We are living in a regressive society where the easiest game we play is the Blame Game. We are always readt to blame others for our misfortunes.We have to stop cribbing and become go-getters.rather than blame the ciscumstances or turn of events for any misfortune that befalls us. We should look for the positive aspects of life and make our own future.Just imagine if suddenly the lights go out,if each one of us present lights a candle rather than curse the darkness,the darkness will be dispelled forever and there will be brightness all around us. We are what we make of ourselves.There is no point dwelling in the past and ruining our future.Our destiny is in our hands.We have to say to ourselves that we will change the circumstances we are in and not get swallowed by the circumstances. We get opportunitis in our life to achieve greatness,it is up to us to grab the opportunity with both hands and not let it pass us by and curse our bad luck.We have to make our own destiny and not let destiny outdo us God helps those who help themselves
Apr 17, 2007 5:41 am Mood: contemplative, 550 Views
If some women are ready to fall for the hairy security officer in the office, it’s probably because they are at their fertile most. A woman prefers a more masculine man when she is fertile and looking for a fling rather than a mate for life, according to a new study. The finding suggests the value that women place on masculinity changes with context and with women’s reproductive cycles and immediate goals. A woman’s preference for manly men also was found to vary based on how attractive she rated herself. And some of a woman’s \bsexo?\b drive might involve tricks in the brain over which she has no control. Previous research has shown that women view facial masculinity — square jaws and well-defined brow ridges — as good characteristics for short-term partners, while more feminine traits are perceived as better for long-term mates. Another study found that women smell better to men at certain points in their menstrual cycles. In the new study, reported by Live-Science, researchers asked women who were at different points in their menstrual cycles (and who were not on the pill) to rate their own attractiveness. Then researchers presented them with image pairs representing “feminised” and “masculinised” versions of the same male body. The women were asked to choose the body they thought was most attractive for a short-term relationship and then again for a longterm relationship. Some of the women performed the experiment again at the opposite point in their cycle. Fertile women chose the masculine version of each image 15% more often, on average, than women who were not fertile,
A passionate kiss is sure to make the heart melt. But it is no comparison to the sensation of chocolate melting on the tongue, a study has discovered. Young volunteers’ hearts and heads were hooked up to electrodes and asked to taste pieces of dark chocolate before kissing their partners. The deflating discovery was that chocolate provides a buzz lasting up to four times as long as embracing the special person in our lives. The findings would be supported by former ‘Baywatch’ babe Pamela Anderson, who recently said chocolate was better than \bsexo?\b. But neurophysiologist David Lewis, who led the study, said he had been taken aback. “These results really surprised and intrigued us,” he said. “While we fully expected chocolate — especially dark chocolate — to increase heart rates due to the fact it contains some highly stimulating substances, both the length of the increase together with the powerful effects it had on the mind were something none of us had anticipated.” The volunteers, all in their 20s, took part in the experiment in an area designed to look like a place of work to create the impression of an office romance. Each had electrodes attached to their scalps and wore heart monitors as they popped a piece of dark chocolate and, without chewing, indicated when it started to melt. The young lovers then had to kiss each other in the same way they would normally — while researchers in white coats and carrying clipboards “studied their monitors”. As part of the controlled experiment, measurements of heart and brain activity were also taken when there was no external stimulation of the senses. The study revealed that, at the point chocolate melts in the mouth, all regions of the brain receive a boost far more intense and longer lasting than the excitement produced by kissing. The chunks of chocolate also made the heart beat faster. For some of the 12 volunteers, the number of beats per minute more than doubled from a resting rate of 60 to as much as 140. Kissing also set hearts racing but the effect was shorter-lasting. Although women are considered to be bigger chocoholics than men — and bigger romantics — both sexes showed the same responses in the tests. Only one volunteer bucked the trend — a 21-year-old man who had recently met his 24-year-old girlfriend. Former Sussex University academic Lewis said: “The results were given to the volunteers. I don’t know if this couple are still together.” He added: “There is no doubt that chocolate beats kissing hands down when it comes to providing a long-lasting body and brain buzz — a buzz that, in many cases, lasted four times as long as the most passionate kiss.” But Deanne Jade, an expert in the psychology of how people relate to food, warned kissing someone in a ‘non-erotic or non-personal environment’ wouldn’t have the same effect as embracing in a private moment.
