***** TRUST IN FRIENDSHIP *****
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Trust in Frendship…………. Sometimes we believe in certain people.. have expectations from them.......... They says we should not expect……. its always better to maintain relationships without having much expectations…....BUT we are human….and expectations and human go together……. There are so many complications in life.. and most of it is because of these expectations..Be it professional .. be it personal.. these always have some value.. Its a different topic if we are able to meet other's expectation or not.. We might not be raising upto that level.. and when we dont and see the pain in our loved ones... we feel guilty... and not go and advise.. dont have any expecations from me.. or nobody has ever had any expectation from me.. These are words of escapism... ……What is relationship without expectations.... Well its very easy to define what to expect from whom etc.. but very difficult to follow. When in a relationship.. be it parent child, brother sister, husband wife.. even in friendship.. .we need to know that a little bit of affection is always expected... You need to be confident that when the whole world leaves me alone... my friend is always there for me... That is what is friendship after all... The confidence in the other person, the trust which you have on that person irrespective of whether the person will really do it for you. A friend is, simply, another self. Someone you can speak to as freely as to yourself, someone who will rejoice in your happiness as much as yourself, and someone wherever you turn is at your side, never untimely, nor in your way. There's three essential features of friendship: 1. There is affection between you 2. There is honesty. 3. There is trust. What if there comes a situation you are no longer going to trust your friend... the friendship is off on a vacation.. probably that is the day, you realize, you did a mistake... They say.. parents are by chance frineds are by choice So choose your friends wisely... Choose your life wisely!!! |
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6/11/2009 12:58 pm |
Good insight on relationship, but in every type of relationship be it love,friendship,parents,brother/sister, though we thread cautiously in that relationship we'll never know what lies in the heart of the other person. Someone who comes across a friend who has a deep understanding of his/her feelings, who is always by his/her side no matter what's the distance that separate them, this friendship should be valued to the far end.In moment of joy or sorrow gold or diamond won't share your feeling but true friend will. True friend is one who is with you through thick and thin, who shares yr bed though your are living in a slum. With money you can have the world at your feet, many friends will come to you pretending to be loving, caring, sincere, ready to share your joy and sorrows...but once you are broke those friends who at one time were genuinely sincere to you will then turn their back to you.
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6/11/2009 8:18 pm |
Trust, as we know, is a crucial factor in any relationship. Many relationships have broken up over trust issues. Once violated, trust is very difficult to repair and rebuild, so it has to be guarded carefully and constantly nurtured. It can be compared to a plant that needs the right soil, water and temperature to flourish and attain full bloom. So too, trust requires the right conditions and environment to sustain a relationship through highs and lows. If partners trust each other in a relationship, there is no guarantee that it will continue to stay that way. You can never trust enough, nor can you take it for granted. You have to constantly build on it.
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 6/11/2009 9:58 pm |
A friend is, simply, another self. Someone you can speak to as freely as to yourself, someone who will rejoice in your happiness as much as yourself, and someone wherever you turn is at your side, never untimely, nor in your way. Good insight into relationships. Expectations in a relationship are common; but should be reasonable. Good post! 
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6/11/2009 10:41 pm |
Way back in the 17th century, French writer Duc de la Rochefoucauld said, "It is more shameful to distrust one's friends than to be deceived by them." Trust issues associated with friendship have long been recognized as a barb, an arrow, a spear, maybe even the lethal shot of a stray bullet, waiting to wound the sanctity and stability of a good friendship. Trust has the power to make or break a friendship Its time to lend a hand... to life. The greatest gift of GOD. 
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6/12/2009 6:03 am |
hi msm sumthing in my hrt says dat it has been written 4 sum1 special who has maybe unintentionally let u down. plz donttake ur frdship on a vacation.a erring frd realizes his mistake n promises dat u will never feel let down again. ms u hav a very emotioal frd who values relationships very much bye n take care
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6/12/2009 6:31 am |
Hmmmmmmmm very nice. Somebody has said that in life if u have four genuine trustworthy friends den that person sud be accomodated in Forbes rich list. Wat u say MSM??
