) if someone told me HE bahaved like a perfect gentleman! This is the view point most of us shared w.r.t. that d!ckhead. However, we couldn't be of any help since we weren't aware of anything. Hope you now understand my point!Shaitz Bro - Your comments were, like always, spot-on. Forgive me if mine wasn't as crystal clear. However, there's one thing I would like to assure you of and that is - I can never be a mere spectator or turn my back and walk off when I see injustice happening right in front of my eyes (more so if its happening with someone who is a friend even acquaintance).. I always have and will do everything in my capacity to avert such situation from happening. Having said that, there is one very vital thing I would like to put forward and that is - We at IFF here are NOT dealing with minors but matured adults who have been bestowed with a brain! You and me or anyone else for that matter can only help if we know of it which isn't possible till someone discusses with us. We possibly can't be presumptuous and start shelling out unsolicited advices unless asked for Nymph herself has said to me in her comment that she wasn't aware of jadugar's bad track record and that's only because she didn't discuss him with anyone. So again, all I was meaning to say is - We don't think there could be someone else too who would do the same??!!
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12/16/2008 6:08 am |
Spritely.......I feel so ashamed that an Indian did this to you....I feel so bad that you had to go through this ordeal. I really applaud your decision to expose this guy for the cad he is....so that other women don't fall into such traps. Please don't close your heart and mind just because 'one' guy turned rotten......there are hundreds of good guys for every bad guy and love is an emotion or feeling one cannot control. Though many people don't understand why or how you could have fallen for this guy......the universal truth is that.... "Trying to make someone fall in love with you is as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with....."
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12/16/2008 8:13 am |
Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; DEFINE Yourself. .... HI EVERYONE.... a couple of days back when i joined this site ,didn't know what to expect... NYMPH by chance stumbled upon ur blog ... and really , for some unknown reason , feeling ashamed of myself... dunno whether its b'coz i'm frm the same country -the country that's always believed in 'ATITHI DEVO BHAVA '(guests are like god)..or b'coz i'm of the same gender ... i'm proud that u took such a bold step... u certainly took the road less traversed and are a true champion ... GAUR ..
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 12/16/2008 8:26 am |
Sprite; I am shocked but not surprised. A section of Indian men think a foreign lady is a freely available commodity. Having read what you have been through, Sprite, I can say I hate myself for being an Indian... But believe me ... what you have gone through is not India... Such characters you find in all socieites... but as you say... he manipulated.... GOD will punish him Sprite... and i promis eto all women folk in this world, I shall from today pray everyday to punish all those men who indulge in such ghastly behaviour... As an Indian, my apologies... God bless you, YSM
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12/16/2008 11:50 am |
Nymph...Greetings from the other side ...I'm probably the last guy posting a reply...Neva been a blog person (my dyslexia makes it difficult lolz)...but was bored and looking around when I saw ur post..I'm not a saint and don't wanna preach a sermon...but its one of those experiences which shakes your inner belief/trust in another human being...guess it will take some time for u to regain that...but I'm sure u will some day... I certainly don't know this Magician but he seems to be good at his craft of robbing women (of their money, emotions)...Also can't claim to know u all that well, so cannot preach abt u shud seen it coming...yadda...yadda...yadda.. Well at the cost of sounding cold n I know its easier said than done...I beleive whats' happened has happened...I'm sure u will learn from ur mistakes...n time will heal all ur wounds... Hell...I set out to say something smart n witty n when I read what I've written..I sound like my grandma...lolzz..guess I'll not delete since this is the first intelligent stuff I've written in a long time..though others might disagree (looks like I plagarised from other posts) Hang in there gurl...Mebbe cliched...but ur knight in shining armour might be on his way..i'm googling ticket prices to utah...lolzz..juss kiddin... **Nyne** ...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/16/2008 11:52 am |
hmmmmmmm .........what ya thinkin bout?An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/16/2008 12:31 pm |
Spritely.......I feel so ashamed that an Indian did this to you....I feel so bad that you had to go through this ordeal. I really applaud your decision to expose this guy for the cad he is....so that other women don't fall into such traps. Please don't close your heart and mind just because 'one' guy turned rotten......there are hundreds of good guys for every bad guy and love is an emotion or feeling one cannot control. Though many people don't understand why or how you could have fallen for this guy......the universal truth is that.... "Trying to make someone fall in love with you is as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with....." ....thanks....is so true....can't control who u fall in love with....but it just so happens that i fell in love with someone who didn't even exist...the man i loved was a cleverly crafted mirage...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/16/2008 12:33 pm |
Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; DEFINE Yourself. .... HI EVERYONE.... a couple of days back when i joined this site ,didn't know what to expect... NYMPH by chance stumbled upon ur blog ... and really , for some unknown reason , feeling ashamed of myself... dunno whether its b'coz i'm frm the same country -the country that's always believed in 'ATITHI DEVO BHAVA '(guests are like god)..or b'coz i'm of the same gender ... i'm proud that u took such a bold step... u certainly took the road less traversed and are a true champion ... GAUR .. ...well...welcome ....hope this doesn't scar ur experience here...there r lots of great people here...take care and have fun...thanks for stoppin by An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/16/2008 12:34 pm |
Sprite; I am shocked but not surprised. A section of Indian men think a foreign lady is a freely available commodity. Having read what you have been through, Sprite, I can say I hate myself for being an Indian... But believe me ... what you have gone through is not India... Such characters you find in all socieites... but as you say... he manipulated.... GOD will punish him Sprite... and i promis eto all women folk in this world, I shall from today pray everyday to punish all those men who indulge in such ghastly behaviour... As an Indian, my apologies... God bless you, YSM An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/16/2008 10:04 pm |
i never had probs with long n his wife..nor did i ever discussed her in the lobby cause we werent so close..all we discussed was how to cook biryani..lol...shait u need to grow up..stop acting like a shemale....u need to concentrate on ur job, more than sitting here n discussing women..why u being a saint when u did EXACTLY the same with ur gf...who paid for her 2 trips..U?LOL..get a life! ur gf doesnt need a goofy like u...shes a gorgeous woman! she needs a real man...thats for sure!!.. NO MORE comments from me..i'll just LMAO..
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12/17/2008 9:56 am |
Dear Friends., shaitaan( my bro whoom i respected very much i feel he has started acting like sprites pesronal sec by asking few freinds on IFF to post a comment including me) and sprite( the lady whoom i did love so much is also upset with me for not commenting for the comment which rani did comment ) and may be few others were asking me why havent you posted a comment why i am silent..? ok i guess rite things must be done at the rite time. before commenting let me say a few words, never judge people or freinds on the virtue of thier chat in the room cause i ve been misunderstood by many.thats why i was silent and away from controversy and dispute For few freinds in IFF i am a very bad guy,for few who know me in real who have met me i am a gud guy,( both female and male freinds which includes top businessmen,top advocates and a very very top police officer who's still on duty in mumbai performing his job and may be none of them have known that person till now "SORRY SIR I HAD TO TELL THIS" if u are reading my comment.cause you know who i am )they always say "KIRAN" hey u are tottaly different in real few freinds in IFF have warned some female freinds not to meet me cause i am a dirty guy.. with out even knowing me,and have said i switch on my CAM ,i would like to say to those freinds.i dare to show my self on CAM ,cause u know whoom u talking to.i dont do any bad things on Cam ,i just show my face i hope thats clear for all those who have complain aganist me.i answer them virtual is some thing virtual which cant be real..and real never can be virtual, so in reality i am always a gentleman. i really felt bad whatever happend with ariel.thats should not have happend with ariel or any other ladies or to my freinds of IFF ?my heart goes out there for my friend ariel, this shows jadugar was not a gentleman in treating a freind when she came all the way from USA to INDIA to meet especially jadugar, now the point arises is..how come sprite be so immature.?i am surprised to know my friend ariel so immature, she knew jadugar was a maried man,and was hurt before too,i feel both are equally guilty and responsible in this matter,ariel knew jadugar was married and still she came to india to meet him while she knew there would been some passionate times while they would meet, my self and sprite used to call each other and exchange SMS regularly and 6 months back my self and sprite had a small misunderstand because of jadugar who poked his nose in between me and sprite when we were getting closer and going strong in our freindship which i had cleared later by talking to sprite and warned her about her