5 Shades of Love
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"Love in the heart was not meant there to stay. Love is not love till you give it away". For love to be ever lasting and eternal every one should be aware of the different stages of love and know its significance. Following are the different phases through which you will travel in your love life and only those who pass it will have an endless love. ATTRACTION Attraction can be defined as something, which is more than friendship and is a step towards getting ready for a relationship. Now attraction is of two types: a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are ready for the first contact and also whether you are comfortable in the company of the other person. b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to come closer. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form. Sometimes an emotional attraction can occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond will be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred. INTIMACY Intimacy is something, which a person experiences when you learn to trust and believe your lover. It is a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, feelings, and dreams. You feel free to discuss everything with this person and you are absolutely comfortable in his company. Thus intimacy develops gradually. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years. Intimacy is actually the path to a true, healthy and beautiful relationship. ROMANCE Romance is the essence of a relationship. Without romance your love life will not exist. Romance is the true identity of your love. It brings out your true self and helps you be a better lover, husband and partner. Romance is a celebration of the life you live as part of a couple. It springs naturally and originates from within your heart. It makes you do things that you possibly couldn't have imagined to do otherwise. It shows you who you are and reminds you of the role you play in a relationship. Romance is not responsibility but it is caring about your responsibilities towards your lover and partner. Romance is the appreciation of two people who are celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found each other. PASSION The third stage is passion, which basically means a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. For from here you will understand the true meaning and nature of your relationship. If there is no passion then its best to let go but if there is passion in your relationship then it is time to go on to the next stage. COMMITMENT The last stage is commitment. This is when you know that you want to spend your whole life with this person you love and you can do anything for him. It is when your whole world just revolves round your lover and you take a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times, be by his side whenever he needs you. |
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5/22/2009 9:40 am |
wow msm darling Lovely blog, very well explained about the phases of love. But very few take it seriously. I think always men choose physiscal part and end it.   IFF NEEDS SUCH KIND OF BLOGS. yours kareena
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5/23/2009 1:06 am |
Nice Blog MsM ji,,,,,, Kareena ji Why does your heart grow doubtful dear? Tense and beating, full of fear. I keep with me your everlasting love, and bless the day God sent you from above. You remain my angel and I feel that I must, tell you that within you, you have my trust. My love is the tide, your soul is the shores, you have my heart, do I have yours? I'll belong to you till the very end, and you will forever stay as my lover and friend. It has been so good like this from the start, so darling please, trust me with your heart. Sparsh
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5/23/2009 1:20 am |
ITS REALLY WELL WRITTEN EXCELLENT EFFORT BLESSED R THE FEW OF US WHO GO THRO ALL THESE STAGES OVER N OVER AGAIN MYSTRY U SEEM TO HAVE A TERRIFIC HOLD ON PSYCHOLOGY BYE
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5/23/2009 2:04 am |
Love is all about two hearts and two pairs of eyes, met. Love is all about forgetting everything for someone dearest. Msm,So nicely told words.So I quoted two lines from one of my poems.They are my heart felt observations.Sheel(Surprises..) asked me to visit your blog.I must thank him.Really...a nice post.Luv - Brishti
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5/23/2009 2:49 am |
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5/23/2009 3:27 am |
Well explained. Most important stage is commitment, cos without commitment love is nothing but just a physical attraction.
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5/24/2009 5:44 am |
Marvellous, It sums it up in just about 500 odd words - dosent it? gr8 blog enjoye reading it.
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6/8/2009 12:11 am |
nice. theory is o.k. what about practice?
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6/11/2009 11:31 pm |
Thanks a lot to all of you for your comments.
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6/13/2009 1:30 am |
Really nice one 
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7/6/2009 7:08 am |
Beautifully portrayed, words rise from your inner self n touch others' deeper core. Very well written!
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7/15/2009 8:00 am |
Beautifully portrayed, words rise from your inner self n touch others' deeper core. Very well written! Take care and be in touch
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7/22/2009 12:09 am |
Hello,I am happy that you have written about love,I would like to say like minded people attract and it might take a while for some to find people of the same wavelength,so to say.I hope people reac that stage a little fast.I would also like to say red,pink,strawberry colours are what I feel are the colours of love,Of course tere may be a few other colours associated with love,which I am not aware of.love vinod2725
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