recently i got a mail from a elderly retired from bank as manager.has two sons ,both doing well.he mistook me as female and wrote;- today i am extremely happy that i am getting a response from a locely women like you after six months on net.i look for friendship as i am being ignored in family.my both sons whom i spent enough are busy with their work and back home they are busy with their children and no one cares even my wife spends her time with grand children and her pooja and i feel lonely bored and may fall sick.you are the first women who has responded to my profile and provided me his id and mobile no as well reqesting to respond quickly, i wrote a big reply consoling and advising and diverting to other good things.at the end i sympthesied and revealed that sorry i am a male.and further i am also sailing in same boat like you.i gave my id and tl.no that we can help each other.i have yet to get response.if some one interested i can pprovide his id and m.no to help him.but she must be she.
There was one news item from Ahmedabad that one women posted a letter to a psychritist site seeking advice;- Her probem was that she was doing on line share trading from home.As long as she earned , her husband was very happy .he use to ask every evening how much she earned and use to pat her.but with market going down she lost around 12 lakhs and when she approached her husband she says i can,t pay and i can divorce you so that this liability will go away with her. How selfish a men is.friends this is true state of affair.where we are heading.who is responsible for this.any advice from our side to this women.
governments have prohibited child labour.many regulations are drafted.enforcement agencies established periodic raids done.but what is result.no change.because root causes and remedies are not addressed.inadequate education coupled with poverty is main cause.and even out of that poverty and unemploymnt are eradicted nothing will move.any poor family needs food and shelter and all avaialble resources are put to get some extra earning.And human resource is one to earn some money.that is every member of family including child.free meals in schools and opening of school will not help.free lunch a child can have but who will graze the cattles of family.who will care babies when mother goes to fields.till the solutions of these basic needs provided we will continue to see child washing plates in hotels,working in workshops and doing meagre small jobs in house hold.
thehere is another strike.how much loss of property and life.how much additional strain on law enforcing agency.there is shortage of oil.and money to be sprnt for moving forces,we are short of resources.buses burnt,autorickshws and car,scooters , motor cycles burnt.poor daily eage earner suffering.no work in offices.teargas shell fired.people getting injured and death of person.does it not cost money and suffering to humanity.can we afford.if not than why we go for it.is it only way left to demonstrate our anger.this surely causes serious thinkers pain.majority looking helpness.i pray our so called leaders,responsible for taking country to progress and porosperity will think and act
there is lot of talk these days about equality and reservation for women.it all sounds nice and fair.but there is another side of this that is not being looked in to.some time women may say men to give birth of child.is it possible.what arrangement for upbringing of child.some should suggest.whi is to breast feed the child.during the preganancy wha will happen to duties they perform.they are permittd long leave it means.its unfair to men.women be respected and given lot of respect but no descrimination to be done against men
it was shocking to see a news item that 17 girls of a hoghschool studying in X std decided to get preganant together.and thy have done that as per teacher.this is making me to think where are we heading, 1.is it right age 2.is it fun to produce 3.where are the parents.they have no time for kids 4is it legal.certainly not,than why/ 5.sx education be imparted in school 6is it good that this news is flashed on ondian tv channels. 7what will happen to further education of these mothers. who will look after the news babies and who is father of these there is no role of father in upbringing the child it means. these are many questions like this which needs answer.where are we leading to.what quality of next geberation we are going to have.
a men asked a little boy whether he will like to have free haircut.boy said i do not mind uncle.boy went along the men to barber saloon.first men sat on chair and his haircut.lateron boy sat for haircut. after 5 minutes man went off from shop without paying.barber thought he will come back and take the child also and pay the money as well. but men never returned,barber asked the boy where has your uncle gone.boy replied that he is not my uncle .he just oicked me and asked whether i will like to have free haircut. barber could not do any thingand thought what a novel way of cheating
1. you can be your master.no need to be slave to someone 2.you can save your hard earned money.no purchasing costly jewellery. 3.have a sound sleep on bed and can roll easily all over. 4 you can invite anyone easily and have good time.and variety also. 5.you need not to smell unwanted fragrance of your partner. 5 no need to go maternity home where everything stinks. 6.eat food of your choice in a good eating place or at friends house. 7.you can use your cell phone easily without fear. 8.you can purchase and wear dresses as per your choice 9.no need to save money for future. 10 drink freely any amount any time 11.smoke freely your choicest brand 12.flirt freely 13.no inlaws interfering your life and giving free advices. 14.have party at home with friends any time any day. 15 no need to buy condoms and think of disposal. 16.your car life is also increasing as no need of ferrying extra load always 17 No daily bossing over from any one 18.keep a pet of your liking 19.keep a doll to sleep .you can hugg and kiss any amount any time. 20.no questioning why you are late in night. 21.you can sing,dance and keep room as your choice.can keep nice pgotos and watch movies of your choice
