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Embracing imperfection!!!  

msmystery07
7/12/2009 9:31 pm
I have read this post somewhere and wanted to share ..........

"When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember Watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite!

When I got Up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad For burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burned toast.'

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!' You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.

What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to accept the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life. Build a relationship where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker!"


We could extend this to any relationship in fact, for understanding is the base of any relationship, be it work related or personal - husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!!
Hot_Perfume
306 posts 

7/12/2009 10:19 pm

My mystery07,
Thanks for sharing such a wonderful post, yeah thats life,to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
its just in our hands to make and brake a relationship, so Don't make promise when you are in JOY . Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise.
BE happy...!
regards
kiran

Stom1968
12 posts 

7/12/2009 11:47 pm

Nice message!!! Touching and with lot inne rmeaning. But I dont think it is so easy while we make go for such into practical. If you can, its well and good. I really appreciate you.

I have seen lot morale boosting blogs here which never had given any meaning by themself in their practical life.

Hope atleast you not...

Its my prayer

bom09821108110
898 posts 

7/13/2009 12:04 am

"Awesome" That is the base of any longlasting relationship. My parents just celebrated their 43rd anniversary.

surprises4u120

7/13/2009 12:08 am

ms hi,
grt ms,its just my philosphy of life too.
if u keep judging people,you have no time to love them.
i eat burnt toast everyday n let me tell it tastes just lovely
bye keep writing

BullNose
10 posts 

7/13/2009 3:10 am

Msmji, we are good at advice, may be when we in situation we differ!

melissa_p777
640 posts 

7/13/2009 7:17 am

Msm ... Very good advise... Billon thanks for sharing with us. May I share with my friends too ? let me know ok

God bless you

......Learn from yesterday, Live for today, Hope for tomorrow....

Amulya79
2 posts 

7/13/2009 10:06 am

SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE GOOD IN WRITING AND IN REAL THEY ARE TOTALLY OPPOSITE. MAY BE YOU MEAN YOUR OWN BLOOD RELATIONS ONLY AND FOR THE SAKE OF IT YOU HAVE MENTION ALL THE RELATIONSHIPS.

ANY WAYS NICE POST FOR READING PURPOSE

Bjcllu
2 posts 

7/14/2009 12:29 am

msm

gemini369
1002 posts 

7/14/2009 6:42 am

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to accept the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life. Build a relationship where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker!"

good post. i agree with you.

DILRAJ4
1 post 

7/14/2009 7:51 am

hello msm u are really decent and honest lady.i like your bolg too much because u disclose real fact.

sachin10179
9 posts 

7/24/2009 4:55 pm

If we accept people for what they are, the world becomes harmony filled - thank you, Ms Mystery.

Kav1ta
1591 posts 

8/1/2009 1:04 am

Hi

That's what I pray for every day.
That we accept each other
Come what may.

You are welcome to contribute to my top post, which emphasizes your thought


Why worry and have wrinkles ... When you can smile and have dimples

Brishti2009

8/8/2009 8:43 pm

Be the life smooth
Not in money or breath
But in the moments
From life we isolate....

Thank you so much for such a good post...Luv - Brishti

rahul3036
32 posts 

8/9/2009 6:35 am

yes you are right

_Sparshy_
247 posts 

8/12/2009 7:07 pm

waiting for the Next blog post msm ji... Happy Shri Krishna Janmaashtami! God Bless n Take Care

Sparsh

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