I wanted to share with u all, a mail which i got from a dear friend of mine hope u will like it as much as i do
Life is too short Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness Laugh when u can Apologize when you should And let go of what you can’t change Love deeply and forgive quickly Take chances, give everything And have no regrets Life is too short to be unhappy You have to take the good with the bad Smile when you are sad Love what you got And always remember what you had Always forgive but never forget Learn from your mistakes But never regret People change and things go wrong But always remember Life goes on !!!!
Yeah that’s my blog name and I had a good laugh over it today coz these days Love is Laugh and Laugh is Love, well I don’t want to offend anyone but at times we all can feel this and I think it’s the truth......... which we try to hide............
To be precise we Love to Laugh but at the end of the day we have to Laugh at Love........... “Y”
I know it happens wid all of us at times, so lets try to define LOVE, what does this word mean according to you.............
According to me this word is good to hear but it has lost its meaning...... All I have to say by my experience is that don’t look for LOVE, instead look for friendship, u will gain a lot in friendship than u can in LOVE............
“Kal tak jo apne the wo ab paraye hain Zindagi tere rishte hum nahi samaj paye hain”
“Till yesterday I was calling u mine but u belonged to someone else Oh Life I am unable to understand this relationship”
Heard lots of IFF meets happening here and there so y not we have a meet here at TORONTO
Well this is an invitation to all of ya who can attend it , the tentative date is 09th December 2006 and thinking of doin a dinner and dance party (but all suggestions are welcome), if ur interested mail me at IFF or leave a comment here for further correspondence
We all go through diffrent feelings in life and yes i know how it goes, no matter what path we choose or we r made to choose, but always remember that the day starts wid sunshine.....
Unknown Author : As you travel through life there are always those times When decisions just have to be made, When the choices are hard, and solutions seem scarce, And the rain seems to soak your parade.
There are some situations where all you can do Is simply let go and move on, Gather your courage and choose a direction That carries you toward a new dawn. So pack up your troubles and take a step forward -
The process of change can be tough, But think about all the excitement ahead There might be adventures you never imagined Just waiting around the next bend,
And wishes and dreams just about to come true In ways you can't yet comprehend! Perhaps you'll find friendships that spring from new things As you challenge your status quo,
And learn there are so many options in life, Perhaps you'll go places you never expected And see things that you've never seen, Or travel to fabulous, faraway worlds
And wonderful spots in between! Perhaps you'll find warmth and affection and caring, And somebody special who's there To help you stay centered and listen with interest
To stories and feelings you share. Perhaps you'll find comfort in knowing your friends Are supportive of all that you do, And believe that whatever decisions you make,
They'll be the right choices for you. So keep putting one foot in front of the other, And taking your life day by day. There's a brighter tomorrow that's just down the road -
For me life is to live for today coz I think tomorrow never comes, as soon as we enter tomorrow, its today and yes of course no one has seen tomorrow, so be happy in what ya Have
Well to be frank there was a time I used to live for tomorrow, for future, an unseen world, basically a world of dreams and I make sure to achieve that dream but not anymore, now I live for today only coz “KAL KISNE DEEKHA KAL AYE NA AYE” “NO ONE HAS SEEN TOMORROW, MAYBE TOMORROW NEVER COMES”
So make sure : if u love someone tell them coz today they might love u tooo but tomorrow can be tooo late
If u think that the other person is not talking to u make sure u talk to them as today they might wanna talk to u tooo but tomorrow can be tooo late
If u think that u have a misunderstanding between friends try to clear it today coz tomorrow can be too late
If u need an advice ask for it, coz today maybe there is someone who might want to help u but tomorrow can be tooo late
Short and Sweet live, talk and share as that the best thing u can do
There r few things I want to add today coz that’s my experience and I am very proud to say that due to some misunderstanding I lost few good friends in the past, but today I am soo proud to say that they are my best and sweet friends over the net which if I or them never tried to talk to each other this was not gonna be the case and we would have been apart forever (tomorrow) but instead we talked (today) and now we share such a good friendship that we can talk about any aspect of life without any hesitation....... THANK U (I know u hate this word but) SO MUCH FOR BEEN THERE AT THIS VERY MOMENT OF MY LIFE WHERE I NEEDED A GOOD FRIEND, nothing less, nothing more........ U KNOW WHO U R.......
Always easy to make and hard to break.... but then for some reasons we have to break a relationship if it is not working out it hurts a lot ..... Coz when we start a relationship we hardly know the person I am saying this bcoz I believe that we fully know a person when we actually start living with the person other than that yes we do know the person but basically more on positive side of him/her..... and then slowly we build a relationship and with each day it grows more and more and then one fine day god forbid if everythin is shattered then isn’t it hard to walk out of it but then we all have our own situations which we have to face no matter what .........
I don’t think there is any difference in this life and the real life....
- We have same hatred here and in the real life, - We have same misunderstanding among the friends over here and the real life, - We have same fights over here and in the real life, - We have same backbiting over here and in the real life, - We have same insecurity over here and in the real life, - We have same kids plays over here and in the real life, - We have same heart breaks over here and the real life.......
So what is the difference between real life and net life according to you?
Sorry but no offence meant to anybody I am just talking in general. What makes this net life (I call it virtual life too) so difficult.
“Y” is it hard for us to be happy in the virtual life too............
The first basic thing within ourselves!!!! And we still try to find out “Y” ..... Insecurity according to me is within ourselves only coz that’s a battle within ourselves wen we try to fight with our own emotions no matter how badly we r hurt in our past relationships. Insecurity starts wen we know that we in love with or maybe to be more precise like someone and we r at the verge of trusting that person for small things and with our own assumptions we try to run from that particular person or start trusting that person but then our negative heart which assumes that its not right and to top it all if we hear from a friend or even a stranger a small thing abt that loveable person we run into conclusions widout even finding what the truth is..... so I would suggest not suggest but let everyone know that if ur into similar kind of situation please talk to the person who u love and also to the person who u think that is at fault if ya know them, even if ya don’t know them talking makes it much better for ya to reach to a very heart broken situation where u did not even fight for your love or for ur liking or maybe for that matter even for ur best buddy...... I would say that it’s a very small life so try to be happy...... and yes its my personal experience and i would be last person on this world to break anyones heart coz i know that how it feels wen u break a heart i have been through it..........
A married couple is driving along the highway doing a steady fourty miles per hour. The wife is behind the wheel. Her husband abruptly looks across at her, speaking in a clear voice, and says "Darling, I know we've been married for twenty years, but I want a divorce."
The wife says nothing, keeping her eyes on the road ahead but slowly increases her speed to 45 mph.
The husband speaks again, saying this time: "I don't want you to try and talk me out of it, because I've been having an affair with your best friend, and she's a far better lover than you."
Again the wife stays quiet, but grips the steering wheel more tightly and slowly increases the speed to 55.
He pushes his luck. "I want the house," he demands. Up to 60 mph. "I want the car, too," he continues. 65 mph! "And," he says, "I'll have the bank accounts, all the credit cards, the boat, and our dog!"
The car slowly begins veering towards a massive concrete bridge. This makes him a wee bit nervous, so he asks her: "Isn't there anything you want?"
At last the wife replies - in a quiet and controlled voice. "No, I've got everything I need." she says
"Oh, really?" he inquires, "So what exactly have you got?
Just before they slam into the wall at 75 mph, the wife turns to him and says............... "The airbag"
Never underestimate the rationalization of a woman
coz these days Love is Laugh and Laugh is Love, well I don’t want to offend anyone but at times we all can feel this and I think it’s the truth......... which we try to hide............
