------LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT----????---- Jul 31, 2006 11:03 pm Mood: beautiful, 234 Views Believe in love at first sight? Ever felt a smile crossing across your face when a face breezes by you? And then everything changes. The world seems more beautiful, the weather always perfect and your dream girl or guy the most wonderful person on this planet. Well, my friend you are in love. It can happen to anybody at any place, on any day. At first you fall in love or get attracted to the physical being of a person. As it is said appearance does matter. After all that’s all one sees when it’s the case of love at first sight. Something catches your attention, like her smile, his physique or the enchanting eyes. The mood also plays an important role in sealing the perfect moment. If you are tired, sad, angry or irritated your dream man or girl may pass you by without you even glancing back. The nature conspires to bring lovers closer. Also you should be open in your mind to receive love. Hardly ever heard of happily married people falling in love with another and that also love at first sight, right? It’s a state of mind, knocking the doors of the heart. So how do you know that you have fallen in love? Of course things look rainbow colored from that moment but friends let’s just get sure. You know you have fallen in love with her/him when… --You see stars in the morning. No, you haven’t banged your head, it’s love. Your life stops and all you can think of is her/him. You don’t seem to get anything done and every moment your sweetheart’s face comes in front of you. --You start missing your love like you haven’t seen her in ages, when actually you just said goodbye. --Your sweetheart is flawless. You overlook all her faults and weaknesses. You believe true love can overcome all. This is love at first sight. --You can’t stop smiling when your beloved is around. You are all happy and joyful. But as soon as he/she leaves, your world collapses in front of you. You become sad and depressed. --You are not a very comprising person but your sweetheart changed you completely. Now you are more comprising and a wonderfully understanding person. So now you know that love at first sight is very much true. Believe in love and make your emotions fly on the wings of joy. On this Valentine, don’t be scared to fall in love. It’s a beautiful emotion that promises to make your world a merry go round. Just remember, love has it’s up and downs. 0 Comments

Memory PRObLEM!!!! Jul 31, 2006 10:40 pm Mood: cold, 328 Views HI Guys... I was just wondering that have u guys ever had a memory problem. Dont get mistaken by MEMORY LOSS. Thats not what i am talking abt. For EX-- U r trying to find a friend of urs in a jam packed PARTY... and after a long search u finally find him AND then something happens and u FORGET for what reason u were trying to find ur friend. And in EXAMS-- u remember a formula just before the exam and when the time comes to use it in EXAMS its GONE... totally BLANK. Now when THAT happens IT really SUCKS!!! If anyone out there had suffered such problems then i guess i am not ALONE... REGARDS bibek!! oh sorry just forgot my name VIVEK 2 Comments

WOMEN power Jul 28, 2006 10:51 pm 298 Views after reading INDU's blog and anamika's comment i came to this question-- Should WOMEN compromise with their partners having an affair?? YES. NO. They should dump such a GUY. Other views?? 0 Comments , 2 votes

A sTORY OF REGRET Jul 28, 2006 10:45 pm Mood: anxious, 355 Views There was this guy who believed very much in true love and decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came. Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year, the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest. So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling disappointed. Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and have never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never return anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life..... still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl. On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friend's party alone. "Hey, how come all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you every Christmas?", asked one of his friend. He felt warm and comforted by his friend's queries about her, still he just surged on. Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her ..... not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn't feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her. "Hi......how are you? Enjoying the party?" the girl asked. "Sure.....yeah!", he replied. She was slightly tipsy..... must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued, "Why...? Don't you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?" Then he answered, "No, there is no need for that anymore......" Before he can continue, he was interrupted, "Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven't been searching for one for the past years, right?" The man looked up, as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, "Yes......you are right! I haven't been looking for anyone for the past years." With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl, and she was.....the Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him. All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he wanted, and yes.....perfection!! Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore..... For once, he felt the fear of losing someone. As it was Christmas eve, the line was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through......precisely at 1200 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up. He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma. The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why did fate played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods...!! How he hated himself....for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 1996. The moral of this story is : Treasure what you have... Time is too slow for those who wait; Too swift for those who fear; Too long for those who grief; Too short for those who rejoice; But for those who love... Time is Eternity. For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realise that it is too late. 4 Comments

DO U KNOW Jul 27, 2006 10:51 pm 478 Views Which dress do women like to wear most?? (I am not talking abt occasional dresses), which casuals, day to day dresses do U women like. Saree Salwar-Kameez Jeans-Top Skirts & t - shirts others(plz specify) U would like to wear all 7 Comments , 13 votes

