Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one person, no different from any other person, wanders into your life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate LOVE. Neil Gaiman
Lets discuss this, what is blogging according to you all. I will put my views, and remember we don’t have to agree, to one another, we all have different views to it.
According to me blogging is - Sharing ur thoughts, emotions and everyday life but, am very afraid to put it here coz I think its not safe over here. So I limit myself to sharing what I read be it jokes, stories, humor, songs etc…. and ofcourse one lesson learned to mention the source.
Jab zeero diya mere bharat ne, duniyan ko tab ginatee aayee taaron kee bhaashaa bharat ne, duniyan ko pahale sikhalaayee detaa naa dashamaul bharat to, yoon chaand pe jaanaa mushkil thaa dharti aur chaand ki doori kaa andaza lagana mushkil tha sabhyataa jahaan pahaale aayee, pahale janamee hain jahaape kalaa apna bharat wo bharat hai, jis ke pichhe sansaar chalaa sansaar chalaa aaur aage badhaa, yoon aage badhaa, badhataa hee gayaa bhagawaan kare ye aaur badhe, badhataa he rahe aaur foole fale
hai preet jahaan kee reet sadaa, main geet wahaan ke gaataa hoon bharat kaa rahane waalaa hoon, bharat kee baat sunaataa hoon
kaale gore kaa bhed nahee, har dil se humaaraa naataa hai kuch aur naa aataa ho hum ko, humei pyaar nibhaanaa aataa hai jise maan chookee saaree duniyaa, main baat wahee doharataa hoo bharat kaa rahane waalaa hoo, bharat kee baat sunaataa hoo
jeete ho kisee ne desh to kyaa, hum ne to dilon ko jeetaa hai jahaan ram abhi tak hain nar me, naaree mein abhee tak sita hai kitane paawan hain log jahaan, main neet neet sheesh zookaataa hoon bharat kaa rahane waalaa hoon, bharat kee baat sunaataa hoon
itni mamta nadiyon ko bhee, jahaan mata keh ke bulaate hain itanaa aadar insaan to kyaa, patthar bhi pooje jaate hain us dharati pe maine janam liyaa, ye soch ke main itaraataa hoon bharat kaa rahane waalaa hoo, bharat ki baat sunaataa hoon
Hindi Song Title: Jab Zeero Diya Mere Bharat Ne Hindi Movie/Album Name: PURAB AUR PACHHIM Singer(s): MAHENDRA KAPOOR
One of them was known as Sister Mathematical (SM) , and the other one was known as Sister Logical ( SL ) It is getting dark and they are still far away from the convent.
SM: Have you noticed that a man has been following us for the past thirty-eight and a half minutes? I wonder what he wants
SL: It's logical. He wants to rape us
SM: Oh, no! At this rate he will reach us in 15 minutes at the most? What can we do?
SL: The only logical thing to do of course is to walk faster
SM: It's not working
SL: Of course it's not working. The man did the only logical thing. He started to walk faster, too
SM: So, what shall we do? At this rate he will reach us in one minute
SL: The only logical thing we can do is split. You go that way and I'll go this way. He cannot follow us both
So the man decided to follow Sister Logical.
Sister Mathematical arrives at the convent and is worried about what has happened to Sister Logical.
Then Sister Logical arrives.
SM: Sister Logical! Thank God you are here! Tell me what happened!
SL: The only logical thing happened. The man couldn't follow us both, so he followed me
SM: Yes, yes! But what happened then?
SL: The only logical thing happened. I started to run as fast as I could and he started to run as fast as he could
SM: And?
SL: The only logical thing happened. He reached me
SM: Oh, dear! What did you do?
SL: The only logical thing to do. I lifted my dress up
SM: Oh, Sister! What did the man do?
SL: The only logical thing to do. He pulled down his pants
SM: Oh, no! What happened then?
SL: Isn't it logical, Sister?
A nun with her dress up can run faster than man with his pants down
And for those of you who thought it would be dirty, say two Hail Marys!!!! Coz I did warned ya
I think life is all about taking risks but then we get afraid of our own assumptions and sometimes or I would say most of the times are not ready to take the risk be it any kind of risk LOVE, MONEY, CAREER, RELATIONSHIP etc.. Whenever we have to take a step in our life for our present I would say present coz PAST is already gone and we can not change anything in our past, whatever has happened we can only learn from it, I won’t count future either coz no one has seen future and tomorrow is always today.
So what stops us from taking risk in life is it our past experiences, or are we afraid of taking risks that are coming our way and we have a fear within ourself that is not allowing us to take the risk.
But then if we will not take the risk, how we know what good is in store for us.
I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."
This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.
This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .
For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.
Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand.
It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."
Somewhere..... 