relationship with jadugar which would hurt 3 lives, first sprite's herself, 2nd jadugar's wife and 3rd jadugar's girl freind if he had at all at that time, and i just stayed away knowing sprite can never be mine any more cause she was so crazy about jadugar, i just went on moving on with my work, inspite of me waring sprite and making her understand look never do any such thing which would hurt two innocent lives who have done nothing wrong to you, still she went on to meet jadugar and whatever had to happen did take place, now the point is. IF JADUGAR HAD PAID SPRITE THE MONEY WHAT SHE IS SAYING SHE PAID ,SUCH A BLOG WOULD NEVER ARISE..PROBABLY WE WOULD HAVE READ WOW MY INDIAN TRIP WAS SO GOOD, MY HEART GOES OUT THERE FOR THOSE INNOCENT PEOPLE WHO WOULD CRY AND SHED TEARS AND WOULD BROKEN IN TO PIECES IF THEY COME TO KNOW WHAT HAPPEND BETWEEN THESE 2 PEOPLE.FOR ME BOTH (jadugar and sprite )ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE ( ONE CANT CLAP WITH ONE HAND, WE NEED TWO HANDS TO HERE THE SOUND OF A CLAP,FIRE WILL NOT BURN UNLESS YOU ...... u know what here i cut and paste my chat with sprite 6 months back where i warn her about jadugar hotperfume111;i want to clarify some thing with you.. hotperfume111: i respected jadugar as my family member and as my elder brother..i used to talk to him over phone. hotperfume111:.he knew that i like u.. and he used to ask me..how is sprite..? what am i doing to win her heart..and just like a very nice gentleman. hotperfume111:i used to tell him..she is a very good freind to me..and YEAH i do love her a lot.. hotperfume111:but that doesnt mean she too should love me. and he asks do i keep in touch with you.. hotperfume111:i say YES and said she flew to dallas. on a vaction..i guess she met KC who is a nice freind to her..this is all what i said..and i havent said anything bad or hurt your relationship.. spritelynymph32: my relationship with who? hotperfume111: and i do not know what jadugar has told you.. after i got your ofline.. message saying.. that u dont wanna spoil ur realtion ship with some one u love and stop mesaging you to avoid misunderstand because of me..and also u respect jadugar a lot..and also u msged me saying u tell some thing about u to jadugar hotperfume111: i ve trying to call him, and ask him.. what did he say.. he is just avoiding my calls..and i spoke out in open in the room. as i enter the room he stops chatting and runs away spritelynymph32: i know..it's all confusing.... spritelynymph32: and i'm sorry about that hotperfume111: its ok spritelynymph32: i was/am in love with him hotperfume111: please dont be sorry spritelynymph32: and he was unsure about my relationship with u i think hotperfume111: hey its OK.. hotperfume111: i wish you all the best.. hotperfume111: may u find the guy whoom u love hotperfume111: may he shower lots of joys and happiness in your life hotperfume111: thats all i wish and pray hotperfume111: i would never do any such thing which would hurt you hotperfume111: or never would even try to spoil ur name by telling lies hotperfume111: nor i would try to poke my nose in between u and ur freinds hotperfume111: i am a gentleman spritelynymph32: i know hotperfume111: ill be so hotperfume111: but i would like to know hotperfume111: what jadugar told u spritelynymph32: nothing really....it's just the questions he was asking me......but he never said anything bad about you spritelynymph32: he wouldn't do that hotperfume111: ok fine hotperfume111: what questions he did ask u spritelynymph32: hmmm.... hotperfume111: ariel kelley: i was/am in love with him..? who is that..? and he was unsure about my relationship with u i think..? who..? spritelynymph32: i can't remember.... hotperfume111: u love jadugar,,.? spritelynymph32: yes hotperfume111: ok.. hotperfume111: hope u know he is married hotperfume111: and got kids hotperfume111: he is above 45 hotperfume111: and he has a girl freind and also he is cheating on his wife saying they are freinds..do u know that..? hotperfume111: how big cheat he is.. he is playing games spritelynymph32: yes....i'm an idiot for loving him spritelynymph32: i know spritelynymph32: but it's over anyway spritelynymph32: i told him tonight spritelynymph32: he dosen't trust me spritelynymph32: and how can he love me if he doesn't trust me spritelynymph32: hmmm hotperfume111: i had asked jadugar ..saying.. look sunil bro.. do u love sprite..? tell me.. cause i love her..so he gave me a answer saying.. KIRAN i am happily married with nice kids and a wife.. why do i need sprite.. hotperfume111: also i did say to him.. look if you like and love sprite and even if she likes u.. i would not come in bewteen u people hotperfume111: so he said..NO kiran..i dont trust these white ladies.. hotperfume111: thier culure is differnt hotperfume111: so kiran i wish u all the best with sprite spritelynymph32: wow...ok u can stop ther shaitaan and sprite wanted me to comment on this post.( Rani's comments).sprite hmmmm although u told my friend its just friendship...did u had to hurt him the way u did..i mean cams don't lie!..unless it was 2 actors pretending to be u and someone else giving him a show!!!!!..knowing he really loved u in and cared for u so much...u shouldnt had did what u did to him...(( for everyone reading this i am not talking about jadugar here but some one else )) my comment "Rani's comment just shows a freind did care for a freind, its abvious that as freinds we do share and talk things and care for each other,just like i did care for you warning about jadugar in our chat 6 months back .just like you have so many freinds standing by you for what jads did with you,but i feel rani should not have posted the 2nd comment( cam) which i did share it with her and she promised me she would never let this come out, but she never took my name any where till u your selves (let me set the facts straight, the cam was not private with Hot Perfume on any messenger)here i feel even u could have used the word freind instead of my handle. if i have said any thing wrong in here or if my post have hurt any body diretly or indirectly i applogise.please dont take this personal..life moves on.. we all learn from mistakes..wishing all my IFF freinds a very gud future and life full of smiles and luck.. regards hotperfume
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12/17/2008 10:18 am |
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12/17/2008 11:06 am |
IS HE A MAN??????????......i doubt.... I dont have words, but i understand what u should be passing thru.... all i can say is that please take good care of urself.....HE IS NOT WORTH UR LOVE, FRIENDSHIP AND MOST IMPORTANTLY UR TEARS.... love shikha All Dil Se....
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12/17/2008 9:40 pm |
HOT BRO..i know you are a very sweet friend....shaitaan is a mischief maker...no wonder he hasnt done well in life....jignore all comments ....i dont find any reason why u should give explanations..?sprite is a cutie herself...she made a mistake...but then who doesnt?time is the best healer...she'll find the way out....huggs poo
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12/17/2008 9:47 pm |
Sparsh
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12/17/2008 9:49 pm |
Rs. 3000 was all he thought he owed me.....now i'm NOT one to be petty about money....but I couldn't believe that that is how one treats a guest who has come to visit and the whole plan revolving around meeting him especially Sparsh
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12/18/2008 8:36 am |
HOT BRO..i know you are a very sweet friend....shaitaan is a mischief maker...no wonder he hasnt done well in life....jignore all comments ....i dont find any reason why u should give explanations..?sprite is a cutie herself...she made a mistake...but then who doesnt?time is the best healer...she'll find the way out....huggs poo i dont know if i am a sweet guy or not.that is some thing freinds like you to judge & decide. but definately YES i am not a womaniser or pervert not a cheat, YEAH i do flirt and get funny, i believe in commitment and dedication in my freindship..just beacuse of freindship and for freinds i entered such a world in mumbai where there is no return paath,but may be because of my mother ,MY GOD i ve quit from that world, now since 11 years and i am in to main stream,so i would never use any abusive words nor loose my temper,cause i ve promised my self i ll be a successful businessman and i am walking on it and also have forgiven vin44 for his abusive words And yes definately sprite is a sweet lady.she is one of my best freinds i ever had in my life, but life has its own plans and rules,people learn from mistakes,and i pray GOD may GOD give sprite strength to judge her freinds who is true to her, who is real and honest with her, and also pray may GOd give her strength to forget whatever she had to pass by.i know time is a healer..it will definately and i am sure sprite will bounce back with a smile more charged,more confident,wish her luck About shaitaan..when ever i spoke to him i would always think. wow what a dynamic man..his words did sound to me so powerful..i had made him my role model, his attitude made me his fan.but again i wish shaitaan bro all the very best in life and future huggs didi.. regards kiran
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12/18/2008 10:13 am |
SEE U ARE A GOOD MAN...I AGREE U NOT A CHEAT OR A WOMANISER... WHO DOESNT FLIRT?WITHOUT FLIRTING NO FUN ON IFF..OR ANY OTHER CHAT...U BE URSELF N NO NEED TO GIVE EXPLANATIONS.. HUGGS,DIDI
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12/18/2008 11:18 am |
All that happened is very sad but it all depends on human nature. Every one is different and unique. We cannot blame him because he was Indian but his nature. Everyone of us, come across such incidents. It is very difficult to judge a person (men or women) how can we believe in anyone, all the traits that you've mentioned look genuine. I don't know whether your problem will provide a solution for others or not but one thing is sure those who are cunning will improve there ways with adding new tricks. It is all in human nature. I believe in one thing if someone is playing with the heart of one he will play with the heart of another. It was just an accident resulting from a mistake, a misunderstanding. Those who do such things must have faced or a facing such situation in there own life. We are all part of a society, and are responsible.
