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anamika5
6/11/2008 10:28 amLast Read: |
i hate intimacy. of any sort. i will be lonely forever unless i get over this. am i prey of weird psychological stuff?????? i certainly miss support, caring, tenderness and warmth...what to do..im scared of intimacy with anyone.... why i both long and fear for intimacy?  im helpless.....  Anamika5 |
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6/11/2008 11:06 am |
ayjayef
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 6/11/2008 2:32 pm |
Looks like you are not scared of intimacy..rather loosing someone who's is intimate with you.
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6/11/2008 7:16 pm |
Anamika, Your subconscious is not aligned to your conscious and superconscious. Subconscious fears or beliefs can be very deep seated. They are scars that reside in your energy field like a sleeping dragon and get triggered every time you face situations similar to the event or events that caused the original scar. They don’t even have to be that similar. The subconscious is known as the 'Inner Child' in modern psychology. It is like an immature puppy that is very susceptible to habit, irrational even, because this is the only way it has been ‘trained’ (by trauma) to act. Your habitual response or fears come from your subconscious self, which is at odds with your conscious, rational self. A very stark and simplistic example is phobias. They are irrational responses but very real. The irrational responses can be overridden. Or got rid of. So, you can start life with a ‘clean slate’ and live in the present moment, and are not always acting out of old partial, corrupted scripts/memories/programmes... that may have served you well in the past for the lessons they taught but are no longer in your highest good. Write to me if you’d like to address the problem. I can point you to the right resources.
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6/11/2008 7:42 pm |
dear anu, no one is perfect ,pl start and things will take shape slowly and slowly. continous interaction ,respect of others feelings ,usage of words for others are very important success mantras in todays world. you will be successful one day........
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6/11/2008 9:35 pm |
Hey Anu Want To love U as A very sweet friend ,No intimacy nothing wrong. So will u be my friend 4 ever ?
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6/12/2008 12:09 am |
Hi Anu, No one is crazy lovely girl...cheer up... God bless you 
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6/12/2008 2:59 am |
with intimacy everything develops & u would be out of any fear, hv trust
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6/12/2008 4:14 am |
j my brother...u r so encouraging... Anamika5
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6/12/2008 4:16 am |
HrtWarmer.... ur comment warmed the heart.. Anamika5
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6/12/2008 4:18 am |
Tara..u are such a thoughtful sister...i am considering your observation..thanks Anamika5
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6/12/2008 4:20 am |
you will be successful one day........ thanks namo for ur encouragement... Anamika5
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6/12/2008 4:22 am |
luv...u r always a dear friend.. Anamika5
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6/12/2008 4:24 am |
melissa sis...thnx Anamika5
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6/12/2008 4:26 am |
irons... trust u r rt... Anamika5
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6/12/2008 9:36 pm |
Thankyou so much my sweet anu For ur compliments,Luv u always !
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6/13/2008 4:05 am |
Anu, your fears may be true, but this is life, there are good and bad thgs, you may have suffered silently, there was no one to give a shoulder to cry, your feelings are to be respected... take it easy as it comes,,, this is life afterall.. [/COLOR Love with Passion.
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6/13/2008 5:37 am |
hi, your fears could be real, it could associated with a not so pleasant experinece in the past.But do remember not all intimacy is bad and upleasant.Its one of those things that warms the heart and actually brings 2 people closer.Intimacy is at diferent levels, soemtimes just a warm hug is all thts required to make one feel great!!! that too is intimacy, it neednt necessarily mean sex.....
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6/14/2008 3:11 am |
luv Anamika5
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6/14/2008 3:13 am |
yessss jaal... im taking life as it comes..thanx for your support.. Anamika5
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6/14/2008 3:14 am |
aace2 thanks...for the concern and understanding Anamika5
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6/15/2008 3:41 pm |
Pity for the ones who haven't cried Pity, Pity. Life, they have never known your beauty. Hello Anamica. I hope these lyrics of a song reflect best my opinions without making any direct reflection and judgment to your case. For life to exist it must be created through intimacy. Do not fear it. Even at the moments of pain that they may come along, the memories of happiness should help you find your path.
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6/17/2008 6:57 am |
dnt know red...but im scared deari cant chagge my mind..i think sothx ofr ur concern n love Anamika5
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6/27/2008 8:16 pm |
No you are not crazy you are just human and i have these feelings too In life what ever moment has gone, --Has gone and will never come back,-Rajesh khanna
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6/28/2008 12:09 am |
roses...hmmmmmmm...well..thank u hun Anamika5
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6/28/2008 1:13 am |
ANAM YOUR NOT CRAZY SIS JUST CAUTIOUS ..WHEN YOU FIND LOVE ALL YOUR NOTIONS ABOUT BEING SCARED WILL FLY AWAY ..HUGGZ JAY
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6/28/2008 4:54 am |
JAYSI..SISS....thank you for your concern and love.......im losing my confidence...wat to do??huggzzzzzzz Anamika5
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7/3/2008 7:11 pm |
Do not fear of losing someone. Be happy about yourself, and the self image is what counts than what others think. That will boost your confidence.
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7/3/2008 9:24 pm |
nefra......huggzzzzzzzzz sissy......luv yaaaaaaaaaa Anamika5
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7/4/2008 6:56 am |
hi, this is a natural and human feeling. It is possible you have seen or experienced things which make you apprehensive. you definitely don't need advice!!personally i feel that it is only a writing by you about your feelings and it is not the actual position. i cannot/will not advise on this just because i find it tough for myself when i face similar questions! in fact you know that you don't need advice. from what we see of you on the iff, you are quite capable of handling your things and in fact you are capable of helping the more unfortunate persons. it is a good honest write up. thanks.
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7/4/2008 11:07 pm |
arjan thx dear.....how can i guide others????im trying to find my own way...hmmmmmmm(still i couldnt forget double headed hydra..i added her unknowingly..) Anamika5
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7/5/2008 5:57 am |
Anamika, There are alot of ppl that fear intimacy. The good thing is that you are not in denial and identified that you fear it. So the question is...now that you have found this to be the case do you want to change the status quo or not? Consulting someone to help you with this issue has its benefits...you need to choose... Hamnashee
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7/5/2008 9:20 am |
hi hamnashee nice to meet ya sishow can i deny something that destroying my life???????????i know my problem ..and trying to save myself..but i dnt know wats going to happen.....lets see...hmmmmmmmmmmmmthx hun huggz Anamika5
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7/5/2008 10:12 am |
Thanks Anamika, It appears that I am maturing on the site. I must say that you are a mature woman, fully aware of what she wants. I could not envisage anybody guiding you. Well, well, you got what I wanted to say!! I hope I won't be reported for this!! You must trust me when I say this, that I do not intend any harm to you. I only want to talk to you sometimes. Thanks again
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