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6/12/2009 8:53 am |
very well said msmystery, too bad most people do not understand the depth of true friendships 
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6/12/2009 11:02 am |
this is commonly discussed subject ..or discussing subject among us...or questioned... valued.. I also feel the same as surprises...(he might surprise u ???) that you spell it out these blog boz of some resason..... Anyway nice to see yur views on this !!! God May Bless You my silent friend!!! (is i have right to say friend? or like only MsM)
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6/12/2009 10:56 pm |
There's a miracle called FRIENDSHIP that dwells within the HEART. And you don;t know how it happens or when it gets it start, but the happiness it brings to you always gives a special lift, and you realize that friendship is GOD's most precious gift...... true friendship goes beyond human dimensions.....it goes deep.......from the heart to soul
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6/12/2009 11:39 pm |
Mystic_soul True. Friendship is God's greatest gift which is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends. I feel very lucky to have you as my friend. Thanks a ton.
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6/12/2009 11:55 pm |
Good insight on relationship, but in every type of relationship be it love,friendship,parents,brother/sister, though we thread cautiously in that relationship we'll never know what lies in the heart of the other person. Someone who comes across a friend who has a deep understanding of his/her feelings, who is always by his/her side no matter what's the distance that separate them, this friendship should be valued to the far end.In moment of joy or sorrow gold or diamond won't share your feeling but true friend will. True friend is one who is with you through thick and thin, who shares yr bed though your are living in a slum. With money you can have the world at your feet, many friends will come to you pretending to be loving, caring, sincere, ready to share your joy and sorrows...but once you are broke those friends who at one time were genuinely sincere to you will then turn their back to you. Thanks for sharing your views. A true friend won't attract by your wealth or social status. i read somewhere “Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.”
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6/13/2009 12:00 am |
Hmmmmmmmm very nice. Somebody has said that in life if u have four genuine trustworthy friends den that person sud be accomodated in Forbes rich list. Wat u say MSM?? thanks for your comment. Its not easy to find genuine trustworthy friends these days. A friend is like an owl, but beautiful and wise. or perhaps a friend is like a ghost, whose spirit never dies. u wanna be one?
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6/13/2009 12:08 am |
Trust, as we know, is a crucial factor in any relationship. Many relationships have broken up over trust issues. Once violated, trust is very difficult to repair and rebuild, so it has to be guarded carefully and constantly nurtured. It can be compared to a plant that needs the right soil, water and temperature to flourish and attain full bloom. So too, trust requires the right conditions and environment to sustain a relationship through highs and lows. If partners trust each other in a relationship, there is no guarantee that it will continue to stay that way. You can never trust enough, nor can you take it for granted. You have to constantly build on it. SO TRUST YOURSELF
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6/13/2009 12:20 am |
A friend is, simply, another self. Someone you can speak to as freely as to yourself, someone who will rejoice in your happiness as much as yourself, and someone wherever you turn is at your side, never untimely, nor in your way. Good insight into relationships. Expectations in a relationship are common; but should be reasonable. Good post! Expectation do come within itself....we cant define what to expect and what not. regards
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6/13/2009 12:23 am |
Way back in the 17th century, French writer Duc de la Rochefoucauld said, "It is more shameful to distrust one's friends than to be deceived by them." Trust issues associated with friendship have long been recognized as a barb, an arrow, a spear, maybe even the lethal shot of a stray bullet, waiting to wound the sanctity and stability of a good friendship. Trust has the power to make or break a friendship You are right, Trust has the power to make or break a friendship. The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are. Instead, we trust people to be who we want them to be- and when they're not, we cry.
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6/13/2009 12:33 am |
hi msm sumthing in my hrt says dat it has been written 4 sum1 special who has maybe unintentionally let u down. plz donttake ur frdship on a vacation.a erring frd realizes his mistake n promises dat u will never feel let down again. ms u hav a very emotioal frd who values relationships very much bye n take care
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6/13/2009 12:36 am |
very well said msmystery, too bad most people do not understand the depth of true friendships Friendship is not important with whom you have it, it is how deep you have it.
