LONELINESS...THIRST FOR LOVE AND CARE...THESE CAN MAKE ONE TOTALLY DEPRESSED... UNPREDICTABLE EVENTS MAKE OUR LIVES HORRIBLE...BUT WE SHOULD FACE IT... HOW WITH THE HELP OF GOOD FRIENDS, DIVINE THOUGHTS, SELF CONFIDENCE...??? EASY TO ADVISE...I AM HERE TO EXPRESS SOME OF MY THOUGHTS AND DREAMS...EXPERIENCES...!!!
CAN U COME WITH ME INTO MY WORLD??? I WILL BE HONOURED..!!!
Being Psychic isn't always "knowing" as it is "feeling". Psychics have the ability to "feel" thoughts, ideas, and emotions as well as "know" them. The hard part is putting these feelings into words and trying to connect what we feel to the physical world. Some psychics are much better at putting what they feel to words than others. Here are definitions of many different types of psychic abilities.
Empathy - The ability to feel other people's emotions.
Telepathy - The ability to read other people's thoughts and send them yours.
Clairvoyance - The ability to "see" beyond the regular senses; the "sixth sense".
Clairaudience - The ability to "hear" the thoughts of others as well as spirits.
Clairsentience - The ability to know about something happening in the past, present, or future through "feeling".
Channelling - The ability to receive information THROUGH a person from an outside source. A person who channels is often called a "Medium".
Pre-cognition - The ability to see ahead into future events.
Remote Viewing - The ability to see and describe people and places without being physically around them.
Psychokinesis - The ability to move something in the physical world with the power of the mind.
Automatic Writing - The ability to write through the subconscious mind, which can be sometimes guided through an outside source. This is my prefer method of Divination, which of course is using psychic abilities to try and prophesize the future. It is also my preferred method of channelling. I enjoy writing out all the information I receive through channelling non physical entities.
If you're in doubt, seek counsel from someone reliably known to be psychic
A few weeks ago a man was killed in an local train accident. He was very well liked, so the office shut down for his funeral and it was in the news and so on... On the day the workers came back to work, they found this poem in their e-mail that the deceased man had sent on Friday before he left for home.
"If tomorrow starts without me, And I'm not there to see, The sun rise or to find your eyes All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry The way you did today, While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came, called my name, And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready, In heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind Sll those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye, For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do, It seemed almost impossible, That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays, The good ones and the bad, I thought of all that we shared, And all the fun we had.
If I could relieve yesterday, Just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you And may be see you smile.
But then I fully realized, That this could never be, For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss some tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked thru heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, From His great golden throne,
He said, 'This is eternity, And all I've promised you.' Today your life on earth is past, But here life starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last, And since each day is the same way, There's no longing for the past.
So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart."
when i first read this, i noticed that the eyes of all around me were moist... i was fighting back my tears...
With due apologies.... this title refers to a mythical bird that searches for thorn trees from the day it is hatched. When it finds the perfect thorn, it impales itself and, singing the most beautiful song ever heard as it dies.
why must we hate one another? i just dnt understand!!!!!
tell me what i did? why you hate me? let me knw my faults and then stay away from me....!!!!
why do you hate me so? i dnt knw....!!!! im just here for friends for some happiness... dnt harm any one but why do you hate me so?
my friends are around me but i miss you my haters... why you went away from me? tell me the reason and then stay away from me...!!!
wanna say sorry for some thing i never did.. cos i loved everyone always....!! all i can say now is love me or you just sit around me and hate me...!!!
A woman rushed to see her doctor, looking very much worried and all strung out. She rattles off: "Doctor, take a look at me. When I woke up this morning, I looked at myself in the mirror and saw my hair all wiry and frazzled up, my skin was all wrinkled and pasty, my eyes were bloodshot and bulging out, and I had this corpse-like look on my face! What's WRONG with me, Doctor!?"