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12/18/2008 12:55 pm |
Just wanted to say thanks to all my friends for their support and to those who have commented and expressed their concerns and sympathies as well... ...i certainly admire Indian people, their culture, generosity and kindness very much and would not for one second allow one person to influence or change that ...i will say that this experience after having settled on me...has left me (can't think of the right word)....hmmmm.....i guess in some ways i doubt my judgment....socially i'm tired 2....for me it takes a long time to trust someone...trust them enough to let them see the real me, it's a long process and one i invest a lot of time in....and right now..i'm feeling miffed and just want to take a break from all of it..... ...so to those aquaintences...who have been sending me messages on my y m...i apologize for not responding....i thought i was handling this well until i realized i really have no desire to talk to anyone excpet for my closest friends.... ...just feeling a litte socially inept at the moment....i'll be fine and back at some point but for now...i think i'll just say ta ta for awhile ...as for this blog of mine,..which has caused quite a stir, i think it's time i put it behind me and move on.....thanks again and of course..... ...... hugs and stuff .....oh...and one more thing....Maturity is highly overrated....i prefer to act is i feel...and baby..i may be 33 but i still feel like a kid ...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/20/2008 12:34 am |
Hi Nymph, I would like to add that while I have one minor quibble, all in all I admire your courage. It's really interesting how your readers inadvertently show their true colours in their responses. Last night, I witnessed some of this backlash in the form of two women in the Lobby, one of whom at least has commented here on your post (I haven't read all the comments) appearing to be sympathetic but assumed a higher moral ground than you, gleefully criticising and insinuating that they were “far more intelligent” than you, that THEY would never be caught up in a situation like this, that you were “just asking for it”. I tried to divert them by commenting that they looked as if they were discussing a soap opera plot. It wasn't even intended as bait to encourage them but as my way of saying it was highly inappropriate of them to be discussing it in your absence. They just tittered and laid themselves further open. What such folk completely fail to grasp is that openness, having a different value system, being “naive”, or just being 'less' or 'more' of anything by their narrow definition, is NOT an invitation to be abused. I know at least one of them is married as I exchange superficial pleasantries whenever I see her in the Lobby. I should say, “exchanged” in the past tense now as after last night, I'm sure I got iggied, lol. When I asked her what entirely independent choices in her life regarding partner(s) had she ever made or what she had done in her life that had not been prearranged down to the last letter for her by her family, she had no response, pretended she was having connection problems and continued to chat with others in the Lobby, while ignoring my ensuing statements, lol. Great love will always involve uncertainty, risk and sacrifice. I don't know her friend at all nor this former chat mate well, but if anyone has experienced it, there would be no place for this kind of smug superiority and judgementalism. There is NO difference between meeting someone who may even be highly endorsed by mutual friends in your own home city or a relative stranger on the other side of the planet. Are there any guarantees that anyone you meet in life anywhere doesn't turn out to be a repugnant creep? Is it normal practice for some around here to go to the extent of subjecting everyone they meet to an inquisition or private investigation? It's presumed guilty until proven otherwise out of nothing one has actually done – and an extremely cynical, calculating, destructive way to live. So, this cannot be an indictment of Indians or even men as a whole. It was just a sad day for humanity overall. On a side note, I find it comical that someone here I consider a good platonic friend and implicitly trust on personal matters but wouldn't categorically trust as a romantic prospect further than I could toss him (and he KNOWS this because I've said this to him repeatedly with affection), could be admonishing you in a similar vein to the way he warned me off someone I met from north India. He didn't quite 'get it' when I said, look, of course it'll be great to meet purely as friends, I can't meet you in any other context, because as your friend even you would warn me off you, lol. Have a splendid Christmas and New Year, and thanks again for doing everyone a great service.
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12/20/2008 9:54 am |
rdt lolzzz.i understand what u mean .i really feel previledged by ur trust in me regarding ur personal matters.rdt we have discussed at length abt various issues on several occassion n lemme tell u i find u quite responsive intelligent n understanding. in a way ur sixth sense is also quite active lolzz.i always enjoy ur company --tc----
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12/21/2008 9:52 am |
''lol & lmaooo ''' is imitation of pooja32 in the lobby quoting pooja32 >>> ''i never had probs with long n his wife..nor did i ever discussed her in the lobby cause we werent so close'' you tried to befriend her to get her out of my clutches not knowing that she was on phone with me while you were on YM tryng your best ... not knowing they are my real life friends ... ''lol & lmaooo''and you DID paste her YM id in the lobby and poke fun at her with your typical 'lol'ing with that creep prince ... tell me pooja how many times has she chatted with you since that day ??? ... ''lol & lmaooo'' like i said already ... your very exitance on IFF , ever since i have seen you , has been to befriend people so that you can gloat over their misfortunes later .. you have time and again goaded many to do your dirty work in the lobby while you sit and 'lol' and 'lmao' again tell me pooja why i can count at least 27 people from the chat-rooms who discarded you from their lives INCLUDING some of YOUR OWN closest friends who discovered on their own what a sweet talking manipulator you were ... ((( case closed ))) plus you ARE a racist and you OPENLY support the cowardly baby & women killer terrorists ((( the collage of pooja's comments is posted by me on some other blogs ))) quoting pooja32 >>> ''u need to concentrate on ur job, more than sitting here n discussing women'' well at least i know i helped a LOT of women in their time of crisis ... which is why most on IFF trust me and you they don't ... ''lol & lmaooo'' quoting pooja32 >>> ''shes a gorgeous woman! she needs a real man...'' i fully agree she is a gorgeous woman ... and the dig about me being a real man ... you pooja will never find that out , will ya ? this sermon coming from a woman called pooja who was involved with an married indian man , wanted him to leave his wife and kids for her ... and ... and ... and ... by her own admission she would have even settled in Delhi as his mistress ... ((( this my friends is common knowledge on IFF for those who have been here long enough ))) ... oh pooooooja shhh!!! she WILL kick you as a friend if she ever found out you were out chasing a married man asking him to dump his family quoting pooja >>> ''why u being a saint when u did EXACTLY the same '' against the advise of all my friends here ... i am openly stating it ... i went broke fighting for my daughter & i am not ashamed of my present financial state ... and pooja if i could i would have flown abroad visiting myself ... besides neither her NOR even YOUR best friend ARMINA or others like PIKPIK, JKM , royschindler , rememberme4u etc etc who visited Kolkata were allowed to pay for any visits to restaurants clubs or other activities... ALL of them were treated like royalty including your best friend Armina ... see??? pooja ... you just demonstrated your cheap petty twisted mind .. you will use things told by her for your own motives ... i had told her you were only her friend so that you could get some dirt on me and you just proved it .... one thing you will never get is any dirt about me .. nor will you be able to provoke me to give dirt about anyone on IFF to you ... ''lol & lmaoo''
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12/21/2008 10:06 am |
oh this one i am gonna enjoy quoting pooja >>> ''sprite is a cutie herself'' err !!! give it up pooja .. in case you didn't notice .. sprite did not acnowledge your first comment nor this one for obvious reasons... you're so shameless and desperate that you are keeping on hugging people in the lobby and pinging some on YM despite them obviously ignoring you ... the message is simple ((( i am entitled to a little self-serving message  ))) - - - most would like to have one shaitaan in theirlives as opposed to a hundred pooja32s ending the last word on this matter to the sound of blowing trumpets
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12/21/2008 10:54 am |
=================================================================== quoting hotperfume >>> ''shaitaan( my bro whoom i respected very much i feel he has started acting like sprites pesronal sec by asking few freinds on IFF to post a comment including me) '' i affirm i am sprite's personal secretary ... now that i got this off my chest ... what are you wailing about hotp ??? YOU CALLED ME when you found out about rain's comment and sprite's reply ... don't make it sound like i called you to tell you to comment ... you knew you were stuck because of your own exagerrations and asked for advise to which i only told you to be a MAN and comment in a way where rain and sprite don't land up fighting because of your stupidity ... i had even offered you to draft a comment on YM so that you could diffuse this issue to eveyone's beneit ... you agreed but did not show up on YM ... hence was no necessity for you to be snide towards me in your comment ... and if i am sprite's secretary or anyone elses is none of your concern ...to set the record straight i have known you from the lobby since 2005 and have never attempted to take you n YM unlike so many men of IFF ... it was at your persistence for months with mellow for my fone number ... also i have in fact NEVER called you ... all the three calls till date were made by you to me ... one was introduction and to try impress me with your mafia connections ... the second call from you to me incidently was to find out whether i met sprite while she was in india and who else she met ... evidently she did not get in touch with you while she was here ... the third being when your name appeared on the blogs ... strangely , you texted me on 15th dec saying me you're my younger bro and that you HAVE DELETED your profile and two days later you surface with nasty observations about sprite and me in your comment on 17th dec ... did pooja ''didi'' ( choke ) put you up to it ??? i won't be surprised if she did ... = = = i will however add that i have not known hotperfume to misbehave with women on IFF which is why i say he is one of the good guys ... but it is common knowledge , what women on IFF say that you have professed your love to a whole horde of them ... = = = quoting hotperfume >>> '' IF JADUGAR HAD PAID SPRITE THE MONEY WHAT SHE IS SAYING SHE PAID ,SUCH A BLOG WOULD NEVER ARISE..PROBABLY WE WOULD HAVE READ WOW MY INDIAN TRIP WAS SO GOOD,'' this is A CHEAP SHOT ... reeks of sour grapes ... when majority of IFF have understood that sprite never complained till others made her see ( rightly ) how she was duped by jadu ... evidently you did not understand either the blog or very clear comments by witnesses like nivepranks , JKM and SOUL , or my explanation to clear doubts in peoples minds ... you have the bloody audacity to try and make it sound as if this blog is about the MONEY. let me reiatrate to ALL the readers ... sprite was TOTALLY OBLIVIOUS to the cunning of jadu all throughout her stay at delhi ... and she would have probably landed up in delhi alone had some friends not stepped up to prevent it .... the only motive for this blog was to prevent such a thing from recurring with others even at the cost of HER OWN EMBARASSMENT AND SOME PEOPLE MOCKING HER AND SOME TAKING POTSHOTS AT HER ...