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6/13/2009 12:49 am |
this is commonly discussed subject ..or discussing subject among us...or questioned... valued.. I also feel the same as surprises...(he might surprise u ???) that you spell it out these blog boz of some resason..... Anyway nice to see yur views on this !!! God May Bless You my silent friend!!! (is i have right to say friend? or like only MsM) we learn from our experiences. wht i felt, have shared thru this blog.
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6/13/2009 2:05 am |
I agree msm the we always choose your friends. Life is journey we need to take the chances always. Sure some time we may have some set backs, but sure that should not stop us any time. Sure the trust,faith and mutual respect play a major role in any kind of friendship. But in time some we may depart with some and some may say for long time. Just we need to let go things with time if any things not worked out between any two friends. It is just the workability issues and the new choices we make at that phase of life. When people not mix things and act cool and calm and with all mutual respect and with all open communication they sure that friendship will sure stands with time . 
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6/13/2009 7:44 am |
why do i feel dat a frd is not being d same as she used 2 be.it is troubling me a lot. cud she say sumthing . bye n luv
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6/14/2009 4:38 am |
 
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6/14/2009 8:09 am |
Hi MsMystery Life has taught me Never to expect. And since I learned that, I've had no disappointments Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples 
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6/14/2009 10:03 am |
Yes lifes cosemic crux say never to expect, but to accept ( kav1ta) Acceptance, of whatever in its true sense! probing, weighing, judging, then fitting in our analysis,,,, 
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 6/15/2009 5:38 am |
Hi MsMystery Life has taught me Never to expect. And since I learned that, I've had no disappointments Don't expect and you will never be disappointed and feel hurt or deceived. Treat whatever positive comes out of a relationship as BONUS and negative as TRASH,to be dumped in the dustbin. Disappointment will never ever dare come near you. A wonderful POST nevertheless. GOD BLESS everyone with the treasure of 'REAL' FRIENDS.
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6/15/2009 8:27 pm |
msm di, Namaste n JsK,,,, Nice Post indeed.... M not as wise n smart like others but i can say,,, proudly,,,, that i'm the luckiest b'coz my very close friends trust on me... & for me Trust means atut agadh vishwas on my friends spcly u n her..... June 14th was the most beautiful n unforgettable day of ma life.... take care Enjoy...GBU and Dil se thanks,,,,,, GBU Sparsh
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6/16/2009 4:31 am |
every things comes after a great sacrefice FRIENDSHIP IS A TREMENDEOUS TEST OF PATIENCE AND CO-OPEARATION AND ATTETUDE. THE JEAST OF IT IS FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE BOTH CAN BE FELT RATHER CAN BE ENJOYED BY SACREFICEING OWN ALL THE WANTS AND NEEDS FOR BUILDING THE LIFE PATH FOR HIS/HER FRIEND.
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6/26/2009 12:15 pm |
A strong bonding doesn’t need daily conversations, doesn’t always need togetherness. As long as trust lives in heart, true friends never depart. Hi dear,So true is your observation.I also support Kavita's view.Hey,we gals are more logical,I think.Some of my male friends are over enthusiastic as usual. Friendship is a gem, Hard to get,never to be lost, Needs nothing but A bit patience and a bit trust. Luv u all...Brishti
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6/29/2009 2:26 am |
MYSTERY NICE BLOG & NICE VICHAR. SINCE WE ALL R HUMAN BEING & ITS NATURE OF ALL HUMAN BEING FOR SOME CONSIDERATIONS. U PICK ANY RELATION EXCEPT THE RELATION OF MOTHER & KIDS. IN FRIENDSHIP ALSO THERE IS CONSIDERATION. bUT YES BUT THE TRUE FRIEND IS THOSE WHO ARE COMING TO YOU WHEN U NEED MOST. SOME TIME THE FAMILY MEMBERS ARE ALSO LEAVING YOU IN DIFFICULT SITUATIONS BUT A TRUE FRIEND WILL ALWYAS HELP YOU & SHOWING YOU THE RIGHT PATH. THAT SI MY BELEIVE. NICE BLOG IN ANY WAYS. KEEP ON WRITING.. TKS KESHAV
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7/1/2009 3:52 am |