Seeing no reaction,she added in desperation: "I stepped on my glasses this morning and I am afraid that with the lens shattered I will be stone-blind."
The doctor looks her over for a couple of minutes, then calmly says: "Well, I can asure you NOW that there was nothing wrong with your eyesight all these days."
IF YOUR GLASSES ARE SHATTERED, PLEASE DO NOT LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR
A one-dollar bill met a 20 dollar bill and said, "Hey, where've you been? I haven't seen you around here much."
The twenty dollar bill answered, "I've been hanging out at the casinos, went on a cruise and did the rounds of the ship, back to the United States for awhile, went to a couple of baseball games, to the mall, that kind of stuff. How about you?"
The one dollar bill said, "You know, same old stuff, church, church, church."
THERE IS NO INFLATION OR MARKET COLLAPSE IN HEAVEN
Men are more likely to act out their inner turmoil while women are more likely to turn their feelings inward.
The following chart from Jed Diamond's book, Male Menopause, illustrates these differences.
Female depression Male depression
Blame themselves Feel others are to blame
Feel sad, apathetic, and worthless Feel angry, irritable, and ego inflated
Feel anxious and scared Feel suspicious and guarded
Avoids conflicts at all costs Creates conflicts
Always tries to be nice Overtly or covertly hostile
Withdraws when feeling hurt Attacks when feeling hurt
Has trouble with self respect ]Demands respect from other
Feels they were born to fail Feels the world set them up to fail
Slowed down and nervous Restless and agitated
Chronic procrastinator Compulsive time keeper
Sleeps too much Sleeps too little
Trouble setting boundaries Needs control at all costs
Feels guilty for what they do Feels ashamed for who they are
Uncomfortable receiving praise Frustrated if not praised enough
Finds it easy to talk about weaknesses and doubts Terrified to talk about weaknesses and doubts
Strong fear of success Strong fear of failure
Needs to "blend in" to feel safe Needs to be "top dog" to feel safe
Uses food, friends, and "love" to self-medicate Uses alcohol, TV, sports, and sex to self medicate
Believe their problems could be solved only if they could be a better (spouse, co-worker, parent, friend) Believe their problems could be solved only if their (spouse, co-worker, parent, friend) would treat them better
Constantly wonder, "Am I loveable enough?" Constantly wonder, "Am I being loved enough?"
The most common problem associated with male menopause is depression which is closely related to impotence and problems with male sexuality. Approximately 40% of men in their 40s, 50s and 60s will experience some degree of difficulty in attaining and sustaining erections, lethargy, depression, increased irritability, and mood swings that characterize male menopause.
The symptoms of male depression are different than the classic symptoms we think of as depression
- Men deny they have problems because they are supposed to "be strong"
- Men deny they have a problem with their sexuality and don't understand the relationship with depression
- The symptom cluster of male depression is not well known so family members, physicians, and mental health professionals fail to recognize it.
Male depression is a disease with devastating consequences.
To paraphrase from Jed Diamond's book Male Menopause
- About 80% of all suicides in the US are men - The male suicide rate at midlife is three times higher; for men over 65, seven times higher - The history of depression makes the risk of suicide seventy-eight times greater (Sweden) - About 20 million American will experience depression sometimes in their lifetime - About 60-80% of depressed adults never get professional help - It can take up to ten years and three health professionals to properly diagnose this disorder - About 80-90% of people seeking help get relief from their symptoms
What to Do About It?
It is important to recognize the syndrome because most men will not see it in themselves since their most basic psychological defense is denial.
It is important to realize that most men seek help only when pressured to do so by significant people in their life.
It is important to realize than men can be helped through a variety of approaches including exercise - diet - getting in touch with their spirituality - individual and group psychotherapy - medications - teaching men to recreate the social supports they have lost or never had - teaching men to love and accept themselves for whom they are
Medications
There are a number of excellent antidepressant medications now available. No one medication is perfect and it is very important to choose and monitor therapy carefully.
