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Eye Contact & Body Language Attract Women
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Aug 11, 2009 11:02 pm
Mood: happy,
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My
biggest weakness is that I look away quickly after
eye contact is made. I decided that before I
started trying to approach women I would make it
my goal for a couple of weeks to just make eye
contact and hold it until they looked away. Ok,
here is the good part. After practicing eye
contact for a couple of weeks and doing the whole
mental exercise thing, I was at work one day
working out after my break and was practicing my
eye contact thing between sets with this really
hot girl near the dumbbell rack.
I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause
I had no intentions of acting. Well, I had to go
over to get a set of dumbbells for my next
exercise and as I got close to where she was she
suddenly turned around and said "I have a
boyfriend" and turned around. Normally I would
have kinda stood there in shock and said nothing
but, I guess all that mental practice paid off.
With out even thinking or pausing the words just
came out. I said "Hey that's great I am happy for
you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is
probably a major accomplishment for you but to the
rest a the world this is kinda normal so you might
not want to go telling every stranger you see."
Then I just walked off with my weights to do my
sets. 5 min later she comes over to me and
apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she
didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of
being picked up by losers while she was trying to
do a workout. Thanks for the pleasant surprise!
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