A woman goes to Italy to attend a 2-week, company training session.
Her husband drives her to the airport and wishes her to have a good trip. The wife answers: "Thank you honey, what would you like me to bring for you?" The husband laughs and says: "An Italian girl!!!" The woman kept quiet and left. Two weeks later he picks her up in the airport and asks: "So, honey, how was the trip?" "Very good, thank you." "And, what happened to my present?" "Which present?" She asked. "The one I asked for - an Italian girl!!" "Oh, that" she said "Well, I did what I could; now we have to wait for few months to see if it is a girl!!!"
Moral of the story: Don't tempt a woman, they are dangerously intelligent!
Main Ek Raja Hoon, Tu Ek Rani Hai (I am a king you are a queen) Prem Nagar Ki Yeh Ek Sunder Prem Kahani Hai (this is a sweet love story from the land of love)
Kya Hoti Hai Prem Kahani (what is a love story?) Yeh Bhi Tu Naadan Na Jaani (innocent you dont know) Kitni Pyari Pyari Teri Yeh Naadani Hai (How beautiful is your innocence) Main Ek Raja Hoon, Tu Ek Rani Hai (I am a king you are a queen)
Man Mera Ek Mahal Ho Jaise (my heart is like a palace) Tu Isme Rahti Hai Aise (you reside in it) Jaise Seep Mein Moti Hai - Sagar Mein Pani Hai just like a pearl in a shell n water in an ocean Main Ek Raja Hoon, Tu Ek Rani Hai (I am a king you are a queen)
I recieved this in my mail,wanna share it with you guys:
A first-grade teacher, Ms NeelamBhen (Age 2 was having trouble with one of her students the teacher asked,"Boy. what is your problem?"
Boy answered, "I'm too smart for the first-grade. My sister is in the third-grade and I'm smarter than she is! I think I should be in the third-grade too!"
Ms Neelam had enough. She took Boy to the principal's office. While the boy waited in the outer office, the teacher explained to the principal what the situation was. The principal told Ms Neelam he would give the boy a test and if he failed to answer any of his questions he was to go back to the first-grade and behave. She agreed.
Boy was brought in and the conditions were explained to him and he agreed to take the test.
Principal: "What is 3 x 3?" Boy.: "9".
Principal: "What is 6 x 6?" Boy.: "36".
And so it went with every question the principal thought a third-grade should know. The principal looks at Ms Neelam and tells her, "I think Boy can go to the third-grade."
Ms Neelam says to the principal, "I have some of my own questions. Can I ask him ?" The principal and Boy both agreed.
Ms Neelam asks, "What does a cow have four of that I have only two of? Boy., after a moment "Legs."
Ms Nee lam: "What is in your pants that you have but I do not have?" Boy.: "Pockets."
Ms Neelam: What starts with a C and ends with a T, is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin whitish liquid? Boy: Coconut
Ms Neelam: What goes in hard and pink then comes out soft And sticky? The principal's eyes open really wide and before he could stop the answer, Boy was taking charge. Boy.: Bubblegum
Ms Neelam: What does a man do standing up, a woman does sitting down and a dog does on three legs? The principal's eyes open really wide and before he could stop the answer... Boy.: Shake hands
Ms Neelam: Now I will ask some "Who am I" sort of questions, okay? Boy.: Yep.
