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Reflecting....
kalanchoe
6/10/2008 8:27 am
Lately it seems that I have had too much time on my hands to think and reflect on my past, I guess being on bed rest and still healing from my surgery is at fault! lol One day I was thinking about old friends that I have lost touch with over the past few years and that is what brought me back to IFF. I was here about 4 years ago and made some wonderful friends. I had the pleasure of meeting several of them in person.

I learned a lot from my friends about how they view life, love and their futures. Many of them shared some really good times and there was one who also was there in the bad times. Most of us here know what it means to have a "broken heart" and how only time can heal. I was asking my dear friend...why, why does it have to hurt so bad? This is what she said to me:

The Love that we can not have is the Love that grows the deepest, will last the longest and hurt the worst.

It doesn't seem to make sense but holds very true. Well, at least for me it does and is the reason that I began reflecting on this statement today. I have a love that will always be in my heart for someone, I've learned to accept that I will love him forever.

Now I am wondering, why does it have to hurt so bad for so long...

I have no answer to that. But I would not trade the hurt that I feel for never having experienced loving someone as I loved him, and he I...and maybe one day we will be together again.
O0O_000_O0O
336 posts 

6/12/2008 11:27 am

    Quoting kalanchoe:
    Thank you for visiting my blog!
    Is being transperant a good thing or a bad thing?
if it's about your dress,I wont mind,lady
but being transperant is dangerous at times-that's what I learnt from here( you know what I mean-of course)


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giitchi
1208 posts 

6/10/2008 6:44 pm

Kalan huh!! welcome back

g

Never lose hope. There is always a battle going on tat you don't see...

eversmilingme
809 posts 

6/10/2008 2:39 pm

There are times when the words are in the heart but

just cannot be expressed.. maybe even the expression of them is

painful... yet reading your words today , i feel i am reading words

i myself have wanted to express.

Life teaches us lessons we never want to learn and thats what makes

them painful i guess...

I wish you and your love all the best in getting back together..

huggss.

hugggss..

kalanchoe
24 posts 

6/10/2008 1:11 pm

    Quoting O0O_000_O0O:
    you sound pretty transperant
    welcome back

Thank you for visiting my blog!
Is being transperant a good thing or a bad thing?

kalanchoe
24 posts 

6/10/2008 1:10 pm

    Quoting good1622:
    Hope, The day of reunion comes soon.
Thank you dear, you know the truth...

I will keeping hoping too though!!!

kalanchoe
24 posts 

6/10/2008 1:09 pm

    Quoting foxxfireehottie:
    welcome back ..

    when you give with a true heart ...
    it is like a piece taken from your heart...
    so your friend said it well...

    "The Love that we can not have is the Love that grows the deepest, will last the longest and hurt the worst."

    but i think that the love we long to have is worth waiting for..
    and pain is to show that it is REAL..

    nice blog
thank you foxxfire for your comments. I agree
whole heartedly with you that the love is worth
waiting for and the pain shows it is real...

take care

O0O_000_O0O
336 posts 

6/10/2008 12:00 pm

you sound pretty transperant
welcome back


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good1622
151 posts 

6/10/2008 11:10 am

Hope, The day of reunion comes soon.

foxxfireehottie

6/10/2008 9:54 am

welcome back ..

when you give with a true heart ...
it is like a piece taken from your heart...
so your friend said it well...

"The Love that we can not have is the Love that grows the deepest, will last the longest and hurt the worst."

but i think that the love we long to have is worth waiting for..
and pain is to show that it is REAL..

nice blog

~Don't just count your blessings......share them~

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