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12/21/2008 9:13 pm |
Dear Sprite, I admire your guts hunni! You sure have got what it takes to be a good human being! I know how you must be feeling at this moment,but your sheer guts to put up this blog is truly appreciable feat! I do hope some ppl will learn from your experience and be more careful in future! It sure is complicated asking other friends' advice when you think you are in love. . . . loue is blind!!! So ya can't see through masks! Hope ya can get over with it! THE SOONER THE BETTER! Wish ya well!
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12/22/2008 8:45 pm |
omg! IT'S REALLY UMIMMAGINARYYY! I REALLY FEEL SORRY FOR EVERY HURT THE SWEETEST LADY LIKE U GOT ! I REALLY PRAY EVERY INDIAN GUY FROM IFF........ EITHER LOVE FROM THE BOTTOM OF THE HEART TO SOMEONE BEGORE MEETING HER IN REAL AND TAKE CARE OF HER TILL YOUR LAST BREATH OR END WITH ONLY HAVING FUN IN THE LOBBY UPTO ANY EXTENT AS PER YOUR GUTZ ! BUT NEVER TRY TO HURT ANYONE WHO IS REALLY IN LOVE WITH YOU! SPIRIT, YOU ARE NOT ONLY BEAUITFUL LADY BUT YOU ARE AN ANGEL FROM THE HEAVEN OF COURRAGE TOO! IF POSSIBLE TAKE THIS INCIDENCE AS AN UNWANTED ACCIDENT AND TRY TO FORGET THAT AND KEEP SMILING, I KNOIW IT'S VERY EASY TO ADVICE ANYTHING BUT VERY DIFFICULT TO COME OUT FROM THE PAINS OF HURT. BUT YOU ARE BRAVE EMOUGH TO SHOW THAT COURRAGE TOO. WITH LOVE =================== LOVE U HUNGRY
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12/23/2008 10:49 am |
=================================================================== quoting hotperfume >>> ''shaitaan( my bro whoom i respected very much i feel he has started acting like sprites pesronal sec by asking few freinds on IFF to post a comment including me) '' i affirm i am sprite's personal secretary ... now that i got this off my chest ... what are you wailing about hotp ??? YOU CALLED ME when you found out about rain's comment and sprite's reply ... don't make it sound like i called you to tell you to comment ... you knew you were stuck because of your own exagerrations and asked for advise to which i only told you to be a MAN and comment in a way where rain and sprite don't land up fighting because of your stupidity ... i had even offered you to draft a comment on YM so that you could diffuse this issue to eveyone's beneit ... you agreed but did not show up on YM ... hence was no necessity for you to be snide towards me in your comment ... and if i am sprite's secretary or anyone elses is none of your concern ...to set the record straight i have known you from the lobby since 2005 and have never attempted to take you n YM unlike so many men of IFF ... it was at your persistence for months with mellow for my fone number ... also i have in fact NEVER called you ... all the three calls till date were made by you to me ... one was introduction and to try impress me with your mafia connections ... the second call from you to me incidently was to find out whether i met sprite while she was in india and who else she met ... evidently she did not get in touch with you while she was here ... the third being when your name appeared on the blogs ... strangely , you texted me on 15th dec saying me you're my younger bro and that you HAVE DELETED your profile and two days later you surface with nasty observations about sprite and me in your comment on 17th dec ... did pooja ''didi'' ( choke ) put you up to it ??? i won't be surprised if she did ... = = = i will however add that i have not known hotperfume to misbehave with women on IFF which is why i say he is one of the good guys ... but it is common knowledge , what women on IFF say that you have professed your love to a whole horde of them ... = = = quoting hotperfume >>> '' IF JADUGAR HAD PAID SPRITE THE MONEY WHAT SHE IS SAYING SHE PAID ,SUCH A BLOG WOULD NEVER ARISE..PROBABLY WE WOULD HAVE READ WOW MY INDIAN TRIP WAS SO GOOD,'' this is A CHEAP SHOT ... reeks of sour grapes ... when majority of IFF have understood that sprite never complained till others made her see ( rightly ) how she was duped by jadu ... evidently you did not understand either the blog or very clear comments by witnesses like nivepranks , JKM and SOUL , or my explanation to clear doubts in peoples minds ... you have the bloody audacity to try and make it sound as if this blog is about the MONEY. let me reiatrate to ALL the readers ... sprite was TOTALLY OBLIVIOUS to the cunning of jadu all throughout her stay at delhi ... and she would have probably landed up in delhi alone had some friends not stepped up to prevent it .... the only motive for this blog was to prevent such a thing from recurring with others even at the cost of HER OWN EMBARASSMENT AND SOME PEOPLE MOCKING HER AND SOME TAKING POTSHOTS AT HER ... LMAO.. hahahahahaha..i had the impression that you were the smartest guy of IFF but now you did prove me wrong , grow up fast for the sake i did call you my big bro..LOL.. Once again u need to read my post carefully, concentrate lol..… read once again my first lines were.. >>> ''shaitaan( my bro whoom i respected very much i feel he has started acting like sprites pesronal sec by asking few freinds on IFF to post a comment including me) No where i have mentioned that you did call me, now i don’t know where did u get this idea to write in( any secret informers,CBI i guess so..? u must be having so many who give u great braking news )Lol and i know who they are,..now that you have mentioned i did call you .. yes..i did call you, that’s because i came to know from few friends of mine saying to me when i called them casualy as i do, that u spoke to them over phone asking them to comment.and also spoke about rani’s comment.in which my name was never mentioned.and you were awaiting my call..werent you..? when i called you ..your answer was i was expecting your call KIRAN..wow good move shaits bro.. what i said was..i was not in my home town but i was in Mumbai and haven’t read the blog, so u described me the whole blog and said i must reply now..for your kind information i was not stuck in my own exaggerations, but u assumed so!!! that i was stuck, it was you who adviced me and told me that you would help me draft a comment which would prevent rani and sprite fight with each other because of me which you have agreed in your post. why are you so much concerned about sprite and rani, if they fight.? I haven’t asked rani to comment to sprites post have i? and i havent said sprite to mention my name have i..? it was sprite who mentioned my name not rani. who gave that permission to drag my name when she could have used the word FRIEND.and who gave u the permission to comment why hotperfume is silent..? did u ask me.? Now the 3 phone calls..which u explained.. wow Great story..i advice you my bro u are really a good scprit writer i must say try out there in bollywood. U will definitely stand a chance..all the best.. My first phone call was to ask you if you were free to attend my sisters wedding ceremony, that was just because you were mellows BF then.and mellow was my friend and i had great regards for you people..and i had no other vested interest in inviting you or calling you..i did like your personality at the time, that was the only reason i wanted to be your friend.and u were then my friend mellows BF. 2nd call..why would i impress you , whats the use of impressing you by giving out my mafia connections..YES !!! i have gud connections which you even cant emagine of YES !!!! what now..? you think i am scared of you,NEVER, you forget so fast and you are very gud in creating stories..that 2nd call was just our introduction about our business.., you sold books! and me in to property! where we discussed then and i did mention i was really fed up of this business in Mumbai dealing with all those tough guys, then i said i handle them my way.! This is obvious when it comes to business relating to property in mumbai or some other cities.now this was your real foolish ness to drag about my connections giving the reason of the call saying to impress u, LOL. Grow up bro. lets talk just on this blog and comments not drag personal things , 3rd call was which u were awaiting from me.. regarding my text to you on 15th hope u remember i did text you i am back home from mumbai, i read the blog and i want to stay away from controversy and dispute, i wanted you to comment on vin44’s blog who did call all the male members what ever he called i don’t use that word..but you haven’t done so,that shows you are not a friend of male members here, you just want women as your friends that’s all.when u cant stand by the guy who called you bro, how could u expect the same respect from me .but you were exchanging all informations about our texts and calls with my friend and that friend knows who is that, i need not mention the name...u think u only have the net work not me..? did pooja ''didi'' ( choke ) put you up to it ??? i won't be surprised if she did…? Do you mean to tell me that this is the kind of thing you would do if you were pooja? Don’t choke on your tea or your cigarette, my friend. Pooja did is my dearest friend and my sister and will be always, just like she is friends with lots of your own dear friends. Or do you have them befriend her so you can get information from her? The simple answer to your question is, NO. she does not have that personality. I am man enough to fight my own battles on my own without using friends to form an army around me (unlike you as you have proved here in black and white). You have misunderstood her just like you misunderstand a hundred other people and keep people close to you so you can just use them but you are getting used by them too. Remember this. Now thanks you so much for that compliment by saying i am a gud guy never mis behaved but its so exciting and thrilling to know that you know all the ladies to whom i told i mean i have professed my love.. wow gud connections..great job..keep up the gud work going on bro.. Now. A CHEAP SHOT( your comment ) ... reeks of sour grapes ...i stay by my words it was all about money.. If only motive for this blog was to prevent such a thing from recurring with others, i extend my support to this blog and support sprite and she had done a great job by warning others what happened, i say again and again.response to the comments made by rani could have been avoided in a nice way with out taking my name..thats all i wanted . i dont know if u had seen the cam show , u probably might have by now and still u chose to voice of like you do may be because once u make your freind you want to support no matter even if they are wrong and just to save their face, Deep inside of your ‘honest’ heart I am sure you will agree with me. But the truth of the matter is, I was deeply hurt, yes yes yes I am a man and I can also be hurt. It does not make me less of a man – Your comments here reeks of an over inflated ego. I hope that for your own sake you can come out of that mindset and go on to live a happy fulfilled life even if it is a virtually happy one. Remember one thing, if you ever lie about me or my friends I will be back here to defend my innocence and theirs with the same ferocity that you defend your ego and your friends I expect sprite to apologise here and now that she has dragged my name into this and I expect an apology from you too shaitz for dragging my name through dirt. I do not wish to be involved in this as I had no involvement other than someone who was in love in with sprite. That was not a crime. jai bajrangabali..
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12/23/2008 2:18 pm |
HotPerfume, HOW DARE YOU!!!!........i am speechless at the moment.....i really thought u were a differnt type of guy..... THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY.........this is about giving my heart and putting my trust in someone...flying halfway across the world to meet this person...being taken advantage of by the person who had claimed to be my dear friend and love for almost a year and then having my heart ripped out of me by this same person before my feet even touched the ground back home...... regardles whether i was naive or stupid or whatever anyone else wants to call me....i did Love him...it makes no difference why...i did... your claim that it is all about MONEY is only you admiting that you have no idea what trust and love is as you can only grasp the reason for my anger and hurt is only for the MONEY MONEY is nothing compared to trust, love and friendship....and he destroyed all of those.... ...HOW DARE YOU CLaim TO BE MY FRIEND...to love me even....you don't know anything about me.....if you did you would never suggest such a thing....your in love with my face and breasts....and nothing more...you care not what i think, how i feel....or how your comments would affect me.... you say that your telling me all this cause your my friend.....well i say BU*LSH*T!!....i've used and heard that line many times before and it was never in the name of friendship....it's just a disclaimer you can fall back on when u want to really tell someone how you feel about them... ...If it weren't for the few real friends i've made on this site i would abondon it all together.....but i can honestly say..without a doubt that i have made some dear dear friends who will last a lifetime.... ..but i still do put a lot of trust in "friends" i have here 2....i trust them to be who they say they are...i trust their feelings...their heart....their intentions.....until i am given a reason otherwise....you see i'm more of a innocent until proven guilty person....and therefore when i see someone for who they are it will always hurts a bit to discover that they are not who they claim to be.... And you Hotperfume are not who you claim to be....i am a very forgiving person...but your comments, spoken and mostly unspoken,....well...don't think i want to know you anymore........................................................... and in case you were wondering....you will not be getting an apology from me... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:20 pm |
omg! IT'S REALLY UMIMMAGINARYYY! I REALLY FEEL SORRY FOR EVERY HURT THE SWEETEST LADY LIKE U GOT ! I REALLY PRAY EVERY INDIAN GUY FROM IFF........ EITHER LOVE FROM THE BOTTOM OF THE HEART TO SOMEONE BEGORE MEETING HER IN REAL AND TAKE CARE OF HER TILL YOUR LAST BREATH OR END WITH ONLY HAVING FUN IN THE LOBBY UPTO ANY EXTENT AS PER YOUR GUTZ ! BUT NEVER TRY TO HURT ANYONE WHO IS REALLY IN LOVE WITH YOU! SPIRIT, YOU ARE NOT ONLY BEAUITFUL LADY BUT YOU ARE AN ANGEL FROM THE HEAVEN OF COURRAGE TOO! IF POSSIBLE TAKE THIS INCIDENCE AS AN UNWANTED ACCIDENT AND TRY TO FORGET THAT AND KEEP SMILING, I KNOIW IT'S VERY EASY TO ADVICE ANYTHING BUT VERY DIFFICULT TO COME OUT FROM THE PAINS OF HURT. BUT YOU ARE BRAVE EMOUGH TO SHOW THAT COURRAGE TOO. WITH LOVE =================== LOVE U HUNGRY ..tks hun..An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:25 pm |
Dear Sprite, I admire your guts hunni! You sure have got what it takes to be a good human being! I know how you must be feeling at this moment,but your sheer guts to put up this blog is truly appreciable feat! I do hope some ppl will learn from your experience and be more careful in future! It sure is complicated asking other friends' advice when you think you are in love. . . . loue is blind!!! So ya can't see through masks! Hope ya can get over with it! THE SOONER THE BETTER! Wish ya well! An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:27 pm |
=================================================================== quoting hotperfume >>> ''shaitaan( my bro whoom i respected very much i feel he has started acting like sprites pesronal sec by asking few freinds on IFF to post a comment including me) '' i affirm i am sprite's personal secretary ... now that i got this off my chest ... what are you wailing about hotp ??? YOU CALLED ME when you found out about rain's comment and sprite's reply ... don't make it sound like i called you to tell you to comment ... you knew you were stuck because of your own exagerrations and asked for advise to which i only told you to be a MAN and comment in a way where rain and sprite don't land up fighting because of your stupidity ... i had even offered you to draft a comment on YM so that you could diffuse this issue to eveyone's beneit ... you agreed but did not show up on YM ... hence was no necessity for you to be snide towards me in your comment ... and if i am sprite's secretary or anyone elses is none of your concern ...to set the record straight i have known you from the lobby since 2005 and have never attempted to take you n YM unlike so many men of IFF ... it was at your persistence for months with mellow for my fone number ... also i have in fact NEVER called you ... all the three calls till date were made by you to me ... one was introduction and to try impress me with your mafia connections ... the second call from you to me incidently was to find out whether i met sprite while she was in india and who else she met ... evidently she did not get in touch with you while she was here ... the third being when your name appeared on the blogs ... strangely , you texted me on 15th dec saying me you're my younger bro and that you HAVE DELETED your profile and two days later you surface with nasty observations about sprite and me in your comment on 17th dec ... did pooja ''didi'' ( choke ) put you up to it ??? i won't be surprised if she did ... = = = i will however add that i have not known hotperfume to misbehave with women on IFF which is why i say he is one of the good guys ... but it is common knowledge , what women on IFF say that you have professed your love to a whole horde of them ... = = = quoting hotperfume >>> '' IF JADUGAR HAD PAID SPRITE THE MONEY WHAT SHE IS SAYING SHE PAID ,SUCH A BLOG WOULD NEVER ARISE..PROBABLY WE WOULD HAVE READ WOW MY INDIAN TRIP WAS SO GOOD,'' this is A CHEAP SHOT ... reeks of sour grapes ... when majority of IFF have understood that sprite never complained till others made her see ( rightly ) how she was duped by jadu ... evidently you did not understand either the blog or very clear comments by witnesses like nivepranks , JKM and SOUL , or my explanation to clear doubts in peoples minds ... you have the bloody audacity to try and make it sound as if this blog is about the MONEY. let me reiatrate to ALL the readers ... sprite was TOTALLY OBLIVIOUS to the cunning of jadu all throughout her stay at delhi ... and she would have probably landed up in delhi alone had some friends not stepped up to prevent it .... the only motive for this blog was to prevent such a thing from recurring with others even at the cost of HER OWN EMBARASSMENT AND SOME PEOPLE MOCKING HER AND SOME TAKING POTSHOTS AT HER ... ...loves ya raju...so what do you want for secratary's day ....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:28 pm |
IS HE A MAN??????????......i doubt.... I dont have words, but i understand what u should be passing thru.... all i can say is that please take good care of urself.....HE IS NOT WORTH UR LOVE, FRIENDSHIP AND MOST IMPORTANTLY UR TEARS.... love shikha ..a MAN?...hmmmm....maybe some type of vermon..lol...thanks hun An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:31 pm |
All that happened is very sad but it all depends on human nature. Every one is different and unique. We cannot blame him because he was Indian but his nature. Everyone of us, come across such incidents. It is very difficult to judge a person (men or women) how can we believe in anyone, all the traits that you've mentioned look genuine. I don't know whether your problem will provide a solution for others or not but one thing is sure those who are cunning will improve there ways with adding new tricks. It is all in human nature. I believe in one thing if someone is playing with the heart of one he will play with the heart of another. It was just an accident resulting from a mistake, a misunderstanding. Those who do such things must have faced or a facing such situation in there own life. We are all part of a society, and are responsible. An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:42 pm |