==LOVE SEASON== Jul 27, 2006 10:29 pm Mood: adventurous, 319 Views "You may conquer with the sword, But you are conquered by a kiss" ~Daniel Heinsius Love is not finding someone to live with, It's finding someone you can't live without. ~Rafael Ortiz A GIRLS LOVE I met Mike when I was only 14. He was just another guy that messaged me on ICQ saying hey. I can't really say it was love at first sight, or when we first started talking. What I can say is that day it was the start of something that I never knew could happen to me. We started talking and saying the friendly “love ya” at the end of our conversations. Then we began to talk about how we had feelings for each other. I remember him asking me if I believed in "Internet relationships." It took me a while to think about it, I never really did, but since I had met him I believed in not exactly just any Internet relationship, but one with me and him I totally believed in. We started dating about four months after we started talking. It felt so good to have found someone that understood me. One day instead of the everyday “love ya,” he spilled the best three words out of his mouth that I'm sure every person wants to hear from their partner… I love you. It felt so right. I said it back right away. I can't believe how happy he has made me feel. Everyday it seems like it's getting better. Many people doubt cyber love, I know I did. I don't think anyone can really say they don't believe in it until they live it. Mike and I may be far apart, but our hearts are together. We dream about meeting each other one day, we haven't set an exact day, month or year. Even though we can't be together right now, we can dream about when we can. I think love makes everyone look at everything differently, in a positive way, it brings out the best in us and it let's us live our dream. I could never say this before, but I think one word to describe love is powerful. I just have one more thing to say Internet love is possible, you just have let yourself dream. HOPE prince609 gets some lessons VIVEK 3 Comments

HEY prince609(U idot) Jul 27, 2006 10:08 pm Mood: crazy, 387 Views U MORON!!! What r u doing MAN. SEXY,SEX SEXY, SEX..... repeatedly written in ur blog. cant u think of any other traits which men like abt WOMEN. It seens either u see lots of B- films or ur brain contains only this kind of SHIT!!! WOMAN-- this is a very big word u cant define WOMEN in these words. Women have various stages of life--- they r SISTERS, LOVERS, WIFE, caring MOTHERS etc U might also like to add in ur blog that performance in BED does also matter. tell me one thing would u leave someone u love just because she doesnt perform well in bed or if u find afterwards that she doesnt fit to UR so called DEFINATION of SEXY women. If u cant use good words then dont use bad ones either. REMEMBER we live in INDIA. Give respect. everything else comes with respect. Who do u think U R a dating GURU or some thing LOL.. This much should be enough for u U moron!!! REGARDS VIVEK 3 Comments

-----I LOVE U------ Jul 26, 2006 9:58 pm Mood: cheerful, 330 Views From the very Begining, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background and that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that and the family's pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it in silence. After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated and decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?" The girl agreed, and with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in and agreed to let them get married. So before he leave, they got engaged. The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails and phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up. One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice...... The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,.....it's still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. and not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions and millions of reply, and countless of phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying.... The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything and be happy. With a new environment, the girl learn sign language and started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came and told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him. A year has passed and her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead. When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You". With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled. VIVEK --NOTE this is a true love story--- 3 Comments

--)) FRiENDSHIP ((-- Jul 26, 2006 9:47 pm Mood: calm, 283 Views A Friend in need is a friend indeed! Since our childhood, we have heard or read several stories about friendship. Friendship is considered one of the most beautiful relationships, as there is no place for sorry and thanks.A true friend is irreplaceable! Friendship makes you feel relaxed and comfortable, as you can share your feelings or problems with your friend. Building a great bond always demands patience and time. You need to be a good listener, loyal and sincere. "Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." -Muhammad Ali "The road to a friend's house is never long." -Danish proverb 3 Comments

A CATCH-FISH Jul 25, 2006 11:04 pm Mood: cheerful, 290 Views i heard this stori(y) in my childhood days. once there was a fish(small child) living with her parents(big gold coloured ones. she loved to travel and shopping(as most women do) and used to go far away from her parents to meet new people(fishes here). but her parents had warned her not to go too far as there were many predators looking for prey... she didnt seem to listen to her parents.(ya u guessed it write she is going to land into a trouble). so where was i....hmm. ya one fine day she was almost caught by a shark and the other day she she escaped from a group of drunk crabs(some alcoholic oceanic whiskey) .she got a scholding of her life from her parents and pledged that she will not go alone anywhere... CONCLUDED MORAL of the stori--- 1--always obey ur elders. 2--childerens shouldnt go out alone. 3--dont try to find too much MORALS from such stories.. NOTE*** if any 1 can find more plz let me know yours vivek 1 comment

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