Ms Neelam: You stick your poles inside me. You tie me down to get me up. I get wet before you do. Boy.: Tent
Ms Neelam: A finger goes in me. You fiddle with me when you're bored. The best man always has me first. The Principal was looking restless, a bit tense and took one large Patiala Vodka peg. Boy.: Wedding Ring
Ms Neelam: I come in many sizes. When I'm not well, I drip. When you blow me, you feel good. Boy.: Nose
Ms Neelam: I have a stiff shaft. My tip penetrates. I come with a quiver. Boy.: Arrow
Ms Neelam: What word starts with a 'F' and ends in 'K' that means lot of heat and excitement? Boy.: Firetruck
Ms Neelam: What word starts with a 'F' and ends in 'K' & if u don't get it u have to use ur hand. Boy.: Fork
Ms Neelam: What is it that all men have one of it's longer on some men than on others, the pope doesn't use his and a man gives it to his wife after they're married? Boy.: SURNAME
Ms Neelam: What part of the man has no bone but has muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping, & is responsible for making love ? Boy.: HEART.
The principal breathed a sigh of relief and said to the teacher, "Send this Boy to IIM Ahmedabad, I got the last ten questions wrong myself!
Love me tender, love me sweet, never let me go. You have made my life complete and I love you so. Love me tender, love me true, all my dreams fulfill. For, my darlin', I love you and I always will.
Love me tender, love me long, take me to your heart. For it's there that I belong and we'll never part. Love me tender, love me true, all my dreams fulfill. For, my darlin', I love you and I always will.
Love me tender, love me dear, tell me you are mine. I'll be yours through all the years till the end of time. Love me tender, love me true, all my dreams fulfill. For, my darlin', I love you and I always will.
humein tum se pyaar kitanaa, ye hum naheen jaanate I do not know how much I love you…
magar jee naheen sakate, tumhaare beenaa but I cannot live without you.
sunaa gam judaee kaa, uthhaate hain log I have heard that the sorrow of separation is borne by people jaane jindagee kaise, bitaate hain log I wonder how these people go through their life din bhee yahaa to lage, baras ke samaan Every day seems like a year humei intajaar kitanaa, ye hum naheen jaanate I do not know how much I wait for you magar jee naheen sakate, tumhaare beenaa but I cannot live without you tumhe koee aaur dekhe, to jalataa hain dil If someone else looks at you, then my heart burns badee mushkilon se fir, sanbhalataa hain dil With great difficulty, the heart recovers itself kyaa, kyaa jatan karate hai, tumhe kyaa pataa What do you know how much effort I have put? ye dil bekaraar kitanaa, ye hum naheen jaanate I do not know how restless/uneasy this heart is
magar jee naheen sakate, tumhaare beenaa but I cannot live without you humein tum se pyaar kitanaa, ye hum naheen jaanate I do not know how much I love you…
from the movie KUDRAT
just for u jaanu doll aka rainstorm I love u more and more!
Spitfire who used to come to the lobby is no more.She passed away on Sunday the 6th of November.She was the darling of many IFFians.Known to her near and dear ones as Tootie.It was my priveledge to get to know her closely just before she took ill.
Last year her son found her collapsed on the floor rushed her to hospital.All had given up hope,but fighter that she was,she came back from the jaws of death,after that she never regained normalcy but slowly but steadily began sinking.
Let us all join hands in praying for the departed soul and join Tammy and the rest of their family in their grief
This is her personal website.Please visit it to find out what the great lady was all about.
The 9th of September this year is the most regretable day of my life.The twin towers being brought down on the same day 6 years ago was nothing compared to the damage I caused FOR I BROKE Someone's HEART.IT WAS A HEART FULL OF LOVE.Always giving .Filled my life with the kind of love I never imagined possible.
What I did is totally unforgivable.I destroyed each and every dream she had built around me.Ideals I lived by were all forgotten.I broke every promise, broke her trust.Now all I can do is lament n repent for the rest of my life.I just wish the ground under me opens up and swallows me.I can't live on with the fact that I hurt the person who loves me most.I am totally consumed by my guilt.No amount of tears I shed or apologies i render can make up for the tears she shed at my betrayal.
Though Indu has said goodbye to IFF and stopped blogging here and was on the verge of deleting all her blogs,I requested her not to delete her Page 3 interviews and showcase blogs .She has agreed to my request and retained four pages of her blog