Hi Nymph, I would like to add that while I have one minor quibble, all in all I admire your courage. It's really interesting how your readers inadvertently show their true colours in their responses. Last night, I witnessed some of this backlash in the form of two women in the Lobby, one of whom at least has commented here on your post (I haven't read all the comments) appearing to be sympathetic but assumed a higher moral ground than you, gleefully criticising and insinuating that they were “far more intelligent” than you, that THEY would never be caught up in a situation like this, that you were “just asking for it”. I tried to divert them by commenting that they looked as if they were discussing a soap opera plot. It wasn't even intended as bait to encourage them but as my way of saying it was highly inappropriate of them to be discussing it in your absence. They just tittered and laid themselves further open. What such folk completely fail to grasp is that openness, having a different value system, being “naive”, or just being 'less' or 'more' of anything by their narrow definition, is NOT an invitation to be abused. I know at least one of them is married as I exchange superficial pleasantries whenever I see her in the Lobby. I should say, “exchanged” in the past tense now as after last night, I'm sure I got iggied, lol. When I asked her what entirely independent choices in her life regarding partner(s) had she ever made or what she had done in her life that had not been prearranged down to the last letter for her by her family, she had no response, pretended she was having connection problems and continued to chat with others in the Lobby, while ignoring my ensuing statements, lol. Great love will always involve uncertainty, risk and sacrifice. I don't know her friend at all nor this former chat mate well, but if anyone has experienced it, there would be no place for this kind of smug superiority and judgementalism. There is NO difference between meeting someone who may even be highly endorsed by mutual friends in your own home city or a relative stranger on the other side of the planet. Are there any guarantees that anyone you meet in life anywhere doesn't turn out to be a repugnant creep? Is it normal practice for some around here to go to the extent of subjecting everyone they meet to an inquisition or private investigation? It's presumed guilty until proven otherwise out of nothing one has actually done – and an extremely cynical, calculating, destructive way to live. So, this cannot be an indictment of Indians or even men as a whole. It was just a sad day for humanity overall. On a side note, I find it comical that someone here I consider a good platonic friend and implicitly trust on personal matters but wouldn't categorically trust as a romantic prospect further than I could toss him (and he KNOWS this because I've said this to him repeatedly with affection), could be admonishing you in a similar vein to the way he warned me off someone I met from north India. He didn't quite 'get it' when I said, look, of course it'll be great to meet purely as friends, I can't meet you in any other context, because as your friend even you would warn me off you, lol. Have a splendid Christmas and New Year, and thanks again for doing everyone a great service. 1. being different is not cause for abuse or ridicul or for judgment to be rained down upon you and.. 2. Love is always uncertain wether you meet on-line, through aquaintences, at work etc...there are no gaurantees and when you put your heart out there for another to love you risk getting hurt ..thank you... ...again for not judging...for allowing me to make mistakes like all humans do without analyzing why, what, how etc...not to say that as someone's friend you don't tell them those things that may be difficult 2 hear...but let's not forget that when you do that...you also offer your shoulder and tears along with them... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/23/2008 2:43 pm |
Hi Nymph, I would like to add that while I have one minor quibble, all in all I admire your courage. It's really interesting how your readers inadvertently show their true colours in their responses. Last night, I witnessed some of this backlash in the form of two women in the Lobby, one of whom at least has commented here on your post (I haven't read all the comments) appearing to be sympathetic but assumed a higher moral ground than you, gleefully criticising and insinuating that they were “far more intelligent” than you, that THEY would never be caught up in a situation like this, that you were “just asking for it”. I tried to divert them by commenting that they looked as if they were discussing a soap opera plot. It wasn't even intended as bait to encourage them but as my way of saying it was highly inappropriate of them to be discussing it in your absence. They just tittered and laid themselves further open. What such folk completely fail to grasp is that openness, having a different value system, being “naive”, or just being 'less' or 'more' of anything by their narrow definition, is NOT an invitation to be abused. I know at least one of them is married as I exchange superficial pleasantries whenever I see her in the Lobby. I should say, “exchanged” in the past tense now as after last night, I'm sure I got iggied, lol. When I asked her what entirely independent choices in her life regarding partner(s) had she ever made or what she had done in her life that had not been prearranged down to the last letter for her by her family, she had no response, pretended she was having connection problems and continued to chat with others in the Lobby, while ignoring my ensuing statements, lol. Great love will always involve uncertainty, risk and sacrifice. I don't know her friend at all nor this former chat mate well, but if anyone has experienced it, there would be no place for this kind of smug superiority and judgementalism. There is NO difference between meeting someone who may even be highly endorsed by mutual friends in your own home city or a relative stranger on the other side of the planet. Are there any guarantees that anyone you meet in life anywhere doesn't turn out to be a repugnant creep? Is it normal practice for some around here to go to the extent of subjecting everyone they meet to an inquisition or private investigation? It's presumed guilty until proven otherwise out of nothing one has actually done – and an extremely cynical, calculating, destructive way to live. So, this cannot be an indictment of Indians or even men as a whole. It was just a sad day for humanity overall. On a side note, I find it comical that someone here I consider a good platonic friend and implicitly trust on personal matters but wouldn't categorically trust as a romantic prospect further than I could toss him (and he KNOWS this because I've said this to him repeatedly with affection), could be admonishing you in a similar vein to the way he warned me off someone I met from north India. He didn't quite 'get it' when I said, look, of course it'll be great to meet purely as friends, I can't meet you in any other context, because as your friend even you would warn me off you, lol. Have a splendid Christmas and New Year, and thanks again for doing everyone a great service. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR 2 you as well An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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12/24/2008 1:04 am |
sprite, thou we ve not chatted ever, i was told abt ur story by a common frnd. i logged in just to take a look & OMG!!..thats terrible. i always maintained....most r fakes in here (including girls), so u sud ve been more careful...but that doesn't take away d trauma u had to go thru...so i appologise on all our behalf. hey...y don't u come back again & see hw beautiful this country is (excepting a few such mother f**kers)...i promise this time u'll surely enjoy & i'll take care of ur stay here. don't worry...i'll do all that frm behind...will nvr come in d front. now smile pls & get on wid ur life. Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year to u. god bless. byeee.
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12/25/2008 1:14 am |
My Intentions are GOOD Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD.