A strong bonding doesn’t need daily conversations, doesn’t always need togetherness. As long as trust lives in heart, true friends never depart. Hi dear,So true is your observation.I also support Kavita's view.Hey,we gals are more logical,I think.Some of my male friends are over enthusiastic as usual. Friendship is a gem, Hard to get,never to be lost, Needs nothing but A bit patience and a bit trust. Luv u all...Brishti Am not a poet like you or a gud writer ......just tried to share my thoughts here. For me friendship is very precious, is always a sweet responsibility and I believe Never walk away from a friend when u see some faults… be patient n realize that nobody is perfect…its affection that matters, not perfection. Take Care Lots of Luv MSM (sorry i can't disclose my name here, hope u understand)
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7/1/2009 3:57 am |
MYSTERY NICE BLOG & NICE VICHAR. SINCE WE ALL R HUMAN BEING & ITS NATURE OF ALL HUMAN BEING FOR SOME CONSIDERATIONS. U PICK ANY RELATION EXCEPT THE RELATION OF MOTHER & KIDS. IN FRIENDSHIP ALSO THERE IS CONSIDERATION. bUT YES BUT THE TRUE FRIEND IS THOSE WHO ARE COMING TO YOU WHEN U NEED MOST. SOME TIME THE FAMILY MEMBERS ARE ALSO LEAVING YOU IN DIFFICULT SITUATIONS BUT A TRUE FRIEND WILL ALWYAS HELP YOU & SHOWING YOU THE RIGHT PATH. THAT SI MY BELEIVE. NICE BLOG IN ANY WAYS. KEEP ON WRITING.. TKS KESHAV Very few people understand the meaning of true friendship. True friendship isn't about being there when it's convenient; it's about being there when it's not. Take Care
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7/1/2009 4:41 am |
every things comes after a great sacrefice FRIENDSHIP IS A TREMENDEOUS TEST OF PATIENCE AND CO-OPEARATION AND ATTETUDE. THE JEAST OF IT IS FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE BOTH CAN BE FELT RATHER CAN BE ENJOYED BY SACREFICEING OWN ALL THE WANTS AND NEEDS FOR BUILDING THE LIFE PATH FOR HIS/HER FRIEND. One day Friendship & Love met one-another. Love asked Friendship - “Why do You exist if I’m there?” So Friendship said - “To give a Smile to those eyes in which You leave Tears.” Sacrifice is greater than love, but nothing is greater than good Friendship.
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7/7/2009 1:59 pm |
I know this is a late post but... I just wanted you to know what a beautiful, wonderful and compassionate woman you are...You have a golden heart and a warmth that surrounds everyone who knows you...you are and angel on this earth and never forget that... I am so grateful you are my friend and that friendship is a treasure to me...I am so blessed to have you in my life... I may not have friends in high quantity and thats ok too...but the ones I do have are of the highest and purest heart quality in this world... The irony is...that a few of my very most beautiful and treasured friendships came via this site...some are still members and some are not, but each one is a life long friend...and even though this site has previously been a source of hurt and encounters of many a socundrel, it goes to show that there is beauty in everywhere we go...we just have to really open our eyes and hearts... Love you tons...you are a treasure 
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7/15/2009 7:57 am |
I know this is a late post but... I just wanted you to know what a beautiful, wonderful and compassionate woman you are...You have a golden heart and a warmth that surrounds everyone who knows you...you are and angel on this earth and never forget that... I am so grateful you are my friend and that friendship is a treasure to me...I am so blessed to have you in my life... I may not have friends in high quantity and thats ok too...but the ones I do have are of the highest and purest heart quality in this world... The irony is...that a few of my very most beautiful and treasured friendships came via this site...some are still members and some are not, but each one is a life long friend...and even though this site has previously been a source of hurt and encounters of many a socundrel, it goes to show that there is beauty in everywhere we go...we just have to really open our eyes and hearts... Love you tons...you are a treasure I dont know where to start...........words are not enough to tell you what you are. I thank god for giving me you as my friend. You are a lovely person I ever met on this site Your friendship is very precious for me. Our friendship is a treasure well beyond any measure.....LOVE YOU Take care
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