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12/25/2008 6:51 am |
HotPerfume, HOW DARE YOU!!!!........i am speechless at the moment.....i really thought u were a differnt type of guy..... THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY.........this is about giving my heart and putting my trust in someone...flying halfway across the world to meet this person...being taken advantage of by the person who had claimed to be my dear friend and love for almost a year and then having my heart ripped out of me by this same person before my feet even touched the ground back home...... regardles whether i was naive or stupid or whatever anyone else wants to call me....i did Love him...it makes no difference why...i did... your claim that it is all about MONEY is only you admiting that you have no idea what trust and love is as you can only grasp the reason for my anger and hurt is only for the MONEY MONEY is nothing compared to trust, love and friendship....and he destroyed all of those.... ...HOW DARE YOU CLaim TO BE MY FRIEND...to love me even....you don't know anything about me.....if you did you would never suggest such a thing....your in love with my face and breasts....and nothing more...you care not what i think, how i feel....or how your comments would affect me.... you say that your telling me all this cause your my friend.....well i say BU*LSH*T!!....i've used and heard that line many times before and it was never in the name of friendship....it's just a disclaimer you can fall back on when u want to really tell someone how you feel about them... ...If it weren't for the few real friends i've made on this site i would abondon it all together.....but i can honestly say..without a doubt that i have made some dear dear friends who will last a lifetime.... ..but i still do put a lot of trust in "friends" i have here 2....i trust them to be who they say they are...i trust their feelings...their heart....their intentions.....until i am given a reason otherwise....you see i'm more of a innocent until proven guilty person....and therefore when i see someone for who they are it will always hurts a bit to discover that they are not who they claim to be.... And you Hotperfume are not who you claim to be....i am a very forgiving person...but your comments, spoken and mostly unspoken,....well...don't think i want to know you anymore........................................................... and in case you were wondering....you will not be getting an apology from me... SO you thought i am a different type of a guy..? what type..? OK you want me to believe this was not about money,OK I ACCEPT and I BELIEVE YOU.this is about giving your heart.?so you flew all the way from USA !!! OK ACCEPT that TOOO .i support you for this. now tell me..where had your thoughts, maturity and wisdom disappear..? you having affairs with a married man who got kids and GF.inspite of your dearest freind's warning you about him..where did your intelligence that ability to grasp things did vanish.? to graze grass..? you call this love.?now dont say no body warned me.?at least you cant say i havent warned you.. even me a member of the same site which u have joined as a member..and i havent done such mistakes of falling in love with a married women and fly to her and say she cheated me.. not any otther members have done so..no my dear freind GROW UP..pointing at some one is very easy we need to think what was my role in this..? why did this happen..?..but also think twice.before pointing ,no body is perfect..even i do mistakes and have done mistakes but learn from my mistakes ( money is nothing compared to trust, love and friendship....and he destroyed all of those ) YES for this statement of yours i do agree with you 100%.money is nothing in front of love .but with whoom you wanna share your love with..? married man,when u know he cant be your's and he has a family back there with sweet kids and wife..you could have chosen him as your best freind..then this would be some thing different. but you chose him as your love...i ask WHY..? havent i stepped back when i came to know u loved jadu..? tell me hvent i..?i treated u like my freind i stopped expecting as a more than a freind from you..havent i..? ask your innervoice, inner ariel.who knows this better than me.. ( .HOW DARE YOU CLaim TO BE MY FRIEND...to love me even....you don't know anything about me.....if you did you would never suggest such a thing..) To claim that to be friend of yours or to say love you..DARING is not just one thing one requires,one just needs a sweet simple respecting heart which cares and has feelings and i had that always towards you.you will never know that.cause you never gave me a reason or chance to let you know me or understand me.cause your eyes was full of that married man and his sweet words hypnotised,but not any more.. (.your in love with my face and breasts....and nothing more...you care not what i think, how i feel....or how your comments would affect me....) thats so really low of you to comment such a thing, you know ask yourself..? you may be having that inner you your inner voice, sub concious..? you too know that i have never mis behaved with you.untill this post came up and my name was dragged and indirectly i was forced to comment.. you your self admitted that i was a sweet guy to ranis comment ( ..yes i know who ur talking about...and i'm sorry he is hurt...but i never gave him the impression we were dating...only friends...he always wanted more from me...but friendship was all i was ever willing to give...i told him this on many occasions...and he is a sweet person..really he is...and i tried to feel more for him...but it was just never there...i'm truly sorry he couldn't realize that...and i would never deliberately hurt him.) and how come your statement change now..but i will not change my statement..i am your freind..i will remain your freind always..and i havent blogged whatever happend on cam.or made it a big issue in here.i just went on with my daily day to day work..did i ever hurt you,and if i do some thing wrong i would definately ask my freinds to say KIRAN u ve done this wrong, i ll agreee cause i believe in friendship and committment towards my freinds. Once again i do appriciate your motive to warn other freinds of IFF..i extend my complete support to you regarding this matter,You knew i was your freind then, you could have told me "kiran" i am hurt such a thing happend with me,i need your help.i would have come running,but u never considered me as your freind ,even though i knew u were in Hotel Grand in mumbai,i never visited you,i was in my home in mumbai in nariman point then, that time, but answer me only one question..why did you write my name.drag my name.( let me set the facts straight, the cam was not private with Hot Perfume on any messenger , it was on AFF... and at some point my BF over here kinda paid me a surprise visit and at moment i kinda forgot about the cam when he kissed me and we made out for a few minutes...) you could have mentioned ( let me set the facts straight, the cam was not private with this freind of yours( to rani ) whoom you claim on any messenger , it was on AFF... and at some point my BF over here kinda paid me a surprise visit and at moment i kinda forgot about the cam when he kissed me and we made out for a few minutes...) hope u realise now.its not me who did strike the match stick..and a match box comes with full of match sticks..always use the match stick to lite up the candle or a lamp to brightnup things or freindship.not to burn a freind like me.. ( And you Hotperfume are not who you claim to be....i am a very forgiving person...but your comments, spoken and mostly unspoken,....well...don't think i want to know you anymore.....) even i have the same kinda feelings about you,.,you are not spritelynymph32 who u claim to be..even i am a forgiving person and have forgiven u even for dragging my name as well that what ever happend u claimed to be in AFF..( note the point you yourself did claim it as Indian FriendFinder not me nor rani ). let me sum up the post by saying..you mocked by commenting..( ...loves ya raju...so what do you want for secratary's day )..lol just a advice from this freind whoom u hate now//raju is a nice guy i dont have any personal enemity or grudge with him..offer him whatever you wish ,i wish at last you found a guy who would not cheat you like jadu and is not a married man..wishing you a merry x mas and happy new year..enjoy the x mas.please inform me the secratay's day ill sent a card..
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12/26/2008 6:49 am |
Yeh Mera India India re India Very Good Very good Indiawale ( MAJORITY) Very Best Very Best few Very Bad Very Bad INDIA RE INDIA !!! happy new year #
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12/26/2008 8:36 am |
I was going to just read without commenting again cuz at the time I thought my comment was appropriate enough and I am sure ppl loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to read my comments .. but, then, I remembered this is a blog and blogs are suppose to have comments and comments about the comments are also essential.. so here is my 2 cents once again. Here is a question to > HP... u made it very clear here that u believe it was HUGELY inappropriate for sprite to name u.. to drag up ur name.. but.. isn't that what u did while talking to friends about the cam incident?? u could have said> FRIEND. What is the difference? Another Q for HP... U speak of shaitz and sprite having shields to protect them.. I am wondering what is wrong with having friends support u? U go on to say (in other words) what is wrong with having friends protections. I say.. lol exactly. And U have had that liberty shown here by a few friends. So what is this difference? There are so many things I can pick apart .. but, ya know... sour grapes don't make good wine.. not by my standards.. so instead I will leave it at that and drink some sweet strawberry wine and wish everyone a merry chrischwanza and a happy holidays â—‹â—‹â—‹ click the blue links here â—‹â—‹â—‹
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12/26/2008 10:38 am |
merry christmas and happy holidays to all
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12/26/2008 9:34 pm |
It's a horrible trait of a greedy and selfish man! May be more men and some women are like this. I had a bitter experience from a woman friend of mine. It's bad. But the world consists of all kinds of people. Stereotypes are also boring. Please forget it. Some Mr. Right will b there with u soon!
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12/27/2008 6:20 pm |
request you to releasea pic of JADUGAR as u have said earlier so that other can take care namaste
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12/28/2008 5:51 pm |
yes picture of jadu is important,as he may be traping other women,with his other handles
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12/28/2008 7:13 pm |
happy new year guys lol cant beleive wot i am reading here LOLOLOL
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12/28/2008 7:16 pm |
YES UMMMMMMMMM WOULDNT MIND SEEING ONE LOLZ
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12/29/2008 9:00 am |
HEY sistah!! wow jus read ur blog & I am so very sorry ya had 2 go thru all that bull shyte!!! Its very sad when a man offers 2 show ya so many wonderful sites in his country & to have ya feel like an intruder. My heart goes out to you sprite.I am so grateful you have so many on your side rite now.there is jus NO EXCUSE for what jadugar had done 2 you or to anybody else from here!! I do stand up proudly and give you great apllause for speaking what you truly feel about what you just went thru!! sis you have more courage and strength beyond any women i have met on this site!! I am still praying for you and for your family as well. You done such a great job exposing what an UGLY man (married) on top of it would do. I feel your pain but sistah your an exceptionlly vibrate & beautiful lady who has so much to offer,,, just don't let this 1 man ruin what GOD has truly blessed you with. You deserve so much more than a few words could ever say on here. Just temember there are a lot of other SINGLE MEN who would just about anything to be a part of your life... til then take care and god bless ya always>>>>
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12/29/2008 12:07 pm |
Yeesh...my day just got brighter after reading yer greek tragedy! Well we hope you do not attract another weiner anytime soon. How come I never attract babes like tyou that will pay fer everything? That shoulda been yer first roadsign say get the F_ck away from this dude....dont have money and aint getting any. After this I reckon gullible wont be yer middle name anymore...experianced  Amour Stan
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12/29/2008 12:08 pm |
I reckon desires are the cause of more pain than you can shake a stick at.
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12/29/2008 4:45 pm |
shaitaan my sweetie ya back in lime light i see ummmmm wot can i say lol ya love it dont ya sweetie.?? be good have great new year hun all best goodluck for year 2009 lol.
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12/30/2008 10:29 pm |
Happy New Year IFF Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD.
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1/1/2009 5:00 pm |
sprite, thou we ve not chatted ever, i was told abt ur story by a common frnd. i logged in just to take a look & OMG!!..thats terrible. i always maintained....most r fakes in here (including girls), so u sud ve been more careful...but that doesn't take away d trauma u had to go thru...so i appologise on all our behalf. hey...y don't u come back again & see hw beautiful this country is (excepting a few such mother f**kers)...i promise this time u'll surely enjoy & i'll take care of ur stay here. don't worry...i'll do all that frm behind...will nvr come in d front. now smile pls & get on wid ur life. Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year to u. god bless. byeee. ..tks for the offer...but i think i'm gonna ground myself for awhile..lol...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:02 pm |
My Intentions are GOOD .....then how can u explain those devilish horns protruding from ur cranium.... An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:04 pm |
Yeh Mera India India re India Very Good Very good Indiawale ( MAJORITY) Very Best Very Best few Very Bad Very Bad INDIA RE INDIA !!! happy new year #Happy New Year 2 u An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:07 pm |
I was going to just read without commenting again cuz at the time I thought my comment was appropriate enough and I am sure ppl loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to read my comments .. but, then, I remembered this is a blog and blogs are suppose to have comments and comments about the comments are also essential.. so here is my 2 cents once again.Here is a question to > HP... u made it very clear here that u believe it was HUGELY inappropriate for sprite to name u.. to drag up ur name.. but.. isn't that what u did while talking to friends about the cam incident?? u could have said> FRIEND. What is the difference? Another Q for HP... U speak of shaitz and sprite having shields to protect them.. I am wondering what is wrong with having friends support u? U go on to say (in other words) what is wrong with having friends protections. I say.. lol exactly. And U have had that liberty shown here by a few friends. So what is this difference? There are so many things I can pick apart .. but, ya know... sour grapes don't make good wine.. not by my standards.. so instead I will leave it at that and drink some sweet strawberry wine and wish everyone a merry chrischwanza and a happy holidays An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:09 pm |
merry christmas and happy holidays to all  An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:11 pm |
It's a horrible trait of a greedy and selfish man! May be more men and some women are like this. I had a bitter experience from a woman friend of mine. It's bad. But the world consists of all kinds of people. Stereotypes are also boring. Please forget it. Some Mr. Right will b there with u soon! ...he's already forgotten...An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:12 pm |
request you to releasea pic of JADUGAR as u have said earlier so that other can take care namaste ...let me consult with my secretary first ...stay tuned....An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:19 pm |
HEY sistah!! wow jus read ur blog & I am so very sorry ya had 2 go thru all that bull shyte!!! Its very sad when a man offers 2 show ya so many wonderful sites in his country & to have ya feel like an intruder. My heart goes out to you sprite.I am so grateful you have so many on your side rite now.there is jus NO EXCUSE for what jadugar had done 2 you or to anybody else from here!! I do stand up proudly and give you great apllause for speaking what you truly feel about what you just went thru!! sis you have more courage and strength beyond any women i have met on this site!! I am still praying for you and for your family as well. You done such a great job exposing what an UGLY man (married) on top of it would do. I feel your pain but sistah your an exceptionlly vibrate & beautiful lady who has so much to offer,,, just don't let this 1 man ruin what GOD has truly blessed you with. You deserve so much more than a few words could ever say on here. Just temember there are a lot of other SINGLE MEN who would just about anything to be a part of your life... til then take care and god bless ya always>>>> ...what 2 say but tks.....ur an awesome chic and ur comments mean a lot 2 me ....love ya An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/1/2009 5:21 pm |
Yeesh...my day just got brighter after reading yer greek tragedy! Well we hope you do not attract another weiner anytime soon. How come I never attract babes like tyou that will pay fer everything? That shoulda been yer first roadsign say get the F_ck away from this dude....dont have money and aint getting any. After this I reckon gullible wont be yer middle name anymore...experianced Amour Stan An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/3/2009 5:16 pm |
Hmmmm Nymph looks like u have fallen for the Scam Named India & Pakistan both scam nations , first of all nymph could u not use your sense before visiting one of the most populated parts of the world where the currency value is so low and that the men and woman are just waiting to steal your american dollars, well what has pappened to u is a lesson to all foreighners never to trust that part of the world named South Asia where they will do anything for the sake of money , now this is horrifying that the Indian Pauper used all your money for the hotel and the trip , Indians and paki nationals are so cheap freakin dirt cheap conman. Nymph why did u not think that both those nations India and Paki are full of corrupted politicians who just kill people for there own vested needs and how could u ever trust a Indian National in the first place that u went all the way to India to fall in to his trap and get conned pity u anyways once bitten twice shy beware next time.
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1/5/2009 8:34 am |
Hmmmm Nymph looks like u have fallen for the Scam Named India & Pakistan both scam nations , first of all nymph could u not use your sense before visiting one of the most populated parts of the world where the currency value is so low and that the men and woman are just waiting to steal your american dollars, well what has pappened to u is a lesson to all foreighners never to trust that part of the world named South Asia where they will do anything for the sake of money , now this is horrifying that the Indian Pauper used all your money for the hotel and the trip , Indians and paki nationals are so cheap freakin dirt cheap conman. Nymph why did u not think that both those nations India and Paki are full of corrupted politicians who just kill people for there own vested needs and how could u ever trust a Indian National in the first place that u went all the way to India to fall in to his trap and get conned pity u anyways once bitten twice shy beware next time. An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/5/2009 12:09 pm |
Hmmmm Nymph looks like u have fallen for the Scam Named India & Pakistan both scam nations , first of all nymph could u not use your sense before visiting one of the most populated parts of the world where the currency value is so low and that the men and woman are just waiting to steal your american dollars, well what has pappened to u is a lesson to all foreighners never to trust that part of the world named South Asia where they will do anything for the sake of money , now this is horrifying that the Indian Pauper used all your money for the hotel and the trip , Indians and paki nationals are so cheap freakin dirt cheap conman. Nymph why did u not think that both those nations India and Paki are full of corrupted politicians who just kill people for there own vested needs and how could u ever trust a Indian National in the first place that u went all the way to India to fall in to his trap and get conned pity u anyways once bitten twice shy beware next time.
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1/5/2009 10:11 pm |
Hmmmm Nymph looks like u have fallen for the Scam Named India & Pakistan both scam nations , first of all nymph could u not use your sense before visiting one of the most populated parts of the world where the currency value is so low and that the men and woman are just waiting to steal your american dollars, well what has pappened to u is a lesson to all foreighners never to trust that part of the world named South Asia where they will do anything for the sake of money , now this is horrifying that the Indian Pauper used all your money for the hotel and the trip , Indians and paki nationals are so cheap freakin dirt cheap conman. Nymph why did u not think that both those nations India and Paki are full of corrupted politicians who just kill people for there own vested needs and how could u ever trust a Indian National in the first place that u went all the way to India to fall in to his trap and get conned pity u anyways once bitten twice shy beware next time. strange to see this guy on INDIAN Friend Finder..anyhow mate.. reply to your msg will be in near future poor country and thing Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD.
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1/11/2009 9:13 am |
nice post!
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1/11/2009 3:12 pm |
strange to see this guy on INDIAN Friend Finder..anyhow mate.. reply to your msg will be in near future poor country and thing An Ounce of Change is Worth a Pound of the Same
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1/13/2009 12:01 am |
hmmmmmmmmm Sparsh
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1/31/2009 6:41 pm |
Hmmmm Nymph looks like u have fallen for the Scam Named India & Pakistan both scam nations , first of all nymph could u not use your sense before visiting one of the most populated parts of the world where the currency value is so low and that the men and woman are just waiting to steal your american dollars, well what has pappened to u is a lesson to all foreighners never to trust that part of the world named South Asia where they will do anything for the sake of money , now this is horrifying that the Indian Pauper used all your money for the hotel and the trip , Indians and paki nationals are so cheap freakin dirt cheap conman. Nymph why did u not think that both those nations India and Paki are full of corrupted politicians who just kill people for there own vested needs and how could u ever trust a Indian National in the first place that u went all the way to India to fall in to his trap and get conned pity u anyways once bitten twice shy beware next time. Given that you do not and can not trust any South Asian people....do you not think its time for you to say good bye to Indian friend finder? Hope never to hear from such a narrow minded person ever again.
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2/23/2009 7:49 pm |
WHERE IS PICTURE OF ZADUOPPS JADU?
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3/13/2009 8:39 pm |
i think spritely made up with jadugar otherwise she would have posted a photo of him
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5/15/2009 4:17 am |
my dear friend, why you feel sorry for you, you need a supprt that time he used you its easy to say get over it but you can not live your life with it move on with your life life is very beautiful you learn your lesson do not trust on any body so easy i will suggest you life comes once just because of some jerk dont put your self in depression live your life